{"id":3279,"date":"2026-05-23T14:08:34","date_gmt":"2026-05-23T14:08:34","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3279"},"modified":"2026-05-23T14:08:34","modified_gmt":"2026-05-23T14:08:34","slug":"thay-chon-de-tu","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3279","title":{"rendered":"Th\u1ea7y ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfn tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. Th\u1ea7y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm \u2013 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t n\u00e0o c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c truy t\u00ecm m\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm mang t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0o t\u1ea1i sao anh ta \u0111i v\u00e0o vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, l\u00ed do l\u00e0 g\u00ec, v\u00ec l\u00ed do c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh. N\u1ebfu l\u00ed do l\u00e0 sai, t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac ban \u0111\u1ea7u anh ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y b\u01b0\u1edbc sai, v\u00e0 k\u1ebft th\u00fac \u0111\u00fang kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i theo vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u sai. B\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u0169ng l\u00e0 b\u01b0\u1edbc cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng, v\u00ec b\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t ng\u1ee5 \u00fd trong n\u00f3, c\u00f3 s\u1eb5n trong n\u00f3, b\u01b0\u1edbc cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m l\u00e0 c\u00e2y v\u00ec h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e2y. C\u00e1i k\u1ebft th\u00fac s\u1ebd t\u1edbi t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u00e0 l\u00ed do \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm v\u00e0 ki\u1ebfm l\u00e0 sai, th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ea7y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng, th\u1ea7y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 d\u1eabn. M\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 kh\u00e1c ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ef1c hi\u1ec7n b\u1edfi b\u1ea1n, b\u1edfi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed. \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t; kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea7y n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed l\u00ean b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o. Th\u1ea7y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tu luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa th\u1ea7y r\u1edfm v\u00e0 th\u1ea7y th\u1ef1c.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ea7y r\u1edfm l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng th\u1ee9c l\u00e0m s\u1eb5n, c\u00f3 h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu \u0111\u00f3 l\u00ean t\u1eebng v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai t\u1edbi v\u1edbi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y r\u1edfm. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 con s\u1ed1, kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 th\u1ea7y r\u1edfm c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00f3ng chi\u1ebfu, \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tu luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta \u2013 c\u00e1i l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng l\u00e0m s\u1eb5n. \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ea7y r\u1edfm gi\u1ebft nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi, v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch t\u1ed5ng th\u1ec3 v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh b\u00ean trong m\u00ecnh. Kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ecdi ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tu luy\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ea7y th\u1ef1c, th\u1ea7y nh\u01b0 Bahauddin, kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00ean b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ph\u00e1p tu luy\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ea7y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n t\u00ecm ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ea7y gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, kh\u00f4ng theo th\u1ea7y nh\u01b0ng theo con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u2013 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m v\u00e0 c\u00e2y s\u1ebd m\u1ecdc ra t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. Th\u1ea7y nhi\u1ec1u nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn y\u00eau th\u01b0\u01a1ng, t\u1eeb bi li\u00ean t\u1ee5c tr\u00fat l\u00ean b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u00e1p \u0111\u1eb7t b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00ean b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1edbi th\u1ea7y th\u1ef1c n\u1eefa b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft. Nh\u01b0ng s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ph\u1ee5c sinh. V\u1edbi th\u1ea7y r\u1edfm b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec s\u00e1ng t\u1ea1o n\u00e0o t\u1eeb n\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n nh\u1edb. C\u00e1c b\u1ea1n \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y v\u1edbi t\u00f4i. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt b\u1ecb \u00e9p bu\u1ed9c n\u00e0o. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt. Kh\u00f4ng, t\u00f4i \u1ee7ng h\u1ed9 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 cho k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt. Nh\u01b0ng k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt ph\u1ea3i b\u1eaft ngu\u1ed3n t\u1eeb b\u1ea1n. K\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 k\u1ec9 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai kh\u00e1c. Hoa c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 hoa c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 hoa c\u1ee7a b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p \u2013 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ch\u00e2n l\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi, n\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t v\u00ec m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u1edf hoa trong n\u00f3 nh\u01b0 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n. B\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1 nh\u00e2n \u0111\u00edch th\u1ef1c h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 ngh\u0129a c\u1ee7a ph\u1ee5c sinh \u2013 c\u00e1i gi\u1ea3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft \u0111i. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n mang c\u00e1i th\u1ef1c. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 mang thai v\u1edbi n\u00f3, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u1ea7y th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u Socrates th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u2013 r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee1. Th\u1ea7y th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 b\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee1. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n, con ng\u01b0\u1eddi ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, \u0111\u1ec3 mang t\u1edbi \u00e1nh s\u00e1ng, \u0111\u1ec3 mang t\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c sinh. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi v\u1edbi l\u00ed do sai th\u1ebf th\u00ec th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1ea1n v\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1edbi v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 t\u00ean l\u00e0 Silo \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i t\u1eeb Nam M\u0129. \u00d4ng ta du h\u00e0nh xa ch\u1ec9 \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i. B\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0m th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d4ng ta l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i guru theo quy\u1ec1n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta. \u00d4ng ta c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo \u1edf M\u0129 la tinh. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c. \u00d4ng ta ngh\u0129 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t cho n\u00ean \u00f4ng ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai kh\u00e1c hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n. \u00d4ng ta kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n s\u00e0ng t\u1edbi v\u00e0o l\u00fac b\u1ea9y gi\u1edd t\u1ed1i khi t\u00f4i th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1eb7p m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi. C\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta. \u00d4ng ta mu\u1ed1n c\u00f3 cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p ri\u00eang, ch\u1ec9 ri\u00eang cho \u00f4ng ta. T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 cho cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 sai. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c trong n\u00f3, \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho th\u1eddi gian ri\u00eang, nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t nguy hi\u1ec3m cho s\u1ef1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta, v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00f4i \u0111ang nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng cho l\u00ed do sai.<\/p>\n<p>\u00d4ng ta ngh\u0129 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t; do \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng ta c\u1ea7n g\u1eb7p ri\u00eang. Quan \u0111i\u1ec3m b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng h\u1eefu d\u1ee5ng g\u00ec. T\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai r\u1ed3i. Ch\u00ednh b\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean s\u1ebd l\u00e0 sai. Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng cho \u00f4ng ta cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p ri\u00eang. T\u00f4i kh\u0103ng kh\u0103ng: B\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ebfn v\u00e0o b\u1ea9y gi\u1edd t\u1ed1i mai \u0111i. \u00d4ng ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y th\u1ea5t v\u1ecdng. \u00d4ng ta vi\u1ebft m\u1ed9t l\u00e1 th\u1ee9, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta vi\u1ebft, &#8220;T\u00f4i s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee3i th\u1ea7y t\u1ea1i kh\u00e1ch san Amir ng\u00e0y mai l\u00fac b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd chi\u1ec1u.&#8221; \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft theo c\u00e1ch m\u00e0 n\u00f3 ho\u1eb7c c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng ta mu\u1ed1n t\u00f4i c\u00f3 m\u1eb7t v\u1ec1 v\u1eadt l\u00ed \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n Amir, hay c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n t\u00e2m linh c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa c\u0169ng l\u00e0 th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n, l\u00e1u l\u1ec9nh v\u00e0 tinh ranh.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0o l\u00fac b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd t\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1eed. T\u00f4i th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 th\u1eed l\u00e0m ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi \u00f4ng ta v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y <em>c\u00f3<\/em> ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1m l\u1ef1c, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u00fap \u0111\u1ee1 v\u00f4 c\u00f9ng. \u00d4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh v\u00e0 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111o\u00e1 hoa \u0111\u1eb9p. Nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u0169ng r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 v\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t t\u00e2m linh v\u00e0o l\u00fac b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i t\u00f4i. Khi t\u00f4i t\u1edbi ph\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7y kh\u00f3i thu\u1ed1c l\u00e1, v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta \u0111ang h\u00fat thu\u1ed1c, b\u1ecb bao quanh b\u1edfi kh\u00f3i thu\u1ed1c, th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i t\u00f4i, v\u00ec \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ee3i. \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e1ng ra ph\u1ea3i \u1edf trong thi\u1ec1n. \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e1ng ra ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3ng c\u1eeda ph\u00f2ng v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean im l\u1eb7ng, im l\u1eb7ng nh\u1ea5t c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, v\u00ec ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1eadt l\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb n\u00e0o, nh\u01b0ng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac t\u00e2m linh c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 chu\u1ea9n b\u1ecb. N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n s\u1ef1 c\u1ea3m nh\u1eadn. N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft tinh t\u1ebf, v\u00ec hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t tinh t\u1ebf. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0n gi\u00f3 nh\u1eb9 tho\u1ea3ng qua trong \u0111\u00f3 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u01a1n b\u00e3o m\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang ng\u1ee7 say, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb \u0111\u00e1nh th\u1ee9c d\u1eady.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi, t\u00f4i \u0111\u1ee9ng b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh \u00f4ng ta. B\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u00f4ng ta b\u1ecb bao ph\u1ee7 b\u1edfi kh\u00f3i thu\u1ed1c l\u00e1, v\u00e0 b\u00ean trong b\u1ecb bao ph\u1ee7 b\u1edfi kh\u00f3i b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u00f4ng ta nhi\u1ec1u \u00fd ngh\u0129 \u0111ang ch\u1ea1y \u0111ua, v\u00e0 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t \u00fd ngh\u0129 n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea5t nhi\u00ean, v\u00e0o l\u00fac b\u1ea9y gi\u1edd \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1eb7p t\u00f4i. L\u1ea1i m\u1ed9t th\u00f4ng b\u00e1o: &#8220;V\u00ec th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac v\u1edbi t\u00f4i l\u00fac b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd t\u00f4i s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1edbi g\u1eb7p th\u1ea7y.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i \u00f4ng ta ph\u1ea3i quay v\u1ec1. \u00d4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi tr\u00ean con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng d\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 trong \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0m th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta: b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3. \u00d4ng ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00ec l\u00ed do sai n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. \u00d4ng ta ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4i th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn, r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, \u00f4ng ta <em>l\u00e0<\/em> \u0111\u1eb7c bi\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ea5y, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00ednh n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c r\u1eb1ng \u00f4ng ta mu\u1ed1n s\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m h\u1ecfng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. B\u01b0\u1edbc th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t \u0111i sai.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 nh\u00e2n nh\u01b0\u1ee3ng n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u01b0\u1eddng. T\u00f4i th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i t\u1edbi kh\u00e1ch s\u1ea1n Amir. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 phi\u1ec1n ph\u1ee9c g\u00ec. V\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t v\u1eadt l\u00ed t\u00f4i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111i v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec l\u00e2m nguy. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y c\u00f3 ti\u1ec1m n\u0103ng, ti\u1ec1m l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn n\u1eb1m s\u00e2u trong \u00f4ng ta, nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n \u00f4ng ta l\u00e0m th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3. \u00d4ng ta c\u1ea7n l\u00e0 khi\u00eam t\u1ed1n, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 guru. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra phi\u1ec1n to\u00e1i. \u00d4ng ta c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo. B\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo, th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y ngu th\u1ebf v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ra nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n. H\u1ecd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n g\u00ec trong \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi t\u00f4i, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n l\u1edbn trong to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 v\u1edf k\u1ecbch \u0111ang s\u1eafp x\u1ea3y ra sau. V\u00e0 t\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i quan s\u00e1t r\u1eb1ng t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng gi\u00fap cho vi\u1ec7c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u sai, v\u00ec m\u1ed9t khi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u r\u1ed3i s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. H\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb thi\u00eau ch\u00e1y n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 l\u00e0 sai. M\u1ed9t khi t\u00f4i b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0 ch\u1ed3i nh\u00fa ra kh\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ea5t, h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m \u0111\u00e3 m\u1ecdc r\u1ec5, tr\u1edf n\u00ean m\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi c\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t l\u1edbn, th\u1ebf th\u00ec d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd l\u00e0 kh\u00f3&#8230; r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb \u0111\u1ed1t ch\u00e1y r\u1ea5t d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng, nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb7t c\u00e2y v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1t c\u00e2y s\u1ebd l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 c\u00e2y \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea5y! Cho n\u00ean khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00e0nh, nhi\u1ec1u l\u00e1, nhi\u1ec1u qu\u1ea3 &#8211; c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 sai, \u0111\u1eafng, \u0111\u1ed9c, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i: kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb ch\u1eb7t \u0111i. Khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1 l\u1ea1i cho d\u00f9 c\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u01b0\u1ee3ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra bao nhi\u00eau ch\u1ed1ng c\u1ef1, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tranh \u0111\u1ea5u bao nhi\u00eau khi c\u00e2y c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u2013 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1ch sai. Nh\u1edb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00ec m\u1ea5y. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1ch sai.<\/p>\n<p>Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. C\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 c\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh sai. \u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y b\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c \u0111ang di\u1ec5n ra quanh quan ni\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai trong phong tr\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh m\u00e0 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1ch sai, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00fang.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh trong b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch \u2013 m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00fang m\u1edbi l\u00e0 m\u1ee5c \u0111\u00edch. V\u00e0 m\u1ed9t khi b\u1ea1n tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1ch sai, vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh s\u1ebd tr\u1edf n\u00ean ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n \u1edf t\u1eebng b\u01b0\u1edbc, \u1edf t\u1eebng m\u1ee9c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh&#8230;. B\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng \u0111i xa h\u01a1n, vi\u1ec7c \u0111i tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n, v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u00ecnh m\u1eabu c\u1ee9ng nh\u1eafc. Tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c to\u00e0n b\u1ed9. T\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft; do \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 th\u1ea7y, v\u00ec t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u00e0o l\u00fac k\u1ebft th\u00fac. T\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft? B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u00f2 d\u1eabm trong b\u00f3ng t\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i theo c\u00e1ch ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i ch\u00edn trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh sai, v\u00ec ai s\u1ebd n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u00e2y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh? V\u00e0 m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ec1u cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed1t v\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edf r\u1ed9ng, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean l\u1edbn h\u01a1n. M\u1ecdi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh, ngay c\u1ea3 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh sai, \u0111\u1ec1u cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c t\u1ed1t. V\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh sai kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ea5y n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c. N\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u1ecf d\u1ea1i trong v\u01b0\u1eddn \u2013 ch\u00fang kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n m\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c ch\u0103m nom, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng c\u00f3 ch\u00fat \u00edt n\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 ch\u00fang s\u1ebd t\u0103ng tr\u01b0\u1edfng. Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u1ed1 tr\u1ed3ng hoa h\u1ed3ng, ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n ch\u0103m s\u00f3c, ch\u00fang c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn. C\u1ecf d\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn, nh\u01b0ng hoa h\u1ed3ng c\u1ea7n ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0m v\u01b0\u1eddn.<\/p>\n<p>\u1ede ph\u01b0\u01a1ng T\u00e2y phong tr\u00e0o tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh \u0111ang \u0111i theo nhi\u1ec1u chi\u1ec1u, nh\u01b0ng ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n qu\u00ean l\u00e3ng s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh theo c\u00e1ch sai \u2013 v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng kh\u00f3 h\u01a1n m\u1ed7i ng\u00e0y. Th\u1ea7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi, ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb ch\u00ednh l\u00fac b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, v\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 n\u00f3, \u0111\u1ec3 cho h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m \u0111\u00fang c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u0169ng mang h\u1ea1t m\u1ea7m \u0111\u00fang \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00fang v\u00e0 sai. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a t\u1ed1t v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. B\u1ea1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a c\u1ecf d\u1ea1i v\u00e0 hoa h\u1ed3ng. Ai \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i n\u00f3 ra cho b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 l\u1eabn l\u1ed9n.<\/p>\n<p>Khi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u1ea3y sinh trong th\u1ea7y l\u00e0: T\u1ea1i sao anh ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh? Th\u1ea7y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed: T\u1ea1i sao? V\u00ec l\u00ed do g\u00ec? C\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 mang anh ta t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh?<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 quan s\u00e1t c\u1ea3 ngh\u00ecn ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i. Hi\u1ebfm khi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi v\u00ec l\u00ed do \u0111\u00fang \u2013 hi\u1ebfm hoi. Nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i x\u1ea5u; hi\u1ebfm khi chuy\u1ec7n x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi v\u1edbi l\u00ed do \u0111\u00fang. Anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 anh ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi v\u00ec l\u00ed do \u0111\u00fang. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1. Suy ngh\u0129 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ea5y gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb v\u00ec l\u00ed do \u1ea9n k\u00ed s\u00e2u h\u01a1n trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, kh\u00f4ng \u1edf tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t. Anh ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ngh\u0129 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t x\u1ea3y t\u1edbi v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y l\u00e0: T\u1ea1i sao? \u2013 t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh? V\u00e0 th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nghe v\u00e0 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ec1u kh\u00f4ng m\u1ea5y x\u1ee9ng \u0111\u00e1ng v\u00ec kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ti\u1ebfp b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3. Ng\u00e0y mai b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd thay \u0111\u1ed5i n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t lu\u1ed3ng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 trung t\u00e2m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft tinh trong b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e1p l\u1ea1i. Th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i \u0111i s\u00e2u h\u01a1n v\u00e0o trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, t\u1edbi ch\u00ednh r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n, v\u00e0 xem t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2y. Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 nghe v\u00e0 tin v\u00e0o b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 tin \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh l\u1eeba d\u1ed1i t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1eeba b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. M\u1ed9t khi c\u00e1i t\u1ea1i sao c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang t\u1edbi \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 v\u1edbi l\u00ed do \u0111\u00fang vi\u1ec7c tr\u01b0\u1edfng th\u00e0nh t\u01b0\u01a1ng lai c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1eb7t n\u1ec1n m\u00f3ng v\u00e0 d\u1ef1a v\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p>S\u1ef1 v\u1ee5 nh\u1ecf n\u00e0y trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a Bahauddin El-Shah l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t hay v\u00e0 s\u1ebd gi\u00fap b\u1ea1n hi\u1ec3u nhi\u1ec1u \u0111i\u1ec1u.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Bahauddin El-Shah \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed th\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng h\u1ecdp. El-Shah y\u00eau c\u1ea7u t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd, t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t, n\u00f3i t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u1edbi nh\u01b0ng c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong b\u1eaby c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y. Th\u1ea7y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf anh ta, nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tin c\u1eady anh ta. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo l\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea3ng v\u1ea3ng xung quanh m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c li\u1ec7u ra \u0111i kh\u1ecfi th\u1ea7y hay l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n. Anh ta s\u1ee3 t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n v\u00ec th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i ch\u1ebft; anh ta c\u0169ng s\u1ee3 ra \u0111i v\u00ec th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c sinh.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo ch\u1ec9 \u0111ang tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed ho\u1eb7c tr\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9. Ho\u1eb7c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo s\u1ebd t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n v\u00e0 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, ho\u1eb7c anh ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u00ecm ra c\u1edb \u0111\u1ec3 ra \u0111i v\u00e0 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo ra \u0111i, anh ta ph\u1ea3i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh k\u1ebb th\u00f9; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng anh ta c\u00f3 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch duy l\u00ed n\u00e0o cho vi\u1ec7c ra \u0111i? L\u00e0m sao anh ta s\u1ebd tho\u1ea3 m\u00e3n cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh v\u1ec1 l\u00ed do anh ta \u0111\u00e3 ra \u0111i kh\u1ecfi m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 Bahauddin, m\u1ed9t h\u1ed3n thu\u1ea7n khi\u1ebft t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y? Do \u0111\u00f3 El-Shah: Bahauddin l\u00e0 t\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. <em>El-Shah<\/em> l\u00e0 t\u00ean c\u00e1c \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y g\u1ecdi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y, th\u1ea7y c\u1ee7a c\u00e1c th\u1ea7y, ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi th\u1ea7y \u2013 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0&#8230; m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 s\u1ee9c h\u00fat m\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea5t trong l\u1ecbch s\u1eed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi Sufi.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 Bahauddin b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea1n ho\u1eb7c l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 v\u1eabn c\u00f2n d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea3m \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 d\u1eedng d\u01b0ng. Quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u01b0a ra v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u01b0 Bahauddin t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ednh quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ngay c\u1ea3 trong b\u1ea1n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i do d\u1ef1, ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng trong do d\u1ef1, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra trong do d\u1ef1.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n s\u1ed1ng trong do d\u1ef1 v\u00e0 ch\u1ebft trong do d\u1ef1, kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd bi\u1ebft b\u1ea1n \u0111ang l\u00e0m g\u00ec, t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m n\u00f3, li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m n\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m n\u00f3&#8230; ch\u1ec9 tr\u00f4i gi\u1ea1t c\u00f9ng \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>Khi b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n m\u1ed9t th\u1ea7y b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 m\u1ea1o hi\u1ec3m l\u1edbn, c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi b\u1ea1n l\u00e2m nguy. Cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111i quanh \u1ea4n \u0110\u1ed9 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y ho\u1eb7c b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i ho\u1eb7c k\u1ebb th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a t\u00f4i, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111i\u00ean trong y\u00eau t\u00f4i ho\u1eb7c nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111ang \u0111i\u00ean trong gh\u00e9t t\u00f4i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh x\u1ea3y ra. L\u00ed do l\u00e0 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean trong y\u00eau t\u00f4i v\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean trong gh\u00e9t t\u00f4i \u2013 h\u1ecd c\u1ea3 hai ph\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 k\u1ebb th\u00f9 v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i li\u00ean t\u1ee5c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 t\u00f4i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb k\u00e9o v\u00e0o, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd b\u1ecb s\u1eadp b\u1eaby. B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean n\u00f3i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i t\u00f4i \u2013 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111ang lan truy\u1ec1n h\u1eadn th\u00f9 v\u1edbi t\u00f4i, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 s\u1ea3n ph\u1ea9m ph\u1ee5, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ef1c ra b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u1eb1ng th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 h\u1eadn th\u00f9 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, li\u00ean t\u1ee5c nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng n\u00f3. B\u1ea1n s\u1ee3 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng nu\u00f4i d\u01b0\u1ee1ng h\u1eadn th\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n. V\u00e0 n\u1ed7i s\u1ee3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n, ch\u1ebft x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ec9 \u1edf gi\u1eefa, tr\u00ean h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o, v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 nh\u1ea3y v\u00e0o trong nh\u00e0 hay nh\u1ea3y ra ngo\u00e0i nh\u00e0 v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1y \u0111i. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo \u1edf tr\u00ean h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o. \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh nh\u1ea3y v\u00e0o trong nh\u00e0, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi s\u1ed1ng tr\u00ean h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi h\u1ecd. H\u1ecd l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi v\u00ec ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 t\u01b0 th\u1ebf tho\u1ea3i m\u00e1i, v\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o ch\u1eb3ng cho l\u1ea1i c\u00e1i g\u00ec. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ph\u00ed ho\u00e0i cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng v\u00e0 th\u1eddi gian c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ho\u1eb7c \u0111i v\u00e0o ho\u1eb7c \u0111i ra. \u0110\u1eebng ng\u1ed3i tr\u00ean h\u00e0ng r\u00e0o qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u00f3i quen, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u1ea3.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Bahauddin El-Shah \u0111ang ng\u1ed3i c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed th\u00ec m\u1ed9t s\u1ed1 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo b\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0o ph\u00f2ng h\u1ecdp.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo, v\u1eabn ngh\u0129, c\u1ed1 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00e1i g\u00ec l\u00e0m, c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m, v\u1eabn s\u1ee3 cam k\u1ebft v\u00e0 c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ra \u0111i&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>El-Shah y\u00eau c\u1ea7u t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong h\u1ecd, t\u1eebng ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ed9t, n\u00f3i t\u1ea1i sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u00d4ng \u1ea5y h\u1ecfi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i theo, kh\u00f4ng h\u1ecfi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed. Khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khai t\u00e2m, v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ec9 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea7y. Th\u1ef1c ra ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea1i l\u00e0 l\u00ed do: th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho \u1ea5n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 t\u00ednh b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c b\u1ea1n t\u1ef1 do ch\u1ecdn l\u1ef1a. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111i\u1ec1u th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea7y, th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea7y v\u00ec th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i; b\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng m\u00e0 th\u1ea7y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p b\u1ea1n ch\u1ecdn. Th\u1ea7y th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bu\u1ed9c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ra \u0111i.<\/p>\n<p>Bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1edb, khi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ecdn b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn th\u1ea7y. Ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn b\u1ea1n c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y t\u1ea1o ra ham mu\u1ed1n trong b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn ban, ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ecdn \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh trong b\u1ea1n, hay \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t \u01b0\u1edbc mu\u1ed1n l\u1edd m\u1edd v\u00e0 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd s\u1edbm bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 g\u1ee3n s\u00f3ng nh\u1ecf tr\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e2u.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n v\u1eady, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i l\u00e2u trong b\u1ea1n. Khi t\u00f4i h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n, &#8220;B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c khai t\u00e2m v\u00e0o t\u00ednh sannyas kh\u00f4ng?&#8221; T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 khai t\u00e2m cho b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 tr\u00f2 ch\u01a1i. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u01a1i \u0111\u00f9a n\u00f4 gi\u1ee1n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, &#8220;T\u00f4i s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u00f3.&#8221; B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i, &#8220;\u0110\u1ee3i \u0111\u00e3, nh\u01b0ng ngay kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc n\u00e0y c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a t\u1edbi cho t\u00f4i, v\u00ec t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 to\u00e0n t\u00e2m \u1edf trong n\u00f3, v\u00ec t\u00f4i b\u1ecb ph\u00e2n chia n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i n\u0103m m\u01b0\u01a1i.&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 t\u00f4i b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n, &#8220;V\u00e2ng, quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh \u0111i, suy ng\u1eabm \u0111i, ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i, v\u00e0 khi b\u1ea1n quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, t\u1edbi t\u00f4i.&#8221; Nh\u01b0ng t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi b\u1ea1n r\u1ed3i. V\u00e0 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y s\u1edbm hay mu\u1ed9n s\u1ebd b\u00f9ng l\u00ean trong \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u1eadm l\u1ea1i ch\u00fat \u00edt, c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i. B\u1ea1n tr\u00ec ho\u00e3n ch\u00fat \u00edt, c\u00f3 v\u1eady th\u00f4i.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 s\u1ef1 vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. L\u00e0m sao \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ecdn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ea7y? Theo ti\u00eau ch\u00ed n\u00e0o? Ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t th\u1ebf n\u00e0o? \u0110\u1ec7 t\u1eed kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec v\u1ecb tr\u00ed n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u v\u00e0o th\u1ea7y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Anh ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1n x\u00e9t t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ea7y l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9. Th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 <em>ch\u00ednh<\/em> b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00ean ngo\u00e0i th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1edf th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n. Th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m v\u1eady, v\u00ec th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh v\u00e0i ng\u01b0\u1eddi, th\u1ef1c ra nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u2013 ph\u1ea7n th\u1ee9 nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a nh\u00e2n lo\u1ea1i, ph\u1ea7n \u0111a s\u1ed1, nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng trong cu\u1ed9c truy t\u00ecm. H\u1ecd c\u0169ng t\u1edbi th\u1ea7y, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf hay ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, ch\u1ec9 t\u00f2 m\u00f2, t\u00f2 m\u00f2 tr\u1ebb con. Th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i n\u00e9 tr\u00e1nh h\u1ecd. Th\u1ea7y ph\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o ra t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 quanh th\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ec3 cho h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn. Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 loan truy\u1ec1n tin \u0111\u1ed3n v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh. Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u01b0ng ra nh\u1eefng b\u1ed9 m\u1eb7t kh\u00e1c nhau cho nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c nhau. Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 r\u1ea5t nghi\u00eam kh\u1eafc, t\u00e0n nh\u1eabn, \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1c nh\u00f3m. Th\u1ea7y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ed1 ch\u1ee9ng minh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 cho cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 h\u1ecd quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng d\u00e0nh cho h\u1ecd, v\u00e0 qu\u00ean ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y v\u00e0 r\u1eddi b\u1ecf \u00f4ng \u1ea5y.<\/p>\n<p>\u1ede b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0o \u1edf b\u00ean trong. V\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n; l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 xuy\u00ean th\u1ea5u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong c\u1ee7a th\u1ea7y, c\u00e1i gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1ef1c th\u1eb3m bao la? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u1ee9 r\u01a1i v\u00e0 r\u01a1i m\u00e3i v\u00e0o trong n\u00f3. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao th\u1ea7y t\u1ea1o ra s\u1ee3. B\u1ea1n b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u run d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 th\u1ea7y l\u00e0 mi\u1ec7ng v\u1ef1c s\u00e2u. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u00ecn v\u00e0o trong th\u1ea7y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y hoa m\u1eaft ch\u00f3ng m\u1eb7t. S\u1ee3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u run v\u00e0 v\u00e3 m\u1ed3 h\u00f4i. Kh\u00f4ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o cho \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1edbi \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed, tin c\u1eady th\u1ea7y c\u0169ng gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o y\u00eau. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 x\u1ea3y ra. Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c x\u1ea3y ra. V\u1edbi th\u1ea7y \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u00fd th\u1ee9c r\u1ea5t r\u1ea5t t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o. M\u1ed9t khi th\u1ea7y th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ea7y m\u1edf c\u1eeda. M\u1ed9t khi th\u1ea7y th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00edch h\u1ee3p c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi l\u00ed do th\u00edch h\u1ee3p, th\u1ea7y ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn anh ta, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ea5p nh\u1eadn \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 trong b\u1ea1n, m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh, m\u1ed9t quy\u1ebft t\u00e2m, m\u1ed9t ham mu\u1ed1n b\u00f9ng ch\u00e1y,<em> abhipsa<\/em>, \u0111\u1ec3 \u1edf ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng g\u1ea7n h\u01a1n v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y. Cho d\u00f9 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd ch\u1ebft, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng s\u1ee3. V\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 <em>ng\u1ee5 \u00fd<\/em> ch\u1ebft, v\u00ec vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ee5c sinh l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 khi ch\u1ebft \u0111\u00e3 xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u201cY nh\u01b0 v\u1eady\u201d, Ch.2 T\u1ea1i sao \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 t\u1edbi?<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfn tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm. Th\u1ea7y ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 ra con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng. Vi\u1ec7c t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm tu\u1ef3 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00ecm &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3280,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,24],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3279","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quan-sat-nhan-biet","category-thay-de-tu"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3279","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3279"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3279\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3281,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3279\/revisions\/3281"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3280"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3279"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3279"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3279"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<br />
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