{"id":3355,"date":"2026-07-29T04:40:29","date_gmt":"2026-07-29T04:40:29","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3355"},"modified":"2026-07-29T04:45:03","modified_gmt":"2026-07-29T04:45:03","slug":"chu-ki-doi-nguoi-50-toi-70-tuoi","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3355","title":{"rendered":"Chu k\u00ec \u0111\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi – 49 t\u1edbi 70 tu\u1ed5i"},"content":{"rendered":"

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 nhi\u1ec1u v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh; \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m ph\u1ea3i ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh, con c\u00e1i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1edbn. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh – \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn con b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng gia \u0111\u00ecnh, \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi hippies, ch\u00fang ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi tu\u1ed5i hai m\u01b0\u01a1i t\u00e1m. Ch\u00fang s\u1ebd \u1ed5n \u0111\u1ecbnh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng – b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 chuy\u1ec3n ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u00e0 – b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e0. V\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn h\u01b0\u1edbng v\u1ec1 r\u1eebng, chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u1ed9i, tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng c\u00f3 t\u00ednh thi\u1ec1n v\u00e0 t\u00ednh c\u1ea7u nguy\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1u l\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t thay \u0111\u1ed5i t\u1edbi, cu\u1ed9c c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng. Gi\u1edd nh\u00ecn h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi Himalaya l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 du h\u00e0nh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111ang k\u1ebft th\u00fac, ch\u1ebft \u0111ang t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n. V\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi gi\u1edbi kh\u00e1c. V\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, t\u1edbi x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 h\u00ecnh th\u1ee9c x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 – Rotary v\u00e0 Lions. \u1ede tu\u1ed5i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 Rotary, m\u1ecdi c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 Lion; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ngu b\u00e2y gi\u1edd, tr\u1ebb con. \u0110i t\u1edbi c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 Rotary hay c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 Lion n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 nh\u00ecn m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, tuy\u1ec7t h\u1ea3o v\u1edbi c\u00e0 v\u1ea1t v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ch\u01b0a ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, tr\u1ebb con; h\u1ecd \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec? Lions – ch\u00ednh c\u00e1i t\u00ean n\u00e0y c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ngu xu\u1ea9n. V\u1edbi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf, t\u1ed1t. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd c\u00f3 c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 Cub cho con c\u00e1i nh\u1ecf, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9 Lioness. V\u1edbi c\u00e1c con th\u00fa con, \u0111\u00fang ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o, nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi s\u01b0 t\u1eed \u0111\u1ef1c v\u00e0 s\u01b0 t\u1eed c\u00e1i sao…? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 t\u1ea7m th\u01b0\u1eddng. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 th\u00f4ng minh, ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fat n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0o tu\u1ed5i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i th\u1ebf khi tho\u00e1t ra kh\u1ecfi m\u1ecdi d\u00ednh l\u00edu x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i. \u0110\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ee7, \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc \u0111\u1ee7; gi\u1edd ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i l\u1eddi c\u00e1m \u01a1n v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00e0 \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3. N\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1u l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh sannyasin. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn t\u00ednh sannyas, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean – khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i t\u1eeb b\u1ecf. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i v\u00e0o v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 l\u1ed1i ra; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y ng\u1ea1t th\u1edf. B\u1ea1n \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111i ra v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb ng\u1ea1t, trong \u0111au \u0111\u1edbn.<\/p>\n

C\u00f3<\/em> l\u1ed1i ra, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u00ednh sannyas. B\u1ea1n \u0111i ra. B\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c tr\u01b0\u1edbc tu\u1ed5i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i s\u00e1u.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i ba b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb, ch\u1ec9 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec1n l\u00e0 g\u00ec – \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong, d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 r\u01a1i \u0111i m\u1ea5t. Duy nh\u1ea5t b\u1ea1n t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. L\u1ea7n n\u1eefa b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb – t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea7u r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u b\u1edfi s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng, r\u1ea5t ch\u00edn ch\u1eafn, hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft, v\u1edbi th\u00f4ng minh l\u1edbn. Gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong. Ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea9y n\u0103m c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb cho ch\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft. V\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 g\u00ec?<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ebft khi \u0111ang m\u1edf h\u1ed9i l\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft. Ch\u1ebft h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, vui s\u01b0\u1edbng, ch\u1ebft m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng, \u0111\u00f3n ch\u00e0o, l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 cho b\u1ea1n c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 h\u1ecdc, v\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc. Gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. Gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111i t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng.<\/p>\n

N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c t\u1ea1m tr\u00fa. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 lang thang trong mi\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea5t l\u1ea1, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc nhi\u1ec1u. Gi\u1edd th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi: ho\u00e0ng t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 v\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

S\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i ba l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 trong c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o v\u00e0 chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o, quay v\u00e0o trong. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng, kh\u00f4ng chuy\u1ec3n \u0111i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u. Kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ecdc, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i nhi\u1ec1u. Ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng im l\u1eb7ng h\u01a1n, ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u1edf c\u00f9ng c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1ed9c l\u1eadp to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 quanh b\u1ea1n. N\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng d\u1ea7n d\u1ea7n s\u00fat gi\u1ea3m \u0111i.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ebfn tu\u1ed5i b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i theo h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00e0y, ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i tr\u1ea3i qua ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng trong b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9, c\u00f9ng v\u00f2ng tr\u00f2n n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc l\u00fac ch\u1ebft t\u1edbi, ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. B\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 n\u00e0y \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 g\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec7n th\u1edd b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1n l\u00e0 garbha<\/em>, b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1n ph\u1ea7n b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch r\u1ea5t bi\u1ec3u t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 c\u00e2n nh\u1eafc; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9 m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111i v\u00e0o. \u1ede pha cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng – ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng – ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111i v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh, th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh b\u1ee5ng m\u1eb9. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta chuy\u1ec3n v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec7n th\u1edd b\u00ean trong nh\u1ea5t n\u01a1i ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ch\u00e1y, n\u01a1i \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, n\u01a1i ng\u00f4i \u0111\u1ec1n hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu, n\u01a1i Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. V\u1edbi qu\u00e1 tr\u00ecnh t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai n\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y<\/em>. Kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ti\u1ebfp s\u1ebd \u0111i ra t\u1eeb n\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 – nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u1edbn l\u00ean v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thanh ni\u00ean. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho n\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. Nh\u01b0 s\u00f4ng ch\u1ea3y v\u00e0 \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng theo c\u00f9ng c\u00e1ch, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea3y, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi tr\u1eadn chung cu\u1ed9c, \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, tr\u00f4i n\u1ed5i, v\u00e0 \u1edf trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y. M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai v\u00e0 tham v\u1ecdng v\u00e0 ham mu\u1ed1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111ang b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra bi\u1ebfn ch\u1ea5t v\u00ec b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ebd thi\u1ebfu c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3; k\u1ebd h\u1edf s\u1ebd c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng t\u1ed1t th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u00e0o th\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 – v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u? N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng. V\u00e0 khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb l\u00ean b\u1ed1n v\u00e0 m\u00faa v\u00e0 nh\u1ea3y v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y quanh, b\u1eaft b\u01b0\u1edbm, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. Nh\u01b0ng khi thanh ni\u00ean hai m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i ch\u1ea1y \u0111u\u1ed5i theo b\u01b0\u1edbm, anh ta ngu xu\u1ea9n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i cho anh ta v\u00e0o b\u1ec7nh vi\u1ec7n; anh ta l\u00e0 ca m\u1ea5t tr\u00ed. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec sai v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i; n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00fang<\/em> \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m; n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng \u0111u\u1ed5i theo b\u01b0\u1edbm, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 sai, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; nh\u01b0ng khi anh ta hai m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 \u0111u\u1ed5i theo b\u01b0\u1edbm th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i nghi ng\u1edd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i sai, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u1edbn, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed t\u1ee5t l\u1ea1i sau. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 trong th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u c\u1ee7a anh ta – anh ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7. N\u1ebfu anh ta s\u1ed1ng th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7, anh ta s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh thanh ni\u00ean: \u0111\u1eb9p, t\u01b0\u01a1i, kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u00e0m v\u1ea5y b\u1ea9n b\u1edfi th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u. Anh ta s\u1ebd tu\u1ed9t ra kh\u1ecfi th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u nh\u01b0 r\u1eafn tu\u1ed9t ra kh\u1ecfi b\u1ed9 da c\u0169 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Anh ta s\u1ebd \u0111i ra kh\u1ecfi n\u00f3 t\u01b0\u01a1i t\u1eafn. Anh ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 th\u00f4ng minh c\u1ee7a thanh ni\u00ean, v\u00e0 anh ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 v\u1ebb ch\u1eadm ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n tinh th\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng tu\u1ed5i thanh ni\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 \u0111i. \u0110\u1eebng nghe nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng. C\u1ee9 lo\u1ea1i h\u1ecd ra kh\u1ecfi con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p h\u1ecd tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, gi\u1ebft h\u1ecd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c. \u0110\u1eebng nghe h\u1ecd v\u00ec h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ebft tu\u1ed5i thanh ni\u00ean, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 t\u00ednh k\u00ecm n\u00e9n tu\u1ed5i thanh ni\u00ean. H\u1ecd ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i d\u1ee5c, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i d\u1ee5c, d\u1ee5c s\u1ebd lan r\u1ed9ng kh\u1eafp cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c. S\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 \u0111i! T\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00f3!<\/p>\n

Gi\u1eefa m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i v\u00e0 hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t tu\u1ed5i con trai \u1edf \u0111\u1ec9nh t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c cao nh\u1ea5t. Th\u1ef1c ra, g\u1ea7n tu\u1ed5i m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea9y hay m\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1m anh ta \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec9nh t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c. Anh ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1m l\u1ef1c th\u1ebf. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ee1, anh ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u1ef1c th\u00edch \u0111\u1eb9p m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n tu\u1ed5i m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea9y hay m\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1m.<\/p>\n

T\u00f4i g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c, v\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n v\u00f4 d\u1ee5c, \u00edt nh\u1ea5t t\u1edbi hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t tu\u1ed5i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi d\u1ee5c l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t, vi\u1ec7c h\u1ecdc d\u1ee5c, \u0111i v\u00e0o d\u1ee5c, s\u1ebd b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t, hai m\u01b0\u01a1i hai, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e0 khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi d\u1ee5c! G\u1ea7n tu\u1ed5i m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u1ec9nh – hi\u1ec7u l\u1ef1c, m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c c\u1ef1c th\u00edch, c\u1ef1c th\u00edch d\u1ee5c, ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 lan to\u1ea3 t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh c\u00e1c t\u1ebf b\u00e0o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. To\u00e0n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eafm trong ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i d\u1ee5c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh samadhi<\/em>, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i, nh\u1edb l\u1ea5y. T\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea9y tu\u1ed5i. V\u1ec1 T\u1eeb d\u1ee5c t\u1edbi si\u00eau th\u1ee9c… ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u00e0 t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, “Ch\u00fang t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ecdc s\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y.”<\/p>\n

L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi? b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 th\u1eddi gian, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thay th\u1ebf. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m; x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecbu tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe theo n\u00f3.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu gi\u1eefa m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1n v\u00e0 hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p c\u00f3 d\u1ee5c t\u1ef1 do, d\u1ee5c tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i t\u1ef1 do, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 do ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ng\u00f3 v\u00e0o c\u00e1c t\u1ea1p ch\u00ed Playboy<\/em> v\u00e0 Playgirl<\/em>. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ea5u c\u00e1c \u1ea3nh kho\u1ea3 th\u00e2n, x\u1ea5u x\u00ed, t\u1ee5c t\u0129u trong t\u1ee7 hay trong Kinh Th\u00e1nh. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ed1 t\u00ecnh n\u00e9m \u0111\u1ed3 v\u1eadt v\u00e0o \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb s\u00e0m s\u1ee1. Nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n li\u00ean t\u1ee5c dung t\u00fang ch\u00fang v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra, t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi lo\u1ea1n th\u1ea7n kinh.<\/p>\n

M\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n th\u1ea5y c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1edd so\u1ea1ng th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. X\u1ea5u l\u00e0m sao! – s\u1edd so\u1ea1ng th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh trong b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 khi \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 nh\u00ecn v\u1edbi \u0111\u00f4i m\u1eaft th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec gi\u1ed1ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3; \u0111i\u1ec1u x\u1ea5u nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 khi \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 nh\u00ecn b\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u00e8m kh\u00e1t trong m\u1eaft \u00f4ng ta. M\u1eaft \u00f4ng ta gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ed3n nhi\u00ean, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u00f4ng ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft th\u00fac r\u1ed3i. Kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea5u; nh\u1edb, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. D\u1ee5c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p \u1edf th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m v\u00e0 m\u00f9a v\u1ee5 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00e0 d\u1ee5c l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u l\u00fac tr\u00e1i v\u1ee5, tr\u00e1i th\u1eddi gian. D\u1ee5c l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh khi n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u1edf \u00f4ng gi\u00e0 ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i “l\u00e3o gi\u00e0 d\u01a1 d\u00e1y.” \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0<\/em> d\u01a1 d\u00e1y.<\/p>\n

Thanh ni\u00ean l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00f3 d\u1ee5c. Anh ta bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng, s\u1ed1ng. \u00d4ng gi\u00e0, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 t\u00ednh d\u1ee5c, bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng, cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng, ch\u01b0a ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i. \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y v\u00e0 gi\u1edd \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u00ec, nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng ta li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ngh\u0129, lang thang trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c, m\u01a1 t\u01b0\u1edfng.<\/p>\n

Nh\u1edb, gi\u1eefa m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1n v\u00e0 hai m\u01b0\u01a1i m\u1ed1t tu\u1ed5i m\u1ed9t x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00fang s\u1ebd cho ph\u00e9p t\u1ef1 do tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00edt d\u1ee5c h\u01a1n. B\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u1ee5c; b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. S\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 khi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i v\u00e0 qu\u00ean n\u00f3 khi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 qua. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 qu\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tha th\u1ee9. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u00e1m v\u00edu, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n

\u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0110\u00f4ng, \u0111\u1eebng nghe theo nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u g\u00ec h\u1ecd n\u00f3i. Nghe theo t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. Khi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac \u0111\u1ec3 y\u00eau, y\u00eau \u0111i. Khi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean n\u00f3i \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00fac t\u1eeb b\u1ecf, t\u1eeb b\u1ecf \u0111i. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng nghe c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 ph\u00e2n t\u00e2m v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed ngu \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y. D\u00f9 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 nh\u1eefng c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 tinh vi th\u1ebf n\u00e0o – C\u00e1c th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 Johnson v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c – v\u00e0 d\u00f9 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng th\u1eed v\u00e0 xem x\u00e9t nhi\u1ec1u \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o th\u1ebf n\u00e0o, h\u1ecd ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c ra t\u00f4i ng\u1edd r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 Johnsons v\u00e0 Kinseys n\u00e0y \u1edf ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y, r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u00f2m l\u1ed7 kho\u00e1. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh v\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ai b\u1eadn t\u00e2m nh\u00f2m c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c c\u00f4ng c\u1ee5 – theo d\u00f5i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra b\u00ean trong khi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh? Ai b\u1eadn t\u00e2m? V\u00f4 ngh\u0129a l\u00e0m sao! Nh\u01b0ng khi m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 \u0111i v\u00e0o suy \u0111\u1ed3i th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1c Th\u1ea7y v\u00e0 Johnsons – h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chuy\u00ean gia, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n chung cu\u1ed9c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 d\u1ee5c n\u00e0o th\u1ebf th\u00ec h\u1ecd l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n chung cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1edbi. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ng\u1edd h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 tu\u1ed3i thanh ni\u00ean c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng d\u1ee5c c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1eafn. \u1ede \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111ang thi\u1ebfu v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111ang ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh n\u00f3 qua nh\u1eefng th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

V\u00e0 khi m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 \u1edf trong n\u1eafm b\u1eaft c\u1ee7a khoa h\u1ecdc b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ra c\u00e1c d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt \u0111i\u1ec7n, gi\u1ea3, v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng d\u01b0\u01a1ng v\u1eadt \u0111i\u1ec7n \u0111\u00f3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c \u0111\u1eadp trong \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o th\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c c\u1ed1 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang x\u1ea3y ra b\u00ean trong, li\u1ec7u c\u1ef1c th\u00edch l\u00e0 \u1edf \u00e2m v\u1eadt hay \u00e2m \u0111\u1ea1o, hay hooc m\u00f4n n\u00e0o \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y, hooc m\u00f4n n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea3y, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh bao l\u00e2u. H\u1ecd n\u00f3i: t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh t\u1eadn c\u00f9ng. Tr\u00ean gi\u01b0\u1eddng ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n

Th\u1ef1c ra g\u1ee3i \u00fd c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 sau m\u00e3n kinh \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh t\u1ed5t h\u01a1n bao gi\u1edd – \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd sau b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn tu\u1ed5i. T\u1ea1i sao h\u1ecd n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3? – v\u00ec, h\u1ecd n\u00f3i, tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1ee3 mang thai. Cho d\u00f9 c\u00f4 \u1ea5y u\u1ed1ng thu\u1ed1c, kh\u00f4ng thu\u1ed1c n\u00e0o c\u1ea3n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ph\u1ea7n tr\u0103m; c\u00f3 s\u1ee3. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn tu\u1ed5i, khi m\u00e3n kinh t\u1edbi v\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5y th\u00e1ng d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee3; \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 t\u1ef1 do ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu vi\u1ec7c d\u1ea1y c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd lan r\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb chuy\u00ean m\u1ed3i ch\u00e0i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng, v\u00e0 b\u00e0 gi\u00e0 s\u1ebd s\u0103n \u0111u\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng v\u00ec gi\u1edd h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ea9m quy\u1ec1n ph\u00ea chu\u1ea9n \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ef1c ra h\u1ecd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng – kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec tr\u00e1ch nhi\u1ec7m n\u00e0o. V\u00e0 c\u1ea3 v\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng h\u1ecd li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i c\u00f9ng \u0111i\u1ec1u. V\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p nh\u1eefng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng – cho n\u00ean gi\u1edd h\u1ecd n\u00f3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trung b\u00ecnh – h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng trong \u0111\u1ed9 tu\u1ed5i s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i v\u1eabn c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh n\u0103m l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 k\u00ec d\u1ecb. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai v\u1edbi hooc m\u00f4n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. … v\u00e0 \u1edf tu\u1ed5i s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 phi t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, v\u00ec nh\u01b0 t\u00f4i th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 – v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y t\u00f4i n\u00f3i t\u1eeb kinh nghi\u1ec7m ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i trong nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1edb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang – \u0111\u1ebfn b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0; m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m \u0111i r\u1ed3i. Nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 t\u1edbi, n\u00f3 \u0111i!<\/p>\n

M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111i. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 n\u1ea3y sinh ph\u1ea3i s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5. M\u1ecdi s\u00f3ng d\u00e2ng l\u00ean ph\u1ea3i bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi \u0111i\u1ec3m khi n\u00f3 \u0111i. \u1ede m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i n\u00f3 t\u1edbi; \u1edf b\u1ed1n ch\u00edn tu\u1ed5i hay qu\u00e3ng \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 \u0111i.<\/p>\n

Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh n\u0103m l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y \u1edf tu\u1ed5i s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i – c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t sai. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00fang. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7u kia c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c, c\u1ef1c \u0111oan kia. Khi c\u1eadu b\u00e9 m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1n tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y d\u1ee5c n\u00e0o, thanh ni\u00ean m\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00e1m tu\u1ed5i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0o, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai – anh ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u tr\u1ecb. Khi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u00e1u m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m t\u00ecnh n\u0103m l\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y, c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ea5t ki\u1ec3m so\u00e1t h\u00e0nh vi. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh \u0111\u00fang, m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean.<\/p>\n

N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi th\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean \u0111\u00fang, ch\u00edn mu\u1ed3i – tu\u00f4n ch\u1ea3y, sinh \u0111\u1ed9ng, s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng, \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng hoang d\u00e3. Th\u1eddi thanh ni\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n v\u00e0 y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n v\u00e0 y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi cu\u1ed9c truy h\u1ecfi t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o: S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec? Vi\u1ec7c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u v\u00e0o huy\u1ec1n. Cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ecnh th\u1ea3n v\u00e0 y\u00ean l\u1eb7ng mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi nh\u1eefng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc thi\u1ec1n. Thi\u1ec1n mang b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u1ecf m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd l\u00e0 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed3 \u0111\u1ed3ng n\u00e1t, r\u00e1c. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u00e1c; duy nh\u1ea5t m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n

\u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac b\u1ea9y m\u01b0\u01a1i tu\u1ed5i, khi b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ch\u1ebft – n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00fang m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd m\u01a1 cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y d\u00f9 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec – ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft… b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ch\u1eebng \u1ea5y nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y: gi\u1edd ch\u1ebft \u0111ang t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n

Nhi\u1ec1u th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00e3 tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p m\u1ed9t tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0o khi c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 tr\u01b0\u1edbc ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng. \u0110\u00edch x\u00e1c ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1ea3i to\u1ea3 v\u1edbi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9… v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau, qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau, \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u1ed1i v\u1edbi nhau. Khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu c\u1ee7a qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9; khi b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c c\u1ed1 l\u1eadp k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch cho t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ch\u00fang l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng nhau. Hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i \u1edf ngo\u00e0i ch\u00fang. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd v\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u00e0m n\u00e1o lo\u1ea1n b\u1edfi qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb n\u00e1o lo\u1ea1n b\u1edfi t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00e1nh n\u1eb7ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 mang, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 di chuy\u1ec3n v\u00f4 tr\u1ecdng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng. S\u1ee9c h\u00fat kh\u00f4ng \u1ea3nh h\u01b0\u1edfng t\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ef1c ra, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 bay. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1nh….<\/p>\n

Tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ebft, \u0111\u00edch x\u00e1c ch\u00edn th\u00e1ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ebft \u0111ang t\u1edbi. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd m\u1edf h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd n\u00f3i v\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, “Con t\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111ang t\u1edbi, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f2n ch\u00fat \u00edt th\u1eddi gian tr\u00ean b\u1edd n\u00e0y. T\u00f4i s\u1ebd s\u1edbm \u0111i v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 t\u00f4i. S\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, m\u1ed9t tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m k\u00ec l\u1ea1. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau, \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc, \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng nhi\u1ec1u, t\u00f4i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m gi\u1ea7u l\u00ean. T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y m\u00e0 ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u1edbi nhi\u1ec1u tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m, nhi\u1ec1u tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh.”<\/p>\n

Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e1m \u01a1n m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra – t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u c\u1ea3 hai, \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 sai c\u1ea3 hai, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb m\u1ecdi<\/em> th\u1ee9, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb \u0111\u00fang, m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb sai. C\u00e1c hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ecdc t\u1eeb h\u1ecd; v\u00e0 c\u00e1c t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n, v\u00e2ng, h\u1ecdc c\u1ea3 t\u1eeb h\u1ecd n\u1eefa – t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u01b0\u1edbp ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. M\u00f9a h\u00e8 v\u00e0 m\u00f9a \u0111\u00f4ng, no v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3i, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1m \u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n

Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00e1m \u01a1n t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 v\u00e0 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng m\u1edf h\u1ed9i cho c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ebft tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eb9p. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t, v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 cao tr\u00e0o c\u1ee7a s\u1ed1ng. N\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec9nh cao nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac s\u1ed1ng, n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec9nh. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft s\u1ed1ng n\u00f3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0 ch\u00ednh cao tr\u00e0o, ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec9nh, \u0111\u1ec9nh cao nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec3m cao nh\u1ea5t, s\u1ef1 ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh. S\u1ed1ng kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft th\u00fac trong n\u00f3; th\u1ef1c ra s\u1ed1ng n\u1edf hoa trong n\u00f3, n\u00f3 l\u00e0<\/em> hoa. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ch\u1ebft ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng cho n\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecdc ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y b\u1ea1n c\u00e1ch ch\u1ebft. Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft. Th\u1ea7y cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n ch\u1ebft trong th\u1ea7y. Th\u1ea7y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ch\u1ebft \u0111i m\u1ecdi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc cho qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9, v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng x\u00e1o tr\u1ed9n – kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ebft l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p duy nh\u1ea5t m\u00e0 t\u00f4i mu\u1ed1n trao cho b\u1ea1n – v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho ph\u00e9p, h\u00e0ng tri\u1ec7u th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ec3 t\u00f4i nh\u1eafc l\u1ea1i c\u00e2u ng\u1ea1n ng\u1eef Sufi: \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tin c\u1eady. Ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1nh hoa l\u1ea3 t\u1ea3 r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady sao? Tin c\u1eady s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng. Tin c\u1eady kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u00e2y gi\u1edd v\u00e0 cho ph\u00e9p m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u1ea5y h\u00ecnh d\u00e1ng ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n lo ngh\u0129, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u lo ngh\u0129. Tin c\u1eady s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng \u0111i, \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tin c\u1eady.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eefng c\u00e1nh hoa l\u1ea3 t\u1ea3 r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady sao?<\/p>\n

\u0110i v\u00e0 xem hoa h\u1ed3ng, v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn t\u1ed1i c\u00e1c c\u00e1nh hoa l\u1ea3 t\u1ea3 r\u1ee5ng xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t, \u0111i ngh\u1ec9 ng\u01a1i. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng gi\u00f3 m\u1ea1nh, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 v\u01b0\u01a1n cao l\u00ean tr\u1eddi. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 lan to\u1ea3 h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang cho gi\u00f3 t\u1ee9 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng – gi\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 mang h\u01b0\u01a1ng th\u01a1m t\u1edbi m\u1ecdi ng\u00f3c ng\u00e1ch c\u1ee7a tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau m\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 ch\u01a1i v\u1edbi n\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u00edt. Ng\u00e0y c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 h\u1ebft. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng b\u00e1m v\u00edu. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i r\u1ee5ng. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng.<\/p>\n

S\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1ea1o ra ch\u1ebft \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00ec ch\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00f4 \u0111\u1ecdng l\u1ea1i trong h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m.<\/p>\n

B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1nh hoa \u0111ang r\u1ee5ng. T\u1ed1i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi. M\u1eb7t tr\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eb7n, \u0111\u00eam s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp qu\u1ea3n. Ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi, c\u00e1nh hoa \u0111ang r\u1ee5ng xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i. Ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u00fang \u0111ang \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0o b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng – c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e1y – nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng nghi ng\u1edd, ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n

Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 s\u1ed1ng cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, tin c\u1eady n\u1ea3y sinh. N\u00f3 n\u1ea3y sinh – n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u00e1nh h\u1ed3ng ban chi\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n

C\u00e1nh hoa r\u1ee5ng xu\u1ed1ng, l\u1ea3 t\u1ea3 r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ea5t. \u0110\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tin c\u1eady – ch\u1eb3ng ph\u1ea3i c\u00e1nh hoa l\u1ea3 t\u1ea3 r\u01a1i xu\u1ed1ng y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady sao? V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 – Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, moksha, ni\u1ebft b\u00e0n – m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3.<\/p>\n

Ch\u1ec9 tin c\u1eady. Y nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n

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T\u1eeb \u201cY nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d, Ch.10 Ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n nh\u1ecf<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"

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