B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd nghe th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a, “Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n”? Khi b\u1ea1n nghe th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean hay \u0111\u1ecdc n\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 sai r\u00e0nh r\u00e0nh hay c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. V\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00e1c th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp. “Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t nh\u1ea5t,” h\u1ecd n\u00f3i. “L\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n.”<\/p>\n
Ch\u00ednh \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y Atisha l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t v\u1eddi. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n
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Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n.<\/p>\n
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T\u1ea1i sao? Nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i g\u00ec? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t tham chi\u1ebfu, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. L\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fat n\u00e0o. S\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ebft. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
L\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u1edbi trao cho b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3ng c\u00e1c c\u00e1nh c\u1eeda c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p c\u00e1c tia s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0o trong ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 hoa s\u1ebd n\u1edf, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Tr\u0103ng s\u1ebd t\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111i, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u00f9 \u0111\u1ecdng. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 d\u00f2ng s\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n
S\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n. Ch\u1ec9 ao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, v\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y. Vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea3y b\u1edfi ch\u00ednh b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, v\u00ec n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u1edbi, th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c m\u1edbi. Nh\u1eefng kh\u00f4ng gian m\u1edbi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean t\u1edbi v\u1edbi n\u00f3; n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t, kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi logic, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecdc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 theo logic. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111i ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i logic ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tr\u00e1nh nh\u00ecn n\u00f3; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0m r\u1ed1i logic c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi logic l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngh\u00e8o nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 bao g\u1ed3m logic, m\u00e0 c\u00f2n bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 y\u00eau n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 y\u00eau l\u00e0 phi logic. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ecf c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 logic, ph\u1ea7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111i v\u00e0o trong phi logic nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, hay, \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u00ednh x\u00e1c h\u01a1n, si\u00eau logic.<\/p>\n
Logic l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t \u1edf b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u1edf trong \u0111\u1ec1n ch\u00f9a, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t \u1edf trong nh\u00e0 th\u1edd h\u1ed3i gi\u00e1o, kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t trong nh\u00e0 th\u1edd. Logic l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t trong v\u0103n ph\u00f2ng, trong c\u1eeda h\u00e0ng, trong c\u01a1 x\u01b0\u1edfng. Logic l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf c\u00f9ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f9ng con b\u1ea1n. Logic l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft theo c\u00e1ch kinh doanh. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 to\u00e0n kinh doanh; c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng h\u01a1n nhi\u1ec1u trong b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kinh doanh n\u00e0o. Cho ph\u00e9p c\u1ea3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa \u0111i.<\/p>\n
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M\u1ed9t gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 tri\u1ebft h\u1ecdc \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129 v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi xin l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n
“\u00d4ng d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 trong ho\u00e0n c\u1ea3nh th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea5t t\u1ed1t,” b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u00f3i, sau khi kh\u00e1m xong. “\u00d4ng ch\u1ea1y m\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eb7m m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y trong b\u1ea9y ng\u00e0y, r\u1ed3i g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n cho t\u00f4i.”<\/p>\n
M\u1ed9t tu\u1ea7n sau, gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n l\u1ea1i. “N\u00e0o,” b\u00e1c s\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb n\u00f3i, “vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3i thi\u1ec7n cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ch\u01b0a?”<\/p>\n
“T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft,” gi\u00e1o s\u01b0 n\u00f3i. “T\u00f4i \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i d\u1eb7m t\u1eeb nh\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.”<\/p>\n
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\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch t\u00e2m tr\u00ed logic v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t chi\u1ec1u. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 \u0111a chi\u1ec1u. \u0110\u1eebng h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf n\u00f3, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh tuy\u1ebfn t\u00ednh, \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng th\u1eb3ng. S\u1ed1ng \u0111a chi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, \u0111a pha c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed – kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y n\u00f3 l\u00e0 vui, kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00e1c n\u00f3 l\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n r\u1ea5t nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi; d\u00f9 tim b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f3c hay c\u01b0\u1eddi, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 Jimmy Carter v\u00e0 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi.<\/p>\n
T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe r\u1eb1ng v\u1ee3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y ph\u1ea3i kh\u00e9p mi\u1ec7ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi \u0111\u00eam, v\u00ec ban \u0111\u00eam n\u1eefa \u00f4ng \u1ea5y li\u00ean t\u1ee5c m\u1ec9m c\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c h\u00e0nh \u0111i\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u1ea3 ng\u00e0y, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i b\u1ea5t th\u1ea7n th\u1ebf v\u00e0o ban \u0111\u00eam? N\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng bao g\u1ed3m c\u1ea3 bu\u1ed3n n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 bu\u1ed3n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 hay; n\u00f3 c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, tinh t\u1ebf ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, ngon l\u00e0nh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u1ecb ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. M\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o h\u01a1n n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi bu\u1ed3n; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m ngh\u00e8o \u0111i, ngh\u00e8o \u0111i r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u. Ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 n\u00f4ng, ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u, v\u00ec chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi qua bu\u1ed3n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi bi\u1ebft bu\u1ed3n, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u01b0\u1eddi, ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u. Ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a bu\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa, ti\u1ebfng c\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd nhi\u1ec1u m\u1ea7u s\u1eafc h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng trong t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ea7u v\u1ed3ng; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 ph\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n.<\/p>\n
Atisha \u0111ang cho b\u1ea1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ef1c k\u00ec c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. S\u1ed1ng m\u1ecdi t\u00e2m tr\u1ea1ng c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111i; ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1eebng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian nh\u1ecf. D\u00f9 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u1ea5m c\u00fang th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1eebng tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb h\u1ea1n ch\u1ebf v\u00e0o m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng gian nh\u1ecf. L\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi phi\u00eau l\u01b0u \u0111i. T\u00ecm v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm m\u1ecdi m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, m\u1ecdi kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n
Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang; ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ed1t th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 vi\u1ebft b\u1ea3n ch\u1ee9ng ch\u1ec9 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t – v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u0111a chi\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n
S\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. H\u00e1t, m\u00faa, k\u00eau, kh\u00f3c, c\u01b0\u1eddi, y\u00eau, thi\u1ec1n, trong quan h\u1ec7, l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh. \u1ede b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f4i khi \u1edf trong n\u00fai.<\/p>\n
S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 ng\u1eafn ng\u1ee7i. S\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t ngh\u00e8o. T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n l\u00e0 d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m ng\u00e0y mai, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3n \u1ee9ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng b\u1ecb thao t\u00fang. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft nh\u1ea5n n\u00fat n\u00e0o v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd h\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e1y; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c th\u1ee5. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eadt v\u00e0 t\u1eaft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u01b0 x\u1eed t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng theo b\u1ea1n; ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf trong tay b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n; x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i g\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n l\u00e0 “t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch.” V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, hay \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, v\u00ec t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra v\u1edbi gi\u00e1 c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng t\u1eeb b\u1ecf s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? T\u1eebng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 m\u1edbi, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n
X\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f4ng d\u00e2n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng – nh\u01b0ng ai quan t\u00e2m? Ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c quan t\u00e2m ch\u1ec9 t\u1edbi m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: Li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i hay kh\u00f4ng, li\u1ec7u t\u00f4i c\u00f3 \u0111ang s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i hay kh\u00f4ng, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n
Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m quan tr\u1ecdng nh\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1edbi qu\u1ed1c gia hay v\u1edbi nh\u00e0 th\u1edd hay v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c. Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1eabn t\u1edbi, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec tho\u1ea3 hi\u1ec7p n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m tho\u1ea3 hi\u1ec7p. T\u00ednh c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o cho x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng nguy hi\u1ec3m,” v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 v\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, “T\u00f4i s\u1ebd tu\u00e2n theo c\u00e1c qui t\u1eafc c\u1ee7a tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i, t\u00f4i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trong vi\u1ec7c tu\u1ef3 \u00fd s\u1eed d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c v\u1ecb.”<\/p>\n
Th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, do \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. Hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, do \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Socrates l\u00e0 hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n, Jesus l\u00e0 hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n, L\u00e3o T\u1eed l\u00e0 hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0ng r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 nh\u1eadn ra h\u1ecd, g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec d\u1ea5u v\u1ebft n\u00e0o \u0111\u1eb1ng sau h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng kh\u1edbp v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khu\u00f4n m\u1eabu n\u00e0o, h\u1ecd l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft. H\u1ecd gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 chim bay tr\u00ean tr\u1eddi, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 l\u1ea1i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec v\u1ebft ch\u00e2n n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n l\u00e0m th\u1ea7y ch\u1ec9 d\u00e0nh cho r\u1ea5t \u00edt h\u1ed3n nh\u1ea1y c\u1ea3m, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111i theo th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n. Ch\u1ec9 r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00f4ng minh ho\u00e0 h\u1ee3p b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd v\u1edbi hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n, v\u00ec hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec mong \u0111\u1ee3i n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n kh\u00f3 ch\u1ecbu, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0m rung chuy\u1ec3n b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 l\u00e0m tan n\u00e1t b\u1ea1n theo nhi\u1ec1u nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e1ch.<\/p>\n
D\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n, d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 do nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1eady.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7”, T.1, Ch.13<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd nghe th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u01b0a, “Kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t qu\u00e1n”? Khi b\u1ea1n nghe th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u … <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":525,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[22],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-524","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-cach-song-va-chet"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/524","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=524"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/524\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":526,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/524\/revisions\/526"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/525"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=524"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=524"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=524"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}
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