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M\u1ed3m l\u00e0 c\u00e2m n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng b\u1edfi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c huy\u00ean thuy\u00ean m\u00e1y m\u00f3c. M\u1ed3m kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2m khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00f9ng b\u1edfi t\u00e2m tr\u00ed, nh\u01b0ng b\u1edfi im l\u1eb7ng. Cho n\u00ean nh\u1edb, c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e2m huy\u00ean thuy\u00ean li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi im l\u1eb7ng, th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 c\u00f3 m\u1ed3m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00e2m, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng huy\u00ean thuy\u00ean. H\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u00edch, h\u1ecd ch\u1ec9 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; h\u1ecd n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n.<\/div>\n
B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i — n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111i\u00ean b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 im l\u1eb7ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh im l\u1eb7ng. Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9c tho\u1ea1i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u1edb. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1eafng nghe ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ra v\u1ebb d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eafng nghe, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee3i kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00fang khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee3i kh\u1edbp n\u1ed1i \u0111\u00fang t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c, t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp qu\u1ea3n.<\/div>\n
T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe: M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t th\u00e0nh ph\u1ed1. Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ee5 t\u1eadp \u0111\u1ec3 nghe \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, h\u1ecd t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 b\u1ecf \u0111i. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o k\u1ebft th\u00fac b\u00e0i n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed7i Mulla Nasrudin c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e3nh \u0111\u1ea1o r\u1ea5t c\u00e1m \u01a1n v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t bi\u1ebft \u01a1n. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau t\u00f4i th\u1ebf v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo t\u00f4i th\u1ebf.” Nasrudin n\u00f3i: “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e2u, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady \u0111\u00e2u. T\u00f4i l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfp \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u.”<\/div>\n
Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eafng nghe b\u1ea1n, nh\u1edb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 di\u1ec5n gi\u1ea3 ti\u1ebfp; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ee3i b\u1ea1n k\u1ebft th\u00fac. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i m\u00e3i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb g\u00e2y ch\u00e1n, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebb g\u00e2y ch\u00e1n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, h\u1ecd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb g\u00e2y ch\u00e1n. H\u1ecd c\u1ee9 n\u00f3i m\u00e3i n\u00f3i m\u00e3i. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian nh\u1ecf \u0111\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfp qu\u1ea3n.<\/div>\n
Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i — l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y t\u1edbi t\u1eeb im l\u1eb7ng c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, t\u1eeb im l\u1eb7ng b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y. B\u1ea1n n\u00f3i — l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi t\u1eeb ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u00ean b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao Houn n\u00f3i: “\u00d4ng c\u00f3 m\u1eaft, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y.” T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? — v\u00ec m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129. C\u0169ng nh\u01b0 b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi b\u1ecb m\u00e2y che ph\u1ee7 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trong c\u01a1n m\u01b0a, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u; khi \u00fd ngh\u0129 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u, tr\u00f4i n\u1ed5i trong m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Khi \u00fd ngh\u0129 tr\u00f4i n\u1ed5i qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e2m.<\/div>\n
Im l\u1eb7ng \u0111i. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi im l\u1eb7ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n mang l\u1ef1c v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng m\u1ea1nh v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng; th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i hay kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a; m\u1ecdi c\u1eed ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u00e0i th\u01a1. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n ng\u1ed3i im l\u1eb7ng, b\u1ea1n to\u1ea3 ra n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng quanh b\u1ea1n — n\u00f3 l\u00e0 giao c\u1ea3m.<\/div>\n
Im l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i qua ch\u1ee9ng \u0111i\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb cho v\u00e0o ch\u1ed7 bi\u1ec7t l\u1eadp trong v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Sau tu\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 ba, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam n\u1eefa v\u1ec1 c\u00f3 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 nghe; b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ee3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00eam n\u1eefa. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f3 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb t\u1ed1ng ra.<\/div>\n
Vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea9y r\u1eeda, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c d\u1ecdn s\u1ea1ch. Nh\u01b0ng t\u1ea1i sao d\u1ecdn s\u1ea1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ed5 l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? T\u1ea1i sao n\u00e9m th\u1ee9 b\u1ea9n th\u1ec9u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n d\u1ecdn s\u1ea1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, d\u1ecdn s\u1ea1ch b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh th\u00f4i. \u0110\u00f3ng c\u1eeda l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nhi\u1ec1u tu\u1ef3 th\u00edch. H\u1ecfi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi v\u00e0 cho c\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi v\u00e0 l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1eb1ng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0m. Nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m n\u00f3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o. M\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. L\u00e0m n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh \u0111i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd s\u1edbm nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m trong c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n.<\/div>\n
Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft h\u01a1n, l\u1eddi c\u00e0ng bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t \u0111i, m\u00e2y bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Khi b\u1ea7u tr\u1eddi b\u00ean trong kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u00e2y, khi m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 l\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u00fd ngh\u0129, v\u00e0 m\u1ed3m b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1edbi im l\u1eb7ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec… th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1eaft, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tai, th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n — ch\u00fang l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n, trung gian. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec giao c\u1ea3m l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/div>\n<\/div>\n
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