{"id":3341,"date":"2026-07-17T02:55:47","date_gmt":"2026-07-17T02:55:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3341"},"modified":"2026-07-17T02:55:47","modified_gmt":"2026-07-17T02:55:47","slug":"de-tu-khong-phan-xet","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3341","title":{"rendered":"\u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f3 t\u00ednh. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 h\u1ecd qua n\u00e9t m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd, \u0111\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 h\u1ecd b\u1edfi h\u00ecnh h\u00e0i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd; h\u00ecnh h\u00e0i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 Gurdjieff r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed m\u1edbi t\u1edbi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0o trong nh\u00f3m c\u1ed1t c\u00e1n, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u01b0 x\u1eed m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 \u0111i\u00ean d\u1ea1i. V\u00e0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u0169 s\u1ebd l\u1ea1i bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang gi\u1edf th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n c\u0169, nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi s\u1ebd tr\u1ed1n ngay, khi nh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111ang l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 l\u1ea7n chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o t\u1edbi. \u00d4ng ta mu\u1ed1n ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 nhi\u1ec1u quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n c\u1ee7a Gurdjieff. Gurdjieff nh\u00ecn quanh, th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u0169 v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi, &#8220;H\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 ng\u00e0y n\u00e0o?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00e0y n\u00f3i, &#8220;H\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea9y.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Gurdjieff n\u00f3i, &#8220;L\u00e0m sao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? H\u00f4m qua \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u, l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea9y? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u00ean &#8211; h\u00f4m qua \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u, l\u00e0m sao c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 chuy\u1ec7n h\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea9y?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o \u0111\u1ee9ng d\u1eady v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta n\u00f3i, &#8220;T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean. C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 Gurdjieff nh\u00ecn \u00f4ng ta theo c\u00e1ch gi\u1eadn gi\u1eef, theo c\u00e1ch xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e3 m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i b\u1edfi s\u1ee3, c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 nguy hi\u1ec3m. V\u00e0 Gurdjieff \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd. N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nh\u1ea3y l\u00ean, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n. Nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o n\u00e0y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tr\u1ed1n bi\u1ec7t, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd quay l\u1ea1i n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 Gurdjieff c\u01b0\u1eddi v\u1ee1 b\u1ee5ng.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi, &#8220;Nh\u01b0ng sao th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 h\u00e0nh x\u1eed theo c\u00e1ch nh\u01b0 v\u1eady? \u00d4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00fap \u00edch. \u00d4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft b\u00e0i b\u00e1o. V\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 c\u00e1c li\u00ean h\u1ec7, \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng. T\u1ea1i sao&#8230;?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Gurdjieff n\u00f3i, &#8220;T\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, v\u00ec m\u1ed9t khi \u00f4ng ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1edbi, \u00f4ng ta s\u1ebd t\u1edbi m\u1ed7i l\u00fac m\u1ed9t nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u1eddi h\u1ee3t. \u00d4ng ta ch\u1ec9 nh\u00ecn nh\u1eadn d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb, l\u00e0m sao \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n?&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>G\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong s\u1ed1 h\u1ecd t\u1ef1 t\u00e1ch m\u00ecnh ra kh\u1ecfi nh\u00f3m, b\u1ecb b\u1ef1c t\u1ee9c b\u1edfi h\u00e0nh vi th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Theo ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00f3i cho r\u1eb1ng hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Theo ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00f3i cho<\/em>, &#8220;\u0110\u1eebng b\u1ecb l\u1eeba b\u1edfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t.&#8221; V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3! N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t, th\u1ebf l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi <em>n\u00e0y<\/em> l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang ch\u01a1i tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ed9ng c\u01a1 n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Tin v\u00e0o th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 kh\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng tin v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 th\u1ebf. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c ch\u1ee9ng danh c\u1ee7a <em>ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3<\/em>, s\u1ef1 ch\u00e2n th\u1ef1c <em>c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3<\/em> b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi &#8211; b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tin. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai, b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tin c\u1eady. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t b\u1ea1n ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i tin. B\u1ea1n tin c\u1eady c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u, b\u1ea1n tin Qu\u1ec9. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nghi ng\u1edd v\u1edbi Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf.<\/p>\n<p>Trong ti\u1ebfng Anh ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t: Qu\u00e1 <em>t\u1ed1t<\/em> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd n\u00f3i: Qu\u00e1 <em>x\u1ea5u<\/em> kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c. Kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf. Qu\u00e1 x\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 x\u1ea5u, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c. Nh\u01b0ng qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tin. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng tin c\u1eady nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i s\u00e2u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tin n\u1ebfu c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec hay ai \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi v\u00e0 n\u00f3i, &#8220;Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ph\u1eadt t\u00ednh,\u201d b\u1ea1n c\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c; \u0111\u00e2y to\u00e0n l\u00e0 h\u01b0 c\u1ea5u, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd x\u1ea3y ra. L\u00e0m sao \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1eadt c\u00f2n b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ph\u1eadt? Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu bao gi\u1edd ph\u1eadt t\u00ednh s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 <em>b\u1ea1n,<\/em> ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. Nietzsche n\u00f3i \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3: T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin v\u00e0o Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu ng\u00e0i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i n\u00e0o c\u00f3 cho t\u00f4i? T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng tin r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf n\u00e0o. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 c\u00f3, t\u00f4i ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ng\u00e0i.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng tin v\u00e0o nh\u1eefng c\u00e1i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tin v\u00e0o c\u00e1i t\u00edch c\u1ef1c. Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ec3u l\u1ed9 nghi ng\u1edd, nghi ng\u1edd v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. Ngu l\u00e0m sao! Ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t v\u00e0 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o trong \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng truy h\u1ecfi. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, &#8220;T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ho\u00e3n l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 t\u00f4i s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i t\u00f4i s\u1ebd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.&#8221; Ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tin c\u1eady t\u1edbi v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng cho d\u00f9 v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt t\u1edbi n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, &#8220;T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c ho\u00e0n h\u1ea3o,&#8221; b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn \u00f4ng \u1ea5y v\u1edbi nghi ng\u1edd. L\u00e0m sao \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 qu\u00e1 t\u1ed1t kh\u00f4ng tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n tin v\u00e0o Qu\u1ec9. Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ebft r\u1ed3i, Qu\u1ec9 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u1ebft. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n &#8211; h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf &#8211; nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng tin v\u00e0o Qu\u1ec9. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tin v\u00e0o Qu\u1ec9, ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u00f4 th\u1ea7n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd mang b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lu\u1eadn c\u1ee9 n\u00e0o ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i Qu\u1ec9. Ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf h\u1ecd c\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn lu\u1eadn c\u1ee9, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i Qu\u1ec9, kh\u00f4ng lu\u1eadn c\u1ee9 n\u00e0o. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a Qu\u1ec9! N\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 \u0111\u00e1ng tin.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n th\u1ea7y, ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn cho \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00e0y n\u00f3i, &#8220;Hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i.&#8221; \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 theo ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y. Th\u1ea7y t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin Qu\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng sao? Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u00e2m linh. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i ni\u1ec1m tin v\u00e0o c\u00e1i sai kh\u00f4ng? c\u00e1i ti\u00eau c\u1ef1c? Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y m\u1ed9t b\u01b0\u1edbc h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111\u00fang, c\u00e1i t\u1ed1t, \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u00eang li\u00eang. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tin c\u1eady th\u1ea7y n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin c\u1eady nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i?<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00ec ai \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e1i xe taxi, hay m\u1ed9t <em>Pan Wallah<\/em>, hay m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi phu \u1edf ga, ng\u01b0\u1eddi mang v\u00e1c, n\u00f3i, &#8220;\u00d4ng \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u v\u1eady? \u0110\u00f3 to\u00e0n l\u00e0 l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t.&#8221; V\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 d\u1eebng nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang t\u1edbi t\u00f4i. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m theo ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn! B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai b\u1ecf \u0111i.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p \u1edf l\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng anh ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n trong th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c anh ta m\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00f3m.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p \u1edf l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea5p cho gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n n\u00e0o l\u00e2u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c anh ta m\u1ea5t m\u1ecdi quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00f3m. Th\u1ea7y bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 c\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n khuy\u00ean th\u1ea7y c\u00e1ch th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ea7y bi\u1ebft r\u00f5. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i tin c\u1eady v\u00e0 ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i. Khi kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00fang t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i h\u1ea1ng ba. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3. Th\u1ea7y l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c t\u1ed1ng kh\u1ee9 anh ta b\u1eb1ng h\u00e0nh vi th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u00edt kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i, nh\u01b0ng anh ta \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng nh\u1ea5t trong c\u1ea3 ba ng\u01b0\u1eddi. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 cho ph\u00e9p anh ta \u1edf l\u1ea1i nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn anh ta, s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec &#8211; kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i, v\u00ec th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 quan s\u00e1t c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i. Nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea5y, v\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u00edch h\u1ee3p nh\u1ea5t. Khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1, v\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh qu\u00e1 n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt. Khi t\u00f4i ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n tr\u1ed3i l\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t, v\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p&#8230;. Kh\u00f4ng, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh, t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c; th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang nghe c\u00f3 t\u00ednh \u0111\u00fang nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tham d\u1ef1.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c c\u00e1ch b\u1ecf gi\u1eadn, b\u1ea1n nghe, v\u00e0 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u00ean quan, b\u1ea1n h\u01a1i ch\u00fat \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi, v\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi b\u1ea1n nghe t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n. Khi b\u1ea1n b\u1eadn t\u00e2m, khi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 <em>c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/em>, b\u1ea1n lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c c\u00f3 r\u00e0o ch\u1eafn. Khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1. V\u00e0 khi t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i b\u00e2y gi\u1edd cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh b\u1edfi th\u1ea7y: l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec, c\u00e1ch l\u00e0m n\u00f3. T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, v\u00ec t\u00f4i c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1ea5t th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u h\u01a1n \u0111\u1ec3 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ed3n ch\u1ed3n th\u1ebf &#8211; v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 <em>c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n<\/em>, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb t\u00e1ch ra, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi quan s\u00e1t. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb n\u1eb7ng g\u00e1nh nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ebf b\u1edfi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u00f4i n\u00f3i, khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i n\u00f3 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u00f5 n\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i d\u1eebng c\u00e1c cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n c\u00e1 th\u1ec3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n: m\u01b0\u1eddi, m\u01b0\u1eddi hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c ph\u1ecfng v\u1ea5n. T\u00f4i n\u00f3i cho A, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111ang n\u00f3i cho B; t\u00f4i n\u00f3i cho C, v\u00e0 t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u1ee3i \u00fd cho A. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Khi t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e1nh ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c, c\u00fa \u0111\u00e1nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00e0nh cho b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i nh\u1eadn n\u00f3, v\u00ec n\u00f3 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd cho b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 cho th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n v\u00f4 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 \u0111i v\u00e0o c\u00e1c t\u1ea7ng tinh t\u1ebf c\u1ee7a v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c n\u00e0o v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 quan s\u00e1t r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c \u0111ang g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi khuy\u00ean b\u1ea3o kh\u00f4n, c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n gi\u1ecfi &#8211; m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n gi\u1ecfi, t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n gi\u1ecfi trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111ang b\u1ecb kh\u00f3. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 c\u1ed1 v\u1ea5n gi\u1ecfi. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean kh\u00f4n t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ngay c\u1ea3 L\u00e3o T\u1eed c\u0169ng s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ghen. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4n ngoan th\u1ebf! Nh\u01b0ng khi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tr\u1ebb con. \u0110\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng h\u01b0\u1edbng, b\u1ea1n m\u1ea5t c\u00e2n b\u1eb1ng.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra? &#8211; v\u00ec b\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 l\u00e0 qu\u00e1 g\u1ea7n v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb r\u1ed1i v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mong \u0111\u1ee3i ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho c\u00f9ng l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c trong c\u00f9ng t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng. C\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u00e1ch r\u1eddi gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp trao cho anh ta. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec anh ta \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m. D\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi anh ta. V\u00e0 th\u1ea7y <em>\u0111\u00e3 <\/em>quan t\u00e2m; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng ch\u1eafc th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1ng kh\u1ee9 anh ta \u0111i, nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ed1ng kh\u1ee9 hai ng\u01b0\u1eddi kia. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 quan t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee3i cho anh ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean ki\u00ean nh\u1eabn h\u01a1n ch\u00fat \u00edt, tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1eafng \u0111\u1ecdng h\u01a1n ch\u00fat \u00edt. Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 cho ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn, nh\u01b0ng anh ta ngu. Anh ta t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp cho anh ta.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 tinh t\u1ebf. H\u1ecd bi\u1ebft t\u1ed1t h\u01a1n c\u1ea3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch cho ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn. \u0110\u00f4i khi h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p, \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p: \u0110\u1ee3i \u0111i. \u0110\u1ee3i th\u00eam ch\u00fat n\u1eefa; b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng v\u00e0 ch\u00edn. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y m\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m &#8211; anh ta r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00f3m.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 khao kh\u00e1t. M\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t, nh\u01b0ng khao kh\u00e1t th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi t\u00f4i qua m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7, hay th\u1eadm ch\u00ed ch\u00fat \u00edt m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m t\u00e2m linh, n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m, s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi t\u00f4i v\u00ec m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 duy tr\u00ec \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e2u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u00e1t ch\u00e1n v\u1edbi m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, n\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh n\u1eb7ng n\u1ec1.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1t, l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3i, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ee3i, \u0111\u00f3i c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng l\u00ean. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i, kh\u00e1t c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean d\u1eef d\u1ed9i h\u01a1n. L\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c h\u01a1i h\u01a1i. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee3i cho t\u1edbi khi kh\u00e1t tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u00ednh to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ef1 g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn. Khi kh\u00e1t l\u00e0 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u00ec n\u00f3, khi v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 m\u1ed9t c\u1ed1c n\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng tr\u1ea3 b\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1eddi m\u00ecnh, khi kh\u00e1t l\u00e0 l\u1edbn t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng ngay c\u1ea3 m\u1ea5t m\u1ea1ng v\u00ec n\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn ch\u1ee7 \u0111\u1ed9ng, ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 &#8211; kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c; v\u00ec v\u1eady m\u00e0 kh\u00e1t n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7, n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 quan t\u00e2m.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb bu\u1ed9c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i, kh\u00e1t s\u1ebd t\u0103ng l\u00ean. M\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc t\u1edbi khi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u00e1t, m\u1ecdi t\u1ebf b\u00e0o c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Kh\u00e1t kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1edf c\u1ed5 h\u1ecdng &#8211; to\u00e0n th\u00e2n \u0111ang b\u00f9ng ch\u00e1y v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec l\u00e0n gi\u00f3 m\u00e1t t\u1eeb t\u1ea5m l\u00f2ng th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 trong kh\u00e1t v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3i s\u00e2u, tin c\u1eady c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ki\u1ec3m th\u1eed, li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 tin c\u1eady kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>Chuy\u1ec7n \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra v\u1edbi Bayazid, v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Trong m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m, truy\u1ec1n th\u1ed1ng n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, Bayazid \u0111\u00e3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i. Trong m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. M\u1ed9t h\u00f4m th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, &#8220;\u00d4ng \u0111i v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng&#8221; &#8211; ph\u00f2ng m\u00e0 Bayazid \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua m\u1ecdi ng\u00e0y, t\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111i \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea7y &#8211; &#8220;v\u00e0 trong ph\u00f2ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch. \u0110em s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3 t\u1edbi cho ta.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Bayazid n\u00f3i, &#8220;Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd th\u1ea5y cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch n\u00e0y. Th\u1ef1c ra, t\u00f4i ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng, v\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y, kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec s\u00e1ch n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng \u1edf trong b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ph\u00f2ng n\u00e0o. Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111i &#8211; n\u1ebfu th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, t\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111i.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n. Ta ch\u1ec9 th\u1eed bi\u1ebft xem li\u1ec7u \u00f4ng c\u00f3 quan t\u00e2m t\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c hay kh\u00f4ng.&#8221; S\u1ef1 quan t\u00e2m to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 th\u1ebf &#8211; h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn l\u1ea7n trong m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m t\u1edbi v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ebfn th\u1ea7y, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i qua ph\u00f2ng n\u00e0y v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd nh\u00ecn quanh. C\u00e1i \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y. Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n cu\u1ed1n s\u00e1ch \u0111\u00e2u. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u00e1ch \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Ta ch\u1ec9 th\u1eed t\u00ecm ra xem li\u1ec7u \u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u00ecn \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng n\u1eefa kh\u00f4ng, hay li\u1ec7u \u00f4ng c\u00f3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5, trung th\u1ef1c kh\u00f4ng.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00ednh \u0111\u00eam \u0111\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n trao \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra. Th\u1ea7y n\u00f3i, &#8220;\u0110\u1eebng \u0111i. \u0110\u00eam nay \u00f4ng ng\u1ee7 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y.&#8221; Bayazid ng\u1ee7 ngay b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh th\u1ea7y &#8211; nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. \u0110\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u1ea1nh m\u1ebd th\u1ebf. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 m\u01a1, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t th\u1ebf, mong \u0111\u1ee3i th\u1ebf, h\u00e0m ch\u1ee9a th\u1ebf. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u00f4ng \u1ea5y d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n trong s\u1ef1 m\u00e3nh li\u1ec7t \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ee7a kh\u00e1t, \u0111\u00f3i, v\u00e0 ng\u1ecdn l\u1eeda nh\u1ea3y qua.<\/p>\n<p>S\u00e1ng h\u00f4m sau Bayazid \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00f9ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169 \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft, ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c trao. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m, \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p, \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p th\u1ea7y d\u00f9ng cho \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf \u0111i m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00f3, to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 ra \u0111i, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 kh\u00f4ng quan t\u00e2m: m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m &#8211; hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e2u th\u1ebf. V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i bao l\u00e2u? T\u00e2m tr\u00ed li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i, &#8220;Gi\u1edd m\u00ecnh \u0111ang l\u00e0m c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y? Gi\u1edd b\u1ecf ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111i, v\u00ec ch\u1eb3ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra &#8211; m\u01b0\u1eddi hai n\u0103m \u0111\u00e3 tr\u00f4i qua!&#8221; Nh\u01b0ng ngay c\u1ea3 m\u01b0\u1eddi hai ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec, v\u00ec khi n\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 trao m\u01b0\u1eddi hai ngh\u00ecn ki\u1ebfp cho n\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed1n k\u00e9m; th\u1ebf n\u1eefa n\u00f3 ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd l\u00e0 r\u1ebb.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e9p \u1edf l\u1ea1i, nh\u01b0ng anh ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho gi\u00e1o hu\u1ea5n trong th\u1eddi gian l\u00e2u t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c anh ta m\u1ea5t quan t\u00e2m v\u00e0 r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi nh\u00f3m.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>V\u1eady r\u1ed3i khi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i xa th\u1ea7y gi\u00e1o ch\u1ec9 b\u1ea3o cho nh\u00f3m c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh: Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u00e0 minh ho\u1ea1 cho nguy\u00ean l\u00ed: Kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; V\u00ec b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nh\u00ecn b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn. H\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ecb \u1ea9n s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi. H\u00e0nh vi ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 nh\u1eefng g\u1ee3n s\u00f3ng tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng, \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1ecb \u1ea9n k\u00edn s\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111i v\u00e0o s\u00e2u. M\u1eaft kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0o s\u00e2u, Ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y ch\u1ec9 d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi Sufi c\u00f3 n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 nguy\u00ean l\u00ed n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng: Kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 minh ho\u1ea1 cho nguy\u00ean l\u00ed n\u00e0y; anh ta \u0111\u00e3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang l\u00e0m; l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y <em>t\u00f4i<\/em> b\u1eb1ng m\u1eaft? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe b\u1eb1ng tai \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i; l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe <em>t\u00f4i<\/em> b\u1eb1ng tai? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 t\u00f4i &#8211; l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ea1m <em>t\u00f4i<\/em>? M\u1ecdi gi\u00e1c quan \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 b\u1ec1 ngo\u00e0i. \u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn, b\u1eb1ng gi\u00e1c quan, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong; m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9, ngay c\u1ea3 \u0111\u00e1, c\u00f3 c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong. \u0110\u1eebng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t n\u00f3 b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 nh\u1eadn ra, th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 s\u00e2u nh\u01b0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i &#8211; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao th\u1ea7y ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1eebng bao gi\u1edd ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 v\u00ec Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t n\u00e0y trong b\u1ed1n m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m sau ch\u1ee9ng ng\u1ed9 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, v\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn ch\u01b0 ph\u1eadt tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, h\u00e0ng tr\u0103m ng\u01b0\u1eddi sau \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Jesus \u0111\u00e3 b\u01b0\u1edbc tr\u00ean n\u00f3 &#8211; b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf Israel; Mahavira \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf Bihar; v\u00e0 Krishna, v\u00e0 h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, g\u1ea7n nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a bao gi\u1edd b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt. Trong c\u1ea3 tri\u1ec7u ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng, nhi\u1ec1u l\u1ea7n \u0111i\u1ec1u ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111i qua v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ea1m v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 nghe v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i nh\u00ecn, th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd x\u1ea3y ra. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 t\u00f4i n\u1eefa n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c gi\u00e1c quan c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u v\u00e0o chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai l\u00e0 minh ho\u1ea1 v\u1ec1 l\u1eddi r\u0103n: kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 t\u1ea7m quan tr\u1ecdng s\u00e2u b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c nghe.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Anh ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n nghe m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 k\u1ebb l\u1eeba g\u1ea1t, v\u00e0 anh ta tin \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00e0y &#8211; v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn l\u00e0m t\u1eeb th\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ebd n\u00f3i c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9. \u0110\u1eebng qu\u00e1 tin c\u1eady v\u00e0o tai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Tai kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u t\u1edbi chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i \u1edf c\u00f9ng th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea7y, \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea7y t\u1eeb trong l\u00f2ng. C\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn l\u1ebb m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i &#8211; \u0111\u1eebng nghe. Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i &#8211; \u0111\u1eebng nghe, v\u00ec l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng tai? N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nh\u1ea1c b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00e1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng tai; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u1ea1c v\u0129nh h\u1eb1ng. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1eb1ng tai b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nghe n\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng tai l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu l\u00e0m sao! Nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t theo d\u00e1ng v\u1ebb, hay ai \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3i c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba l\u00e0 v\u00ed d\u1ee5 c\u1ee7a c\u00e2u ch\u00e2m ng\u00f4n: Kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi n\u00f3i, hay thi\u1ebfu l\u1eddi n\u00f3i.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>&#8230; V\u00ec ch\u00e2n l\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i ra, v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c. Ch\u00e2n l\u00ed v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i, cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t b\u1edfi l\u1eddi n\u00f3i hay b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i th\u1ea7y cho ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn, b\u1eb1ng l\u1eddi, v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m v\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m. Anh ta b\u1ecf l\u1ee1 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Anh ta \u0111\u00e1ng ra \u0111\u00e3 nghe ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, nghe ph\u00e9p m\u00e0u \u0111\u00e3 x\u1ea3y ra \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 trong th\u1ea7y, nghe c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eadp r\u1ed9n r\u00e0ng \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 trong th\u1ea7y, nghe Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf \u0111\u00e3 gi\u00e1ng xu\u1ed1ng trong th\u1ea7y. Anh ta \u0111\u00e1ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 nghe th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng nghe l\u1eddi.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 li\u00ean t\u1ee5c cho th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p, theo c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn c\u00e1ch &#8211; l\u00fac th\u00ec im l\u1eb7ng, l\u00fac th\u00ec n\u00f3i v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c&#8230;. Nh\u01b0ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 mu\u1ed1n ch\u00fa \u00fd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o anh ta, v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a d\u1eebng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi ch\u00fa \u00fd, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu th\u1ea7y ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0m m\u1ea1nh th\u00eam cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1, th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf. Th\u1ea7y cho b\u1ea1n s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd ch\u1ec9 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00ec ch\u00fa \u00fd l\u00e0 th\u1ee9c \u0103n cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Cho n\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. N\u1ebfu nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi h\u01a1n ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t quan tr\u1ecdng. Khi kh\u00f4ng ai ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi ban, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ebft; m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u00f4 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y s\u1ef1 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y, t\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean ham mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3; n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady. \u0110i\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n &#8211; kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 ch\u00fa \u00fd, m\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 cho b\u1ea1n ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c. Th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf ch\u00ednh c\u01a1n \u0111\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. Ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf n\u00f3, th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u00e0y b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf n\u00f3 th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ecdi ch\u00fa \u00fd h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 trong ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u00f3, khi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi, th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap. Ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chi\u1ebfc c\u1ea7u. Khi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fa \u00fd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee9c \u0103n cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. Khi b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, ch\u00fa \u00fd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1ee9c \u0103n cho hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Khi m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed h\u1ecfi t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi xin h\u1ecdc kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn trong vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0y, hi\u1ec1n nh\u00e2n v\u1eb7n l\u1ea1i: Ta \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec3 cho vi\u1ec7c bi\u1ebft cao h\u01a1n, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 d\u1ea1y \u0111i\u1ec1u m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft d\u01b0\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7u g\u1ed1i m\u1eb9 h\u1ecd.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o chi\u1ec1u cao nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111\u00f3ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft h\u00e0nh vi th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh vi th\u1ea5t th\u01b0\u1eddng l\u00e0 g\u00ec.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eb7p Gurdjieff \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ef1c k\u00ec m\u1ea5t tr\u00ed; ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y b\u1ecb th\u1ea7n kinh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00f3i, &#8220;L\u00e0m sao h\u00f4m nay l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 b\u1ea9y khi m\u1edbi h\u00f4m qua n\u00f3 l\u00e0 th\u1ee9 s\u00e1u?&#8221; Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ngu ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean. Nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o n\u00e0y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o Gurdjieff. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y s\u00e1ng th\u1ebf! Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng k\u00ec di\u1ec7u v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng th\u1ebf! Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, v\u00e0 nh\u00e0 b\u00e1o n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e0m sao anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1eeba d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng th\u1ebf? &#8211; v\u00ec anh ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng anh ta bi\u1ebft c\u00e1ch x\u00e1c \u0111\u1ecbnh ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ea7n kinh, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean hay ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu. Anh ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 sai l\u00e0 g\u00ec, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u l\u00e0 g\u00ec, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn. \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed ph\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ch\u01b0\u1edbng ng\u1ea1i, v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 ti\u1ebfn t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y. B\u1eb1ng k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb v\u00e2y quanh v\u00e0 b\u1ecb bao trong t\u01b0\u1eddng v\u00e0 b\u1ecb c\u1ea7m t\u00f9. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 tri th\u1ee9c, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn. B\u1ecf m\u1ecdi k\u1ebft lu\u1eadn \u0111i. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n tin v\u00e0o ai \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft t\u00ean c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111ang n\u00f3i, anh ta \u0111\u00e3 tin ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n tin theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt, v\u00ec tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd g\u1eb7p h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00e0 h\u1ecd s\u1ebd n\u00f3i c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn th\u1ee9, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tin h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u1eadt kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee9ng ngay tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i \u0111i qua h\u00e0ng ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi v\u1ecb ph\u1eadt. H\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m sao l\u00e3ng b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m sao l\u00e3ng b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c th\u1ebf n\u00e0o. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m sao l\u00e3ng b\u1ea1n. Ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n g\u1eb7p tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i, &#8220;B\u1ea1n \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u v\u1eady? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111i\u00ean kh\u00f4ng?&#8221; V\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i. Ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1eb7t m\u1ed9t \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i theo ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd h\u1ecfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai v\u1ec1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y l\u00e0 ai. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4n. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n l\u00e0 c\u1ea3 tin. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb d\u1eabn \u0111i l\u1ea1c l\u1ed1i b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai. \u0110\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 hai.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba ch\u1edd \u0111\u1ee3i. Nh\u01b0ng anh ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t. V\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, anh ta b\u1ecf l\u1ee1. C\u0169ng \u0111\u1eebng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ee9 ba.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang. 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