{"id":3487,"date":"2026-11-02T04:37:05","date_gmt":"2026-11-02T04:37:05","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3487"},"modified":"2026-11-02T04:37:05","modified_gmt":"2026-11-02T04:37:05","slug":"tai-sao-bo-me-ac-voi-con-ho","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3487","title":{"rendered":"T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u00e1c v\u1edbi con h\u1ecd"},"content":{"rendered":"

T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u00e1c th\u1ebf v\u1edbi con h\u1ecd? C\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng? V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh ph\u1ea1m c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y?<\/em><\/p>\n

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B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u00e1c v\u1edbi con h\u1ecd v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o ch\u00fang. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 tham v\u1ecdng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh qua con h\u1ecd – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd \u00e1c. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n d\u00f9ng con h\u1ecd. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n d\u00f9ng ai \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 \u00e1c. Trong ch\u00ednh \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 d\u00f9ng ai \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n, t\u00ednh \u00e1c \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00e0o, b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ed1i x\u1eed v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n! – v\u00ec t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch l\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 l\u00e0 \u00e1c v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng: h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n con h\u1ecd l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y v\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u1ecd. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n con h\u1ecd gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3, n\u1ed5i danh, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng; h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n con h\u1ecd ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh nh\u1eefng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. Con h\u1ecd s\u1ebd l\u00e0 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n

B\u1ed1 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 gi\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd ch\u1ebft \u0111ang ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi; s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n anh ta s\u1ebd b\u1ecb c\u1eaft r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng: anh ta c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. Anh ta v\u1eabn \u0111ang t\u00ecm v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm… v\u00e0 gi\u1edd ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi – \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 v\u1ebb b\u1ea5t c\u00f4ng th\u1ebf. Anh ta mu\u1ed1n con m\u00ecnh ti\u1ebfn h\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c, v\u00ec con anh ta \u0111\u1ea1i di\u1ec7n cho anh ta. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u00e1u c\u1ee7a anh ta, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a anh ta, m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a anh ta – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ednh b\u1ea5t t\u1eed c\u1ee7a anh ta. Ai bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u1ed3n? Kh\u00f4ng ai \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin, nh\u01b0ng tin l\u00e0 t\u1eeb s\u1ee3, v\u00e0 s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi nghi ng\u1edd c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

T\u1eebng ni\u1ec1m tin \u0111\u1ec1u mang nghi ng\u1edd trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nghi ng\u1edd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ni\u1ec1m tin n\u00e0o. \u0110\u1ec3 k\u00ecm n\u00e9n nghi ng\u1edd, ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra ni\u1ec1m tin – nh\u01b0ng nghi ng\u1edd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n g\u1eb7m nh\u1ea5m trong l\u00f2ng nh\u01b0 con s\u00e2u trong qu\u1ea3 t\u00e1o; n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0103n \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u00e0m m\u1ee5c r\u1eefa b\u1ea1n t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong. Ai bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u00e0 ai bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 h\u1ed3n? Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3.<\/p>\n

T\u00ednh b\u1ea5t t\u1eed duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 qua tr\u1ebb con – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. B\u1ed1 bi\u1ebft, “M\u00ecnh s\u1ebd s\u1ed1ng trong con m\u00ecnh. M\u00ecnh s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft, m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd s\u1edbm \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng con m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y. V\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh.” Anh ta \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3, c\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0o trong \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con m\u00ecnh: “Con ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00fang. N\u1ebfu con ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00fang, b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. N\u1ebfu con ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00fang, con \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00f3n n\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a con cho b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a con. N\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00fang, con \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3n b\u1ed9i b\u1ed1.”<\/p>\n

\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ch\u1ed7 \u00e1c b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd, b\u1ed1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1ea1o khu\u00f4n cho con theo ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a anh ta. Anh ta qu\u00ean r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 h\u1ed3n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 t\u00ednh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh b\u00ean trong ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 b\u1ed9c l\u1ed9 ra. B\u1ed1 \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a anh ta. Anh ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 con.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 anh ta ngh\u0129 anh ta y\u00eau: anh ta ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau tham v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Anh ta y\u00eau con c\u0169ng v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00e1c l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi t\u00f4i:<\/p>\n

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T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u00e1c th\u1ebf v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd?<\/em><\/p>\n

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H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng, tham v\u1ecdng, ham mu\u1ed1n – ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh ch\u00fang, h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c s\u1ed1ng qua con h\u1ecd. M\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, h\u1ecd t\u1ec9a, h\u1ecd c\u1eaft, h\u1ecd t\u1ea1o khu\u00f4n, h\u1ecd cho con h\u1ecd h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7.<\/p>\n

Vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u1ea3y ra – ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o con ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a n\u1ea3y sinh tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t, ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u00eau v\u00ec y\u00eau; ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o t\u01b0 c\u00e1ch cha m\u1eb9 m\u1edbi c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quan ni\u1ec7m: b\u1ea1n y\u00eau con ch\u1ec9 v\u00ec ni\u1ec1m vui v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a y\u00eau, b\u1ea1n y\u00eau con nh\u01b0 m\u00f3n qu\u00e0 t\u1eeb Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n y\u00eau con v\u00ec Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady… ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh th\u1ebf cho b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n y\u00eau con v\u00ec con l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, v\u1ecb kh\u00e1ch t\u1eeb c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 n\u00e1u m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0o trong con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 n\u01a1i n\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1a. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u01a1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n y\u00eau con.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 y\u00eau con, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho con c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Y\u00eau kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u00fd th\u1ee9c h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o. Y\u00eau cho t\u1ef1 do. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o khu\u00f4n. N\u1ebfu con b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u1ea1c s\u0129, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m sao l\u00e3ng n\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n r\u00f5 r\u1eb1ng l\u00e0 nh\u1ea1c s\u0129 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ngh\u00e8o, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t gi\u1ea7u, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t Henry Ford. Hay con b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 th\u01a1 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin. B\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3! Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng con.<\/p>\n

Y\u00eau bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng. Y\u00eau l\u00e0 t\u00f4n k\u00ednh. B\u1ea1n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng! v\u00ec n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh qua \u0111\u1ee9a con, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady \u0111i. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng can thi\u1ec7p, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng chen v\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, “\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang. B\u1ed1 bi\u1ebft cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, b\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng – con ch\u1ec9 d\u1ed1t v\u1ec1 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 c\u00e1c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ed1 bi\u1ebft ti\u1ec1n ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Th\u01a1 ca s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho con ti\u1ec1n. Thay v\u00ec th\u1ebf tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u00ednh kh\u00e1ch \u0111i! hay \u00edt nh\u1ea5t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u0129 s\u01b0 hay b\u00e1c s\u0129.” V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a con mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ti\u1ec1u phu, hay \u0111\u1ee9a con mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee3 gi\u1ea7y, hay \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb lang thang, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng… ngh\u1ec9 d\u01b0\u1edbi c\u00e2y, v\u00e0 tr\u00ean b\u00e3i bi\u1ec3n, v\u00e0 lang thang kh\u1eafp th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng can thi\u1ec7p n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n y\u00eau; b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “\u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u1edbi ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 con \u0111i \u0111i. Con t\u00ecm v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm ch\u00e2n l\u00ed c\u1ee7a con. Con l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0. B\u1ed1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafn \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a con. V\u00e0 b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i con b\u1eb1ng kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 – v\u00ec tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 l\u00e0 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1. Con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 b\u1ed1. Con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi qua b\u1ed1, nh\u01b0ng con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 b\u1ed1 – con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1. Con kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n sao c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1. Con kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft ch\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed1. B\u1ed1 \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 – con s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi c\u1ee7a con. B\u1ed1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh cho con b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1. B\u1ed1 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh con b\u1edfi nh\u1eefng ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1. B\u1ed1 s\u1ebd gi\u1eef cho con s\u00e1ng. V\u00e0 b\u1ed1 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap con – d\u00f9 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec con mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0, l\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111i! v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ph\u00fac l\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 t\u1eeb b\u1ed1.”<\/p>\n

Tr\u1ebb con t\u1edbi qua b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, ch\u00fang thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3. \u0110\u1eebng s\u1edf h\u1eefu ch\u00fang. \u0110\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. L\u00e0m sao ch\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c?<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t khi c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn n\u00e0y n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec – th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1c.<\/p>\n

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B\u1ea1n h\u1ecfi:<\/p>\n

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T\u1ea1i sao b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u00e1c th\u1ebf v\u1edbi con c\u00e1i h\u1ecd? C\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cho h\u1ecd ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m kh\u00f4ng?<\/em><\/p>\n

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Kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ngh\u0129a n\u00e0o trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m – v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd r\u1ed3i, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf m\u00e3i…. Vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. T\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u01a1 \u0111\u1ea7u ch\u1ecbu b\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap g\u00ec. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4i \u0111ang ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 v\u00ec b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 t\u00f4i – t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec?” T\u00f4i bi\u1ebft, b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7, nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ec7t n\u00ean quanh b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i b\u1eaby n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t quanh b\u1ea1n! T\u1ef1 do c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb nh\u1ed1t v\u00e0o l\u1ed3ng, nh\u01b0ng t\u1ef1 do l\u00e0 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c, l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7. N\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm l\u1ea1i n\u00f3. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec7m v\u1ee5 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, gian nan, v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3, v\u00e0 c\u1ea7n c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng \u00edch g\u00ec m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed5 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc c\u1ee7a Freud \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i h\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i, “B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec? B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady – m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, b\u1ed1 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady, vi\u1ec7c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng cho b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 sai. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5 t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0y.” B\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i – b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u1eefa.<\/p>\n

Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m trong hai ngh\u00ecn n\u0103m, \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc \u0111i sang c\u1ef1c \u0111oan kia: n\u00f3 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i – b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n qu\u00ean m\u1ecdi t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n qu\u00ean m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u v\u1ec1 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m!<\/p>\n

Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i – b\u00e2y gi\u1edd ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ea1i b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1eeb c\u1ef1c \u0111oan kia, b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1o ra \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 v\u00f4 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nh\u1edb: b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y l\u00e0m nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 – b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng d\u1ea1y h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u0169ng b\u1edfi c\u00e1c b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9; h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi th\u1eb3ng t\u1eeb c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi. Cho n\u00ean ph\u1ecfng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed5 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i sau? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap g\u00ec; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap gi\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00e0o. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 gi\u00fap l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 g\u00e1nh cho b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, ph\u1ea7n t\u1ed1t; ph\u1ea7n \u00edch l\u1ee3i c\u1ee7a ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m h\u1ecdc l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 l\u00e0m nh\u1eb9 g\u00e1nh b\u1ea1n kh\u1ecfi t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. V\u00e0 ph\u1ea7n h\u1ea1i l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 b\u1ecf b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y c\u00f3 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m.<\/p>\n

C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c. T\u00f4i d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n t\u00ednh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. T\u00f4i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec b\u1edfi t\u00ednh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m? B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u00e0o, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec tu s\u0129 n\u00e0o – b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. T\u00ednh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do! T\u00ednh tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng “T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i c\u1ea7m d\u00e2y c\u01b0\u01a1ng ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i trong tay ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 r\u1ed3i! B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ea1i – b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m r\u1ed3i: t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, c\u1ea3 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 trong tay ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u s\u1ed1ng theo c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 n\u1ea3y sinh trong t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i c\u1ed1ng hi\u1ebfn m\u1ecdi n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd.” V\u00e0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh l\u1edbn t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

T\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u1ebfu: tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea1nh. Tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m cho l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng, tin t\u01b0\u1edfng, tin c\u1eady.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh sannyas. T\u00ednh sannyas mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi Ki t\u00f4 gi\u00e1o, Hindu gi\u00e1o, Jaina gi\u00e1o, M\u00f4 ha m\u00e9t gi\u00e1o, v\u00e0 t\u00ednh sannyas mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m Freud v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u1eefa. T\u00ednh sannyas mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c, theo ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ti\u1ebfng n\u00f3i n\u00e0o kh\u00e1c t\u1eeb b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o. Kh\u00f4ng theo Kinh Th\u00e1nh hay theo Koran. N\u1ebfu Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong Koran, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd d\u00e0nh cho Mohammed, kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf v\u1edbi Mohammed, kh\u00f4ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra Koran ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n!<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu Jesus \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi hay \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fang l\u00e0 t\u1eeb \u0111\u1ed1i tho\u1ea1i \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra gi\u1eefa \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u00e0 t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111\u1eebng li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra<\/em> trong b\u1ea1n, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n! Ch\u00fang gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 hoa nh\u1ef1a: b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 mang hoa h\u1ed3ng gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 treo n\u00f3 v\u00e0o b\u1ee5i h\u1ed3ng – v\u00e2ng, ch\u00fang gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 – n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0 hoa h\u1ed3ng m\u1ecdc ra t\u1eeb b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ee5i h\u1ed3ng.<\/p>\n

B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y nhi\u1ec1u hoa \u0111\u1eb9p th\u1ebf \u0111ang n\u1edf tr\u00ean b\u1ee5i h\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang to\u00e0n l\u00e0 hoa gi\u1ea3. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ee5i h\u1ed3ng – b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i l\u1eddi c\u1ee7a Jesus, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf th\u1ed1t ra trong xe c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ecdc b\u1ee9c th\u1ee9 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1eedi cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c! \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ee3p ph\u00e1p; b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng m\u1edf phong b\u00ec. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm v\u00e0 t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi c\u00e1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u00f3 t\u00f4i g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m. \u0110\u00e1p \u1ee9ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c t\u1ef1 ph\u00e1t \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u1eb7t quan h\u1ec7. \u0110\u00e1p \u1ee9ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng l\u1ea1i c\u00e1c t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u1ee9ng theo l\u00f2ng b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng theo b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai kh\u00e1c. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean ch\u00e2n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 nh\u1edb, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean ch\u00e2n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng b\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n v\u00e0 bay kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1nh. Ngo\u00e0i ra th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2u.<\/p>\n

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V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y?<\/em><\/p>\n

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Ch\u1ec9 c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u nh\u1eefng sai l\u1ea7m \u0111\u00f3 th\u00f4i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1, t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang b\u1ecb ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m v\u00e0o ch\u00fang. Th\u1ea5y ra ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u1ed5i. Ch\u00e2n l\u00ed gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ea5y ra v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1! – t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 b\u1ea1n. \u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1t; h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. H\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn, h\u1ecd ao \u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u1ecdi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea7u, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf c\u00e1c ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, c\u1eaft \u0111i ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea1o khu\u00f4n b\u1ea1n, t\u1ea1o h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu cho b\u1ea1n, c\u1ea5u tr\u00fac b\u1ea1n, cho b\u1ea1n t\u00ednh c\u00e1ch, \u0111\u00e8 n\u00e9n nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9, \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. \u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang: h\u1ecd mu\u1ed1n b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m, m\u1eb7c d\u1ea7u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 g\u00ec. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh! V\u00e0 v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n

\u01af\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t – \u0111\u1eebng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1eadn h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. C\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfc cho h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd gi\u1eadn h\u1ecd. \u0110\u1eebng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec gi\u1eadn d\u1eef n\u00e0o! H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c! H\u1ecd b\u1ecb m\u1eafc v\u00e0o c\u00e1i b\u1eaby n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1n. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd; h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng trong vi\u1ec7c ki\u1ebfm ti\u1ec1n, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n v\u1edbi \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng ngu xu\u1ea9n \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng ti\u1ec1n mang l\u1ea1i h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n n\u1eefa. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n – h\u1ecd t\u01b0\u1edfng h\u1ecd \u0111ang r\u00f3t n\u01b0\u1edbc cam l\u1ed3 v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. M\u01a1 c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, nh\u01b0ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft – \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111i. T\u00ecm h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111i. T\u00ecm ra h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. Thi\u1ec1n, c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n, y\u00eau. S\u1ed1ng \u0111am m\u00ea v\u00e0 m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t! N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u00e1c v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai – b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 th\u1ebf \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 n\u1ebfm tr\u1ea3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 v\u1edbi con ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o ch\u00fat n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n h\u1ecfi “V\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh ph\u1ea1m c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7n \u0111\u00f3?” N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea1m c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea1m c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y! B\u1ea1n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh l\u00e0 v\u1eady, b\u1ea1n mang \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh ph\u1ea1m c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7m n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n manh m\u1ed1i l\u00e0m sao tr\u00e1nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c – t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 s\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t. S\u00e1ng su\u1ed1t l\u00e0: b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh – xin b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u0111i. B\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft – b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111i. V\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y – nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac – kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 hai \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u00e0 l\u00e0 hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n

B\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac! V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1edb: con b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn; b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1eebng mong \u0111\u1ee3i t\u1eeb con b\u1ea1n nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con! Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, c\u1ea3nh quan kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00ean ch\u00fang. Cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fang v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 tr\u1ebb con, v\u00ec ch\u00fang s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa; v\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t r\u1ed3i, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y luy\u1ebfn ti\u1ebfc v\u1ec1 th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a thi\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u1eebng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00f4i khi th\u1eadt kh\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a con b\u1ea1n – v\u00ec b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u00e1nh m\u1ea5t n\u00f3! \u0110\u1ee9a con c\u1ed1 tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y; b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u1ee3 – n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00e3, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1eaby ch\u00e2n, hay c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i sai. V\u00e0 t\u1eeb s\u1ee3 b\u1ea1n x\u00f4 ra v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ng\u0103n con. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y vui l\u00e0m sao, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 \u0111\u1ec3 con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc c\u00e1ch tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y! B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0a n\u00f3 t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng n\u01a1i n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y c\u00e1ch tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y. B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u0103n n\u00f3 l\u1ea1i. N\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t – n\u00f3 b\u1ea7y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau, r\u1eb1ng con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u00e3, nh\u01b0ng ng\u0103n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u0103n \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ch\u1ea5t v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y. N\u1ebfu con kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 s\u1ef1 phong ph\u00fa n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 – cho c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y \u0111i t\u1eeb n\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u1ebd, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch kh\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3! V\u1ec1 sau tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n cho n\u00f3, vi\u1ec7c tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y s\u1ebd c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ngu hay ng\u1ed1c hay l\u1ed1 l\u0103ng.<\/p>\n

C\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3 tr\u00e8o c\u00e2y. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3, gi\u00fap n\u00f3, \u0111i v\u00e0 d\u1ea1y n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng tr\u00e8o c\u00f9ng n\u00f3! Gi\u00fap n\u00f3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u00e3. V\u00e0 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, ng\u00e3 t\u1eeb c\u00e2y c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ec7. C\u00f2n h\u01a1n l\u00e0 b\u1ecb thi\u1ebfu m\u00e3i m\u00e3i….<\/p>\n

Con mu\u1ed1n \u0111i ra tr\u1eddi m\u01b0a v\u00e0 mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ea1y quanh ph\u1ed1 trong m\u01b0a, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1nh hay b\u1ecb vi\u00eam ph\u1ed5i hay c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 – v\u00e0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang! Cho n\u00ean l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 kh\u00e1ng c\u1ef1 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n v\u1edbi l\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u01b0a n\u00f3 t\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129; h\u1ecfi b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u00ean cho n\u00f3 u\u1ed1ng vitamin n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 cho n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1y trong m\u01b0a v\u00e0 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 m\u00faa v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb c\u1ea3m l\u1ea1nh hay s\u1ebd b\u1ecb vi\u00eam ph\u1ed5i. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1eebng ng\u0103n n\u00f3. M\u00faa trong ph\u1ed1 khi tr\u1eddi m\u01b0a l\u00e0 ni\u1ec1m vui th\u1ebf! B\u1ecf l\u1ee1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m con b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1ch n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ee9a con nh\u1ea3y v\u00e0 m\u00faa v\u00e0 h\u00e9t v\u00e0 la, c\u00f2n b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e1o, b\u00e1o ngu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 – n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i. Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec trong b\u00e1o, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i. B\u1ea1n ng\u0103n \u0111\u1ee9a con: “\u0110\u1eebng h\u00e9t! \u0110\u1eebng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ea7y b\u1ed1! B\u1ed1 \u0111ang l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1edbn lao – \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e1o.” V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ng\u0103n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y – b\u1ea1n ng\u0103n s\u1ef1 s\u00f4i n\u1ed5i \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ng\u0103n s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng con bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m l\u1ea7n, ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng qu\u1ea5y r\u1ed1i n\u00f3 trong ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i l\u1ea7n, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb s\u1ebd hi\u1ec3u. Khi b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u con, con hi\u1ec3u b\u1ea1n – con c\u00e1i r\u1ea5t, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng. Khi con th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecb ng\u0103n c\u1ea3n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i, “B\u1ed1 \u0111ang l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 xin con…” \u0111\u1ee9a con s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean nh\u00ecn \u0111\u1ec3 qu\u00e1t n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1eeb b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9, ng\u01b0\u1eddi cho ph\u00e9p m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Con c\u00e1i c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n

“B\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u1ea7y mu\u1ed1n y\u00ean t\u0129nh” th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o n\u00f3i, “y\u00ean t\u0129nh\u00a0 \u0111\u1ec3 c\u00e1c con c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe th\u1ea5y ti\u1ebfng kim r\u01a1i.”<\/p>\n

Im l\u1eb7ng s\u00e2u tr\u00f9m l\u00ean l\u1edbp h\u1ecdc. Sau qu\u00e3ng hai ph\u00fat, m\u1ed9t gi\u1ecdng n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111au kh\u1ed5 t\u1eeb ph\u00eda sau h\u00e9t l\u00ean, “Tr\u1eddi, th\u1ea3 kim \u0111i!”<\/p>\n

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H\u00f4m \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean t\u1edbi tr\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a c\u1eadu b\u00e9, v\u00e0 ngay khi m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3, n\u00f3 b\u1eadt kh\u00f3c. M\u1eb7c cho m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 ph\u1ea7n c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o v\u00e0 b\u00e0 hi\u1ec7u tr\u01b0\u1edfng, n\u00f3 c\u1ee9 th\u1ebf kh\u00f3c v\u00e0 kh\u00f3c cho t\u1edbi chung cu\u1ed9c, ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1eefa tr\u01b0a, c\u00f4 gi\u00e1o n\u00f3i trong b\u1ef1c d\u1ecdc, “Tr\u1eddi \u01a1i, c\u00e2m \u0111i con! B\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u0103n tr\u01b0a r\u1ed3i, v\u00e0 v\u00e0i ti\u1ebfng n\u1eefa con s\u1ebd v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 con s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i m\u1eb9.”<\/p>\n

Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c c\u1eadu b\u00e9 th\u00f4i kh\u00f3c, “Con s\u1ebd v\u1ec1 sao?” n\u00f3i n\u00f3i. “Con t\u01b0\u1edfng con ph\u1ea3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ebfn khi con m\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1u tu\u1ed5i!”<\/p>\n

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Ch\u00fang c\u00f3 c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang, c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. C\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang \u0111i. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra s\u1ef1 h\u00e0i ho\u00e0 s\u00e2u n\u1ea3y sinh gi\u1eefa b\u1ed1 v\u00e0 con. Ch\u00ednh nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c, ngu xu\u1ea9n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u00f3ng trong c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c…. Tr\u1ebb em mang t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1eafn v\u00e0o trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. Tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 phi\u00ean b\u1ea3n m\u1edbi c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c. Tr\u1ebb em l\u00e0 l\u1ed1i v\u00e0o thi\u00eang li\u00eang t\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1edbi trong s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. L\u00e0 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng, l\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft \u0111i.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac v\u00e0 t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o, kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m ph\u1ea3i c\u00f9ng sai l\u1ea7m – b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea1m \u0111\u00e2u. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1edbi b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 b\u1ea1n. \u00dd th\u1ee9c s\u1ebd mang t\u1edbi kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

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T\u1eeb \u201cB\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng ch\u00e2n, bay kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1nh v\u00e0 ngh\u0129 kh\u00f4ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed\u201d, Ch.2 \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u1ebfm con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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