{"id":3245,"date":"2026-04-22T06:19:36","date_gmt":"2026-04-22T06:19:36","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3245"},"modified":"2026-04-22T06:19:36","modified_gmt":"2026-04-22T06:19:36","slug":"ham-muon-chi-cai-o-ben-trong-ong","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3245","title":{"rendered":"Ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u00f3 h\u01a1i ch\u00fat th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1. N\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i v\u1eady, v\u00ec t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n v\u00e0 li\u00ean quan nhi\u1ec1u t\u1edbi huy\u1ec1n. S\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u. V\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat nh\u01b0ng c\u0169ng v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u ch\u00fang ta m\u00f4 t\u1ea3 l\u00e0 huy\u1ec1n; ch\u1ec9 ch\u1eebng n\u1ea5y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u &#8211; r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hi\u1ec3u. S\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u1edf d\u01b0\u1edbi m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7; huy\u1ec1n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i \u1edf tr\u00ean m\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7. Tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o l\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n, nh\u01b0ng khi n\u00f3 c\u1ed1 th\u0103m d\u00f2 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a huy\u1ec1n, b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n tr\u00ed tu\u1ec7 b\u1ecb tan bi\u1ebfn.<\/p>\n<p>Ramakrishna th\u01b0\u1eddng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t nh\u00e2n v\u1eadt \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m ra t\u1eeb mu\u1ed1i m\u00e0 th\u1eed th\u0103m d\u00f2 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u00edch \u0111\u1ebfn, b\u1edfi v\u00ec n\u00f3 sau r\u1ed1t to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u00e0m b\u1eb1ng mu\u1ed1i &#8211; v\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 r\u01a1i v\u00e0o trong chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng, n\u00f3 tan bi\u1ebfn, tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p thu. \u0110\u1ebfn l\u00fac n\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i r\u1ed3i &#8211; kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec s\u1ebd c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1edf l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng s\u00e2u th\u1ebf n\u00e0o.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady m\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n n\u00e9m h\u00f2n \u0111\u00e1 v\u00e0o, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u00e1c chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ch\u1ea1m t\u1edbi b\u1edfi h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng. L\u00e0m sao c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 tan bi\u1ebfn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, l\u1ea1i c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng? L\u00e0m sao c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t, m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p thu, c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u th\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng?<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111o theo li theo d\u1eb7m, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u kh\u00e1c, chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u mang t\u00ednh t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng, c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111o theo c\u00e1ch \u0111\u00f3. Duy nh\u1ea5t mu\u1ed1i s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111o chi\u1ec1u s\u00e2u \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec n\u00f3 s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng b\u1ecb tan bi\u1ebfn, h\u1ed9i nh\u1eadp, m\u1ea5t \u0111i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t v\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng qua vi\u1ec7c b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p thu. Trong ch\u00ednh vi\u1ec7c h\u1ea5p thu \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng. Nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o quay l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>Huy\u1ec1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm, nh\u01b0ng l\u00fac n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. Ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u1eafm m\u1ed9t s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n trong n\u1eafm tay c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta l\u1ea1i \u1edf trong tay c\u1ee7a ch\u00ednh huy\u1ec1n.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd nh\u1eefng l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y tr\u1edf n\u00ean s\u00e2u h\u01a1n, b\u00e2y gi\u1edd s\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh s\u00e2u h\u01a1n. Ch\u1ec9 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u0103m ch\u00fa b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng hi\u1ec3u.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi kinh th\u1ee9 b\u1ea9y:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 r\u1ea5t ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed, ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed theo hai c\u00e1ch. M\u1ed9t l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 \u01b0\u1edbc, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 mu\u1ed1n, c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd &#8211; m\u1ed9t khao kh\u00e1t v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y thi\u1ebfu. Cho n\u00ean ham mu\u1ed1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 v\u00e0o ng\u00e0y mai. Ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00f2n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec kh\u00e1c ngo\u00e0i khao kh\u00e1t n\u00e0y?<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0, kh\u00f4ng ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ecdi ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng th\u1ee9 m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u1edf b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta; ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3. \u0110i\u1ec1u d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 logic l\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecfi v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3; t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i h\u1ecfi c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3? Cho n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean l\u00e0, ham mu\u1ed1n kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta; do \u0111\u00f3 l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 r\u1ea5t ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 ngh\u1ecbch l\u00ed theo c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9 hai: trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i m\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi. N\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 bao nhi\u00eau c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb c\u01b0\u1edbp c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3 &#8211; v\u00e0 cho d\u00f9 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y tr\u1ed9m, cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb c\u01b0\u1edbp, cho d\u00f9 nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ed9ng s\u1ea3n, cho d\u00f9 kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, d\u1ea7u v\u1eady ch\u1ebft s\u1ebd gi\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 \u0111i. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n ham mu\u1ed1n v\u00e0 t\u00edch lu\u1ef9, v\u00e0o kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc ch\u1ebft, s\u1ebd r\u01a1i kh\u1ecfi tay b\u1ea1n. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. N\u1ebfu n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng ai c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao, trong con m\u1eaft c\u1ee7a t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, <em>c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i <\/em>ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n. C\u00e1i m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u lo l\u1eafng &#8211; v\u00ec m\u1ecdi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao h\u00e0m trong vi\u1ec7c ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean b\u1ea1n l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5 v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 ph\u1ea3i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 n\u00f3. \u0110\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u00e1c v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 gi\u00e0nh gi\u1eadt v\u00e0 l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 t\u1eeb ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 sau khi l\u00e0m m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ee3 v\u00e0 run, hai m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ed1n gi\u1edd m\u1ed9t ng\u00e0y trong s\u1ee3, trong tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb1ng n\u00e0o \u0111i ch\u0103ng n\u1eefa \u0111\u1ebfn l\u00fac cu\u1ed1i c\u00f9ng n\u00f3 <em>b\u1ecb <\/em>l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n! Cho n\u00ean t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ngu g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i &#8211; th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ho\u1ea1.<\/p>\n<p>C\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i th\u1ef1c l\u00e0 c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n; ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 m\u1edbi l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec g\u1ecdi n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u1edbi c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a. Nh\u01b0ng \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 lo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i g\u00ec m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n? N\u1ebfu lo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i n\u00e0y qu\u1ea3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i, n\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n &#8211; ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 m\u1edbi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t nh\u01b0 v\u1eady.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 t\u00edch lu\u1ef9 t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i. Duy nh\u1ea5t c\u00e1i thu\u1ed9c v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ed1 h\u1eefu c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta m\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta. C\u00e1i c\u01b0 ng\u1ee5 trong ch\u00ednh h\u1ed3n c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi ch\u00fang ta; v\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 h\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n<p>Nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ed3n. Khi t\u00f4i n\u00f3i \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb r\u1ea5t s\u1ed1c, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u1edbi ni\u1ec1m tin r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3 h\u1ed3n. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang; n\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang theo ngh\u0129a r\u1eb1ng m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 h\u1ed3n &#8211; nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ec1u c\u00f3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea3n th\u1ed1ng k\u00ea m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n s\u1edf h\u1eefu, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 bao g\u1ed3m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u00f4ng? Trong vi\u1ec7c tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi c\u00e2u h\u1ecfi n\u00e0y b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u1ed3n hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>L\u00e0m m\u1ed9t danh s\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u1ec1 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3; th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ng\u1ed3i xu\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00e2y b\u00fat \u0111\u1ecf b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u \u0111\u00e1nh d\u1ea5u v\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ea5y \u0111i. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 danh s\u00e1ch \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c che ph\u1ee7 trong m\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ecf &#8211; kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9 n\u00e0o c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i. Cho n\u00ean \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 h\u1ed3n. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1eaft g\u1eb7p b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i b\u1edfi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai, ngay c\u1ea3 ch\u1ebft c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c, ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 h\u1ed3n.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ecdc kinh s\u00e1ch m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nh\u1eadn \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng sai: r\u1eb1ng h\u1ed3n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1eafc ch\u1eafn c\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng ph\u1ecfng c\u00f3 \u00edch g\u00ec v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i hay kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft g\u00ec v\u1ec1 n\u00f3? V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kinh nghi\u1ec7m v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 n\u00f3, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec v\u1edbi n\u00f3? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00f3 kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00f4n d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eb3ng bi\u1ebft n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u hay li\u1ec7u ngay c\u1ea3 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fat n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng. Kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u01b0 v\u1eady c\u00f3 gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb g\u00ec \u1edf b\u00e3i ch\u1ee3?<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft ch\u1ed7 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u, ch\u00ednh s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m b\u1ea1n th\u00e0nh ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf. Nh\u01b0ng trong th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn ph\u1ea3i \u0111i \u0103n xin, v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kim c\u01b0\u01a1ng trong tay b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y n\u00f3, l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1eafc r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00f4n \u1edf \u0111\u00f3? Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a \u0111\u00e0o \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3, ngay c\u1ea3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00f4n d\u01b0\u1edbi nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng l\u00e0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 l\u00e0 c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c vi\u1ebft trong kinh s\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng? \u0110\u1ea3m b\u1ea3o c\u1ee7a kinh s\u00e1ch c\u00f3 t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea1n ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec! B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n \u0111\u1ed3, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u1ed3n gi\u1ed1ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ean hay \u0111\u1ecba ch\u1ec9 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 hay b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ec9 nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 h\u1ed3n; b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft li\u1ec7u h\u1ed3n nh\u01b0 v\u1eady t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i hay kh\u00f4ng.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi kinh n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea1i sao ph\u00ed th\u1eddi gian v\u00e0 n\u0103ng l\u01b0\u1ee3ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u00e0o ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1c th\u1ee9 b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n? Cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang s\u1ebd b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t v\u00e0 m\u1ecdi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tan bi\u1ebfn nh\u01b0 \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ebd tr\u00ean n\u01b0\u1edbc &#8211; tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n ho\u00e0n th\u00e0nh vi\u1ec7c v\u1ebd ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb xo\u00e1 r\u1ed3i. M\u1ecdi c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng ch\u1ec9 gi\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 v\u1ea5t v\u1ea3 n\u1eafm gi\u1eef n\u00f3, v\u00e0 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u bi\u1ebfn \u0111i. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf l\u00e0 gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 c\u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u1ebd tr\u00ean n\u01b0\u1edbc. V\u00e0 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i \u0111\u00f3 \u1edf l\u1ea1i b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u1edbi c\u00f9ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i n\u00e0y. Trong s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0 ngh\u00e8o; s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 ho\u00e0ng \u0111\u1ebf. Ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean ngh\u00e8o qua vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra; ch\u00fang ta thu l\u1ea5y n\u00f3 qua n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra \u0111\u00e3 gi\u1ea7u c\u00f3 r\u1ed3i. V\u01b0\u01a1ng qu\u1ed1c l\u00e0 ch\u00ednh \u0111\u1ecbnh m\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, n\u00f3 \u1ea9n b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<p>V\u1eady m\u00e0 ngay c\u00e1i b\u1ecb \u1ea9n b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi, v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t n\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 k\u00ed \u1ee9c v\u1ec1 n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 ch\u1ee7 \u00fd l\u00e0m tr\u1ec7ch ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta sang con \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng n\u01a1i k\u00ed \u1ee9c n\u00e0y v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb th\u1ea5t l\u1ea1c. Ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m tr\u1ec7ch ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t c\u00e1ch quay ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00f3 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta h\u1ed9i t\u1ee5 ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i &#8211; v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea3y ra v\u00ec nh\u1eefng h\u00e0nh vi x\u1ea5u n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong qu\u00e1 kh\u1ee9. C\u00f3 c\u00e1c l\u00ed do t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean cho ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111i ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft cho s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n. N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra v\u1edbi ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 quay v\u00e0o trong, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea7n ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. N\u00f3 c\u1ea7n t\u1ec9nh t\u00e1o v\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u00ec th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 n\u00f3, v\u00ec cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, v\u00ec an to\u00e0n c\u1ee7a n\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3i, th\u1ee9c \u0103n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cung c\u1ea5p t\u1eeb b\u00ean trong &#8211; th\u1ee9c \u0103n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i t\u1edbi t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. Cho n\u00ean khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3i ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111i ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, t\u1eeb ch\u1ed7 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u1ee9c \u0103n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao, d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 hay kh\u00f4ng, v\u00fa c\u1ee7a \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 thu h\u00fat \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 kinh nghi\u1ec7m \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 m\u00e0 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf n\u00f3. M\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean m\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u00f3 v\u1edbi th\u1ec3 gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 qua v\u00fa c\u1ee7a m\u1eb9 n\u00f3. Ch\u00ednh n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eddi n\u00f3 v\u00e0 an ninh l\u00e0 \u1edf trong b\u1ea7u v\u00fa. V\u00fa \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. V\u00fa \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, v\u00e0 l\u00e0 ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac vui th\u00edch, qua \u0111\u00f3 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u1edbn l\u00ean, ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n v\u00e0 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ngay c\u1ea3 khi \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean gi\u00e0, m\u00ea \u0111\u1eafm c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 v\u1edbi v\u00fa \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Trong phim \u1ea3nh, c\u00e1c b\u1ee9c tranh v\u00e0 t\u01b0\u1ee3ng, \u0111\u00e0n \u00f4ng \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t ch\u00fa \u00fd t\u1edbi v\u00fa. Ch\u00ednh m\u1ed9t k\u00ed \u1ee9c t\u1eeb th\u1eddi th\u01a1 \u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng r\u1eddi kh\u1ecfi ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u00e0y n\u00f3 r\u1eddi \u0111i, bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. V\u00fa \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u01a1 s\u1edf c\u1ee7a ti\u1ebfp x\u00fac \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1edbi th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean khi \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00f3i, ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, v\u00e0 khi n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y kh\u00e1t, ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 h\u01b0\u1edbng ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. M\u1ecdi nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. H\u1ed3n kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm n\u00f3 \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 &#8211; b\u00ean trong. V\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea7n t\u00ecm n\u00f3, ch\u00fang ta qu\u00ean n\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 gi\u1eef vi\u1ec7c nh\u1edb c\u00e1i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ec3 \u00fd l\u00e0m sao khi gai \u0111\u00e2m v\u00e0o ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, hay n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 \u0111au trong \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111au trong n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u00ec \u0111au; kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111au b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh m\u1edbi nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u00ecnh; ng\u01b0\u1eddi kho\u1ebb kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 n\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 kho\u1ebb: kh\u00f4ng th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 kho\u1ebb &#8211; khi b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd n\u00f3 b\u1ecb \u1ed1m. B\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 khi n\u00f3 \u1ed1m &#8211; v\u00ec trong \u1ed1m b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n cho n\u00f3 s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd. Trong khi gai \u0111ang b\u1ecb m\u1eafc trong ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, m\u1ecdi ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec1u d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o ch\u00e2n v\u00ec nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 kh\u1ec1u gai ra. Cho n\u00ean m\u1ecdi ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3, v\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec gai\u00a0 m\u1edbi \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u1ec1u ra. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng \u0111i t\u1edbi ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, gai ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i v\u00e0 ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd lan r\u1ed9ng. Cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u0111au, m\u1ecdi ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao y h\u1ecdc \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1c c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c&#8230;. Khi c\u00f3 \u0111au, \u0111au th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c cho b\u1ea1n vi\u00ean thu\u1ed1c. \u0110i\u1ec1u duy nh\u1ea5t x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 k\u00eanh li\u00ean l\u1ea1c qua \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ea1n ghi nh\u1eadn \u0111au b\u1ecb ng\u1eaft; cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y \u0111au. \u0110au kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf b\u1eb1ng thu\u1ed1c &#8211; \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng &#8211; n\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ng\u1eaft k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i vi\u1ec7c truy\u1ec1n ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi c\u00e1i \u0111au, n\u00f3 l\u00e0m m\u1ea5t m\u1ea5t t\u00e1c d\u1ee5ng d\u00e2y th\u1ea7n kinh \u1edf gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1ec3 cho th\u00f4ng \u0111i\u1ec7p kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i qua \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Cho n\u00ean cho d\u00f9 ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n s\u1eafp b\u1ecb c\u1eaft b\u1ecf, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. M\u0169i ti\u00eam \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ti\u00eam: n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng d\u1eebng c\u00e1i \u0111au, c\u00e1i \u0111au v\u1eabn c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3, nh\u01b0ng m\u0169i ti\u00eam kh\u00f4ng cho ph\u00e9p ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi ch\u1ed7 \u0111au. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao c\u00e1i \u0111au kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y. To\u00e0n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb m\u1ed5 phanh ra, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1edf n\u00ean nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 n\u00f3, v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3; v\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n <em>s\u1ebd <\/em>\u0111i t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3 &#8211; b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ch\u1ed7 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 \u0111au, ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111au trong h\u1ed3n; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o cho ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111\u00f3. H\u1ed3n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c &#8211; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u cho \u0111au \u0111\u1ec3 g\u1ecdi t\u1edbi s\u1ef1 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng trong tr\u1ee5c tr\u1eb7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c. Th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 c\u00e1i m\u00e1y bao la, n\u00f3 r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. Cho t\u1edbi gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u00f2n ch\u01b0a c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i m\u00e1y n\u00e0o tr\u00ean tr\u00e1i \u0111\u1ea5t m\u00e0 ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p nh\u01b0 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 khoa h\u1ecdc n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n sao ch\u00e9p c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c c\u1ee7a m\u1ed9t th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng, m\u1ed9t nh\u00e0 m\u00e1y tr\u1ea3i tr\u00ean \u00edt nh\u1ea5t m\u01b0\u1eddi d\u1eb7m vu\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c x\u00e2y d\u1ef1ng. Ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd c\u00f3 ti\u1ebfng \u1ed3n v\u00e0 huy\u00ean n\u00e1o th\u1ebf trong nh\u00e0 m\u00e1y \u0111\u00f3 &#8211; nh\u01b0ng trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 x\u1ea3y ra im l\u1eb7ng th\u1ebf.<\/p>\n<p>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u01b0\u1ee3ng bao la. Trong th\u00e2n ng\u01b0\u1eddi, trong th\u00e2n c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u00f3 qu\u00e3ng hai ngh\u00ecn t\u1ec9 t\u1ebf b\u00e0o. C\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1m \u0111\u00f4ng hai ngh\u00ecn t\u1ec9 t\u1ebf b\u00e0o trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 ch\u00fang c\u00f3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i, ch\u00fang c\u00f3 qui ch\u1ebf, v\u00e0 c\u00e1c qui ch\u1ebf c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang l\u00e0 duy nh\u1ea5t. Cho t\u1edbi gi\u1edd, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng t\u1ea1o ra m\u1ed9t t\u1ed5 ch\u1ee9c n\u00e0o nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf n\u00e0y. Nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t trong c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 n\u01b0\u1edbc c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111i\u1ec1u ti\u1ebft v\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng h\u1ee3p t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0 hai ngh\u00ecn t\u1ec9 t\u1ebf b\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 c\u00e1ch ch\u00fang l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c: n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd b\u1ecb ng\u1ea1c nhi\u00ean. M\u1ed9t v\u1ebft th\u01b0\u01a1ng nh\u1ecf, v\u00e0 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u00edch ho\u1ea1t. V\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c \u0103n m\u1ed9t ch\u00fat \u00edt th\u1ee9c \u0103n, c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u. Ngay c\u1ea3 khi b\u1ea1n \u0111ang kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec, c\u00e1i m\u00e1y l\u1edbn n\u00e0y v\u1eabn \u0111ang v\u1eadn h\u00e0nh. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 nh\u1ecf trong c\u00e1i m\u00e1y ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p n\u00e0y, \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi n\u00f3. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fa \u00fd n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c cho, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ch\u1ebft.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean n\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra m\u00e0 c\u00f3 ch\u00fa \u00fd v\u00e0o trong, n\u00f3 ch\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong thi\u1ec1n th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra l\u1ea7n n\u1eefa. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 l\u00ed do cho \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3: kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 sinh v\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng trong thi\u1ec1n b\u1ecb h\u1ea5p thu \u1edf b\u00ean trong. V\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c h\u1ea5p thu k\u00e9o v\u00e0o n\u00e0y, kh\u00f4ng m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp v\u1edbi th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 m\u1edbi. Cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed1i quan h\u1ec7 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra, \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng c\u00f2n v\u00ec n\u00f3 ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng cho nhu c\u1ea7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3. N\u00f3 ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng \u0111\u1ed1i di\u1ec7n v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng th\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00ednh b\u1edfi v\u00ec nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 &#8211; nhu c\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng &#8211; m\u00e0 ch\u00fa \u00fd \u0111i ra b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. V\u00e0 c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u \u0111au trong th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, nhi\u1ec1u ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c g\u1ecdi ch\u00fa \u00fd th\u01b0\u1eddng xuy\u00ean. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, v\u1ec1 gi\u00e1c quan, v\u1ec1 th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi; v\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi &#8211; c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta \u0111ang l\u00e0 v\u1eady! V\u00ec m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111au \u1edf \u0111\u00f3; kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111au n\u00e0o \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 v\u00e0 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111au n\u00e0o \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. T\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, c\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u t\u1ea1o sao c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c qu\u00ean c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi, qu\u00ean c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nhu c\u1ea7u v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c nh\u1edb c\u00e1i ng\u00e3. Nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y nhu c\u1ea7u th\u00ec \u0111\u1ea1t t\u1edbi n\u00f3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c.<\/p>\n<p>Ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb c\u00e1i ng\u00e3? C\u1ed1 hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y: ai l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfp c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh c\u00f3 nhu c\u1ea7u cho vi\u1ec7c nh\u1edb c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 n\u1ea3y sinh? Nhu c\u1ea7u ghi nh\u1edb th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3 trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t \u00edt ng\u01b0\u1eddi trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd m\u00e0 nhu c\u1ea7u nh\u1edb c\u00e1i ng\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. Khi n\u00e0o nhu c\u1ea7u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra?<\/p>\n<p>N\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua m\u1ecdi kinh nghi\u1ec7m th\u00e2n th\u1ec3, b\u1ea1n nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m c\u00e1c thu x\u1ebfp g\u00ec cho n\u00f3, kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a th\u00e2n th\u1ec3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n cung c\u1ea5p ph\u01b0\u01a1ng ti\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i n\u00e0o, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m ra bao nhi\u00eau k\u1ebf ho\u1ea1ch \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, kh\u00f4ng tia s\u00e1ng hay n\u1ed1t h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y. Khi ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u1eadn ra \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a anh ta \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh kh\u1ed5&#8230;<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 kh\u1ed5 t\u1eeb m\u1ed9t th\u1ee9, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t g\u00ec &#8211; v\u00ec hi v\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 s\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1eeb c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c v\u1eabn c\u00f2n s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u1ed9ng. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 m\u01b0\u1eddi lo\u1ea1i kh\u1ed5 kh\u00e1c nhau, th\u1ebf th\u00ec hi v\u1ecdng cho m\u01b0\u1eddi lo\u1ea1i s\u01b0\u1edbng xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n s\u00e1t c\u1ea1nh ch\u00fang, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ee9 ch\u1ea1y kh\u1eafp \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00f3. B\u1ea1n bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i s\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0y v\u00ec n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 bi\u1ebfn th\u00e0nh kh\u1ed5 nh\u01b0ng b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u t\u00ecm ki\u1ebfm lo\u1ea1i s\u01b0\u1edbng kh\u00e1c. Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 khi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 &#8211; \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao Ph\u1eadt \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 &#8211; ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 khi to\u00e0n th\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 kh\u1ed5 m\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng v\u00ec c\u00f3 kh\u1ed5 duy nh\u1ea5t \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, sao kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm b\u00ean trong v\u00e0 xem c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3? Khi m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u quay v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra c\u00f3 xu h\u01b0\u1edbng quay ra ngo\u00e0i. Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 ch\u1ec9 th\u1ec9nh tho\u1ea3ng, sau khi \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1ea3i qua kinh nghi\u1ec7m s\u1ed1ng s\u00e2u s\u1eafc m\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 quay v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong. L\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y d\u00e0nh cho vi\u1ec7c quay v\u00e0o b\u00ean trong n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1ec9 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i l\u00e0 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. Ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u1ee7a ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3i tho\u00e1t t\u1ed1i th\u01b0\u1ee3ng. Ch\u1ec9 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. V\u00e0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 ngay c\u1ea3 khi ch\u00fang ta d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 ham mu\u1ed1n c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong, \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 v\u1edd v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i b\u00ean trong &#8211; th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i ham mu\u1ed1n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 d\u00e0nh cho c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i.<\/p>\n<p>M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi, &#8220;N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang t\u00f4i thi\u1ec1n, li\u1ec7u ch\u00fang t\u00f4i c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u ti\u1ec7n nghi v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u00e1p \u1ee9ng h\u01a1n kh\u00f4ng?&#8221; C\u00f3 ham mu\u1ed1n r\u1eb1ng thi\u1ec1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0m t\u0103ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i v\u1eadt ch\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta. M\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1edbi t\u00f4i v\u00e0 h\u1ecfi li\u1ec7u, n\u1ebfu h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u thi\u1ec1n, h\u1ecd c\u00f3 th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng. H\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft h\u1ecd \u0111ang n\u00f3i g\u00ec!<\/p>\n<p>Thi\u1ec1n ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5t b\u1ea1i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n. Vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra r\u1eb1ng th\u00e0nh c\u00f4ng kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i l\u00e0 s\u1ef1 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a thi\u1ec1n. Thi\u1ec1n ch\u1ec9 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 d\u1ea7n bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00e1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c n\u00f3i t\u1edbi trong th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i. V\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c hay kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c kh\u00f4ng n\u1ea3y sinh; c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i kh\u00f4ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i. Khi \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb v\u1ee1 tan. th\u1ebf th\u00ec v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 thi\u1ec1n n\u1ea3y sinh.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y \u1ea3o t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1eabn ch\u01b0a b\u1ecb tan v\u1ee1. H\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 th\u1eed \u1edf b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i theo m\u1ecdi c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u00e0 h\u1ecd \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i n\u00e0y. Nh\u01b0ng \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng r\u1eb1ng c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 t\u1eeb b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i, cho n\u00ean h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 l\u1ebd n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu l\u1ea5y qua thi\u1ec1n &#8211; &#8220;Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y cho thi\u1ec1n vi\u1ec7c th\u1eed.&#8221; Nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i v\u00e0o thi\u1ec1n, m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd l\u00e0 v\u00e0o c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n d\u1ed3n v\u00e0o c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o ham mu\u1ed1n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i, b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ti\u1ebfn b\u1ed9 n\u00e0o tr\u00ean cu\u1ed9c h\u00e0nh tr\u00ecnh t\u00e2m linh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n nh\u1edb l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u201cTi\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a im l\u1eb7ng\u201d, Ch.5 Ham mu\u1ed1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00e1i \u1edf b\u00ean trong \u00f4ng<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Ng\u00f4n ng\u1eef c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o c\u00f3 h\u01a1i ch\u00fat th\u00e1ch \u0111\u1ed1. 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