Ph\u1ea3i ch\u0103ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3?<\/p>\n
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Mukti Gandha, v\u00e2ng. Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. Y\u00eau t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb k\u1ebft th\u00fac. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 danh t\u1eeb; d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi, tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 qua. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ni\u1ec1m vui, kh\u00f4ng nhi\u1ec7t t\u00ecnh, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang n\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 gi\u1eef l\u1eddi h\u1ee9a c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang n\u00f3 v\u00ec n\u00f3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, thu\u1eadn ti\u1ec7n, \u1ea5m c\u00fang. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang n\u00f3 v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang n\u00f3 v\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1 b\u1ecf n\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c h\u01a1n cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n
M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac, b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng l\u1ea1i. Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7; y\u00eau l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 s\u00f4ng, tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y, kh\u00f4ng d\u1ee9t. Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi d\u1ea5u ch\u1ea5m h\u1ebft; tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd k\u1ebft th\u00fac. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ti\u1ec3u thuy\u1ebft m\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u1edf \u0111i\u1ec3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng ti\u1ebfp di\u1ec5n m\u00e3i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau k\u1ebft th\u00fac, y\u00eau ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 danh t\u1eeb. V\u00e0 t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta thu c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7 th\u00e0nh m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7? T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta \u1edf trong v\u1ed9i v\u00e0ng th\u1ebf? – v\u00ec t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t an ninh, c\u00f2n m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 an ninh, m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn. T\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 c\u1ee7a hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 \u1edf l\u1ea1i qua \u0111\u00eam v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn s\u00e1ng ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i l\u1eddi t\u1ea1m bi\u1ec7t. Ai bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra ng\u00e0y mai? V\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ee3 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m cho n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh d\u1ef1 \u0111o\u00e1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n ng\u00e0y mai t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta; ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p n\u00f3 t\u1ef1 do c\u00f3 l\u1eddi n\u00f3i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c thu m\u1ecdi \u0111\u1ed9ng t\u1eeb th\u00e0nh danh t\u1eeb.<\/p>\n
B\u1ea1n \u0111ang trong y\u00eau v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 t\u1edbi h\u00f4n nh\u00e2n. L\u00e0m n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh h\u1ee3p \u0111\u1ed3ng h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p. T\u1ea1i sao? L\u00e0m sao lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p t\u1edbi trong y\u00eau? Lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p t\u1edbi trong y\u00eau v\u00ec y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng s\u1ebd bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng, tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi n\u00f3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n
Trong m\u1ed9t th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n, v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n h\u01a1n, v\u1edbi ch\u00fat \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1eefa ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 lan to\u1ea3 kh\u1eafp tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd y\u00eau, y\u00eau m\u00eanh m\u00f4ng, nh\u01b0ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 quan h\u1ec7. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 nh\u1ea5t th\u1eddi. C\u00f3 m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n y\u00eau c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft cao h\u01a1n, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u01a1 ca h\u01a1n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf h\u01a1n trong n\u00f3. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 k\u00e9o d\u00e0i h\u01a1n c\u00e1i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n k\u00e9o d\u00e0i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o b\u1edfi lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p, b\u1edfi to\u00e0 \u00e1n, b\u1edfi c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t.<\/p>\n
Vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u1edf b\u00ean trong. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft t\u1eeb tim, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 giao c\u1ea3m im l\u1eb7ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng \u1edf c\u00f9ng ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3 ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m s\u1ef1 th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 c\u00f3 v\u00e0i \u0111o\u00e1 hoa c\u1ee7a y\u00eau m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 n\u1edf sau vi\u1ec7c th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft l\u00e2u d\u00e0i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng hoa m\u00f9a v\u1ee5 n\u1eefa; trong v\u00f2ng s\u00e1u tu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 trong \u00e1nh m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng trong v\u00f2ng s\u00e1u tu\u1ea7n ch\u00fang l\u1ea1i m\u1ea5t \u0111i m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. C\u00f3 nh\u1eefng hoa c\u1ea7n h\u00e0ng n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1edbi, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng hoa c\u1ea7n nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1edbi. N\u00f3 c\u00e0ng c\u1ea7n th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u h\u01a1n, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n
Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft t\u1eeb tim n\u00e0y sang tim kia. N\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi, v\u00ec n\u00f3i th\u00e0nh l\u1eddi l\u00e0 ph\u1ec9 b\u00e1ng n\u00f3. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 cam k\u1ebft im l\u1eb7ng; m\u1eaft sang m\u1eaft, tim sang tim, ng\u01b0\u1eddi sang ng\u01b0\u1eddi. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i.<\/p>\n
\u0110i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u th\u1ebf khi th\u1ea5y m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 th\u1edd hay to\u00e0 \u00e1n \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft h\u00f4n. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u th\u1ebf, v\u00f4 nh\u00e2n th\u1ebf. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1ec9 ra h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o c\u1ea3nh s\u00e1t nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n h\u1ecd tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. N\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ra h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o y\u00eau c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o lu\u1eadt ph\u00e1p.<\/p>\n
Gandha, qu\u00ean m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111i v\u00e0 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u1edf trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u coi nhau l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 m\u1ecdi chuy\u1ec7n t\u00ecnh. \u0110\u00e0n b\u00e0 ngh\u0129 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ngh\u0129 anh ta bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. Kh\u00f4ng ai bi\u1ebft. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed. V\u00e0 coi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 x\u00fac ph\u1ea1m, l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ednh.<\/p>\n
Ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t v\u00f4 \u01a1n. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0? L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng? H\u1ecd l\u00e0 c\u00e1c qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1eadt. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft h\u00f4m qua kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 h\u00f4m nay. Nhi\u1ec1u n\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea3y xu\u00f4i s\u00f4ng H\u1eb1ng; c\u00f4 \u1ea5y l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. L\u1ea1i t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7 \u0111i, b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u1ea1i \u0111i, \u0111\u1eebng coi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean c\u00f3.<\/p>\n
V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng b\u1ea1n ng\u1ee7 c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00eam qua, nh\u00ecn m\u1eb7t anh \u1ea5y l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa v\u00e0o bu\u1ed5i s\u00e1ng \u0111i. Anh \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169, nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 th\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. Nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 th\u1ebf, nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ednh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, \u0111\u00e3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa v\u1eadt v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi. \u0110\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ea1c trong ph\u00f2ng l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 c\u0169, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 c\u0169. L\u1ea1i th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m, l\u1ea1i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1edfi t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7.<\/p>\n
T\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 tr\u1edf n\u00ean quen thu\u1ed9c. L\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i, c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang gi\u1edbi thi\u1ec7u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi nhau. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u kh\u00eda c\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n c\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, v\u00e0o trong ch\u1ed7 th\u1ea7m k\u00edn s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u0111ang c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m s\u00e1ng t\u1ecf.<\/p>\n
\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a y\u00eau: vi\u1ec7c th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng thu n\u00f3 th\u00e0nh quan h\u1ec7, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ea5m g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u1ea1n. Th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u00e1m hi\u1ec3m b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. \u0110i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia, bi\u1ebft c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u00fd ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, nh\u1eefng khu\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e2u h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft nh\u1eefng khu\u1ea5y \u0111\u1ed9ng s\u00e2u h\u01a1n c\u1ee7a ri\u00eang b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh g\u01b0\u01a1ng cho nhau, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec y\u00eau tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thi\u1ec1n. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n
Trong m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 c\u1ea3 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u00f9 v\u1edbi nhau. Ngh\u0129 m\u00e0 xem, \u0111\u00e3 bao l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o v\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n, t\u1eeb m\u1eaft sang m\u1eaft? \u0110\u00e3 bao l\u00e2u r\u1ed3i k\u1ec3 t\u1eeb l\u00fac b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea1n? C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m r\u1ed3i. Ai nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o v\u1ee3 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 coi \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng nhi\u00ean r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. C\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u01a1n n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o? B\u1ea1n quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1 h\u01a1n nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft – b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ecba h\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 h\u1ecd, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng, b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i x\u1ea3y ra l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n
N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i; m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 m\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y. Ch\u1ec9 m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u0169, gi\u1ea3 \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u0169, g\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1ee5 b\u1ee5i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ph\u1ea3n x\u1ea1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Do \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7. B\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i t\u1ea1o quan h\u1ec7, t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c trong tu\u1ea7n tr\u0103ng m\u1eadt. Li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u00ecm v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm l\u1eabn nhau, t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau l\u1eabn nhau, t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch m\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf c\u00f9ng nhau. V\u00e0 t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed v\u00f4 h\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng th\u0103m d\u00f2 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft c\u00f4 \u1ea5y,” hay, “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft anh \u1ea5y.” Nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, “M\u00ecnh \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 h\u1ebft s\u1ee9c, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed.”<\/p>\n
Th\u1ef1c ra b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng bi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed h\u01a1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec y\u00eau l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c phi\u00eau l\u01b0u th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean.<\/p>\n
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T\u1eeb “S\u00e1ch v\u1ec1 Tr\u00ed hu\u1ec7”, T.1, Ch.12<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"
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