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L\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1edbi ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n ch\u1ebft -b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng th\u00eam n\u1eefa. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y: L\u00e0 v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n! Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1eaft b\u1ecf ham mu\u1ed1n; c\u00e0ng nhi\u1ec1u ham mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb c\u1eaft \u0111i, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n h\u01a1n. N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed, t\u1ef1 t\u1eed t\u00e2m linh.<\/p>\n

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Kh\u00f4ng, ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi ham mu\u1ed1n?<\/p>\n

Ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i: l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, t\u1ef1 do to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n. Ham mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c… ch\u1eb3ng h\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3, nh\u00e0 m\u1edbi x\u00e2y, v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u1ef1 do \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y hay kh\u00f4ng? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ef1 do. Ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y c\u00f2n dai d\u1eb3ng. Cho d\u00f9 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecf n\u00f3, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – n\u00f3 \u00e1m t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng gi\u1ea5c m\u01a1 v\u1ec1 ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. T\u00f4i s\u1ee3 \u0111i m\u00e3i tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra ghen t\u1ecb trong t\u00f4i, ng\u00f4i nh\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra r\u1ed1i ren trong t\u00f4i.” N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n,” th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i l\u00e0nh m\u1ea1nh – th\u1ebf th\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ch\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 n\u1ea1n nh\u00e2n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00ec c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u th\u1ee9 di\u1ec5n ra xung quanh, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nhi\u1ec1u ham mu\u1ed1n th\u1ebf \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb\u00a0 gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra: ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng, gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee7 t\u01b0\u1edbng; ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t gi\u1ea7u, gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t gi\u1ea7u; ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 v\u0103n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng, gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 v\u0103n n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng. V\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c… v\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c… v\u00e0 kh\u1eafp xung quanh c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang l\u00e0m h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u th\u1ee9. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi ng\u00f3c ng\u00e1ch m\u1ed9t ham mu\u1ed1n n\u1ea3y sinh v\u00e0 nh\u1ea3y l\u00ean b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1ea1n, c\u00f2n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c n\u00f3i c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecb \u0111i\u00ean. M\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o nhi\u1ec1u h\u01b0\u1edbng th\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean ph\u00e2n m\u1ea3nh, v\u00ec nhi\u1ec1u ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1edf h\u1eefu c\u00e1c ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i c\u00f2n m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi nhau n\u1eefa. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n m\u1ea3nh: b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn. Ph\u1ea7n n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t gi\u1ea7u, ph\u1ea7n kh\u00e1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 – gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f3. R\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ea7u v\u00e0 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1. Nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u0169 ph\u00e0ng th\u1ebf; s\u1ebd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u1ea7u.<\/p>\n

Ti\u1ec1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u01a1 ca: ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0 m\u00e1u, ti\u1ec1n l\u00e0 khai th\u00e1c. Nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 x\u1ee9ng danh kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 khai th\u00e1c. V\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 x\u1ee9ng danh s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 x\u1ea5u th\u1ebf khi l\u1ea5y \u0111i c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00edch tr\u1eef ti\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n thi\u1ec1n; b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n n\u1eefa. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. L\u00e0m sao ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? – v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o ng\u1ee5 \u00fd kh\u00f4ng tham v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i tham v\u1ecdng thu\u1ea7n tu\u00fd.<\/p>\n

T\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o ng\u1ee5 \u00fd: t\u00f4i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang v\u1eady. Ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb ng\u1ee5 \u00fd: t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1ec9 khi t\u00f4i \u1edf tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh – t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i \u0111ang v\u1eady. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ea1y v\u00e0 x\u00f4 \u0111\u1ea9y, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 n\u1ebfu \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. N\u1ebfu b\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n \u0111\u00fang, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; n\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1eb1ng ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n sai – nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u1edf tr\u00ean \u0111\u1ec9nh, t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ee9ng minh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n

Ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ecbu ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m – k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi hay cao si\u00eau.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1c ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i trong ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. Morarji Desai gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 mang l\u1ea1i l\u1ee3i trong ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u00e1 h\u00ecnh m\u00e0 Jimmy Carter \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m: \u00f4ng ta t\u1edbi \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta y\u00eau c\u1ea7u, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u1edf \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9, ba gi\u1edd d\u00e0nh cho l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n. \u00d4ng ta bi\u1ebft \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o – ba gi\u1edd cho l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n sao?! C\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khoe khoang. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u00f3 trong ph\u00f2ng ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n – ba ph\u00fat l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 – ba gi\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 – ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 – v\u00ec l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n ch\u1eb3ng li\u00ean quan g\u00ec t\u1edbi th\u1eddi gian: n\u00f3 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, l\u1eddi c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n ba gi\u1edd! C\u0169ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u0111i: nghe Jimmy Carter trong ba gi\u1edd… \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 \u0111\u00e1ng th\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u00f3! Ch\u1eb3ng ai ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i g\u00ec trong ba gi\u1edd? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m Ng\u00e0i ph\u00e1t ch\u00e1n \u0111\u1ebfn ch\u1ebft! Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng ta bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 l\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1edfi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 Jimmy Carter c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m g\u00ec trong ba gi\u1edd, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n g\u00ec trong ba gi\u1edd? Ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n ngay c\u1ea3 trong ba ph\u00fat; \u00f4ng ta s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 m\u1ecdi l\u00fac v\u1ec1 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o ng\u1ee5 \u00fd l\u00e0 v\u00f4 tham v\u1ecdng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c – l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd!<\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 hai \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y c\u00f9ng nhau, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 thi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd trong kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi ph\u00e1t kh\u00f9ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n trung th\u1ef1c, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean; n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng trung th\u1ef1c, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t \u0111i\u00ean – th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c gi\u1ea3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00e1c ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch: trong s\u1ed1 m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 trong c\u00e1c lo\u1ea1i ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb kh\u00e1c nhau: ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u1ea5p b\u1eadc c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 linh m\u1ee5c mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gi\u00e1o ho\u00e0ng – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb. Hay, t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb, n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m k\u00e9m c\u1ecfi; l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa, m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 linh thi\u00eang, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, th\u00e1nh thi\u1ec7n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd mang quanh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a ‘linh thi\u00eang h\u01a1n ng\u01b0\u01a1i’. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c k\u1ebft \u00e1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong m\u1eaft b\u1ea1n; th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ecb k\u1ebft \u00e1n di\u1ec7t vong v\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee9u. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u1edbi s\u1ef1 th\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u1ea1i: Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n – nh\u1edb l\u1ea5y – ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ng\u00e3 th\u1ebf ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n. Khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3; ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n c\u0169ng \u0111ang c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 ch\u1ee9ng minh r\u1eb1ng “T\u00f4i khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n \u0111\u00e2y”; hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng s\u00e2u b\u00ean trong l\u00f2ng m\u00ecnh r\u1eb1ng “T\u00f4i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.” \u0110\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3!<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd \u00e1m \u1ea3nh b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ebd m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb k\u00e9o ra v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1eddi ra th\u00e0nh c\u00e1c m\u1ea3nh m\u1ea9u, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t t\u00ednh to\u00e0n v\u1eb9n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n

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V\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/em><\/p>\n

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B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u: b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i c\u1eaft x\u00e9n ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb c\u1eaft ra. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u01b0 Jaina – ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i v\u1ecf r\u1ed7ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ea5t m\u00e3n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, v\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n; kh\u00f4ng s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, kh\u00f4ng m\u1edf h\u1ed9i m\u1eebng, kh\u00f4ng hoa n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd n\u1edf. Hay b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ham mu\u1ed1n: th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb gi\u1eb1ng x\u00e9 ra. C\u1ea3 hai l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i x\u1ea5u.<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn, t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ch\u1ecdn: c\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1ea3 t\u00ednh s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o, m\u1edf h\u1ed9i m\u1eebng, ni\u1ec1m vui c\u1ee7a ham mu\u1ed1n, v\u00e0 im l\u1eb7ng v\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 ham mu\u1ed1n.<\/p>\n

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T\u1eeb \u201cB\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n, bay kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1nh v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed\u201d, Ch.3 Y\u00eau l\u00e0 ph\u1ee5c sinh<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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