{"id":3222,"date":"2026-03-30T11:36:02","date_gmt":"2026-03-30T11:36:02","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3222"},"modified":"2026-03-30T11:36:02","modified_gmt":"2026-03-30T11:36:02","slug":"kho-va-bat-hanh","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/?p=3222","title":{"rendered":"Kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>T\u00ecm trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n \u00e1c v\u00e0 xo\u00e1 b\u1ecf n\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>N\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trong l\u00f2ng<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed s\u00f9ng k\u00ednh c\u0169ng nh\u01b0 trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi ham mu\u1ed1n<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft n\u00f3<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1ecb \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh qua nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng, v\u00e0 trong nhi\u1ec1u ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i vi\u1ec7c thu th\u1eadp kh\u1ed5. V\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u1ecbnh n\u00e0y \u0111ang \u0111\u1ea9y b\u1ea1n l\u1eb7p \u0111i l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o trong v\u00f2ng kh\u1ed5. T\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t ngh\u0129a v\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y: s\u1ed1ng v\u1edbi th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 v\u1ebb h\u01a1i k\u00ec l\u1ea1. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nghe n\u00f3i t\u1edbi \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a n\u00e0y tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y, r\u1eb1ng t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. T\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 v\u1eady? \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u00ec m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u00e0 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng tr\u00e1nh kh\u1ecfi t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c c\u0169ng b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. T\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i ng\u1ee5 \u00fd g\u00e2y ra b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c.<\/p>\n<p>Nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh chuy\u00ean gia trong ngh\u1ec7 thu\u1eadt l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. L\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3? N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh? Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh \u2013 v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng theo c\u00e1ch b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng. B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 chuy\u00ean gia l\u1edbn v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd bi\u1ebft m\u1ecdi th\u1ee7 \u0111o\u1ea1n v\u00e0 chi\u1ebfn l\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ee7a vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh trong nhi\u1ec1u t\u00ecnh hu\u1ed1ng kh\u00e1c nhau. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, cho d\u00f9 c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi ch\u1ea3y kh\u1eafp quanh b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eabn xoay x\u1edf t\u00ecm ra m\u1ed9t g\u00f3c \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c \u2013 v\u00ec ch\u1ec9 th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. V\u00e0 c\u00f5i tr\u1eddi l\u00e0 hi\u1ec7n t\u1ea1i v\u00e0 \u0111ang ch\u1ea3y kh\u1eafp quanh b\u1ea1n, nh\u01b0ng d\u1ea7u v\u1eady b\u1ea1n v\u1eabn xoay x\u1edf \u0111\u1ec3 kh\u00e1m ph\u00e1 ra \u0111\u1ecba ng\u1ee5c trong n\u00f3!<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u1ec3 g\u00e2y kh\u1ed5 trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ea1n c\u1ea7n l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. L\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. Cho n\u00ean ngh\u0129a n\u1ec1n t\u1ea3ng c\u1ee7a t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 g\u00e2y kh\u1ed5 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n. Ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh kh\u1ed5 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. V\u00e0 ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ed5 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n m\u00ecnh s\u1ebd l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ea7y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n chia s\u1ebb n\u00f3 v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u2013 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00e0ng chia s\u1ebb h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng t\u0103ng h\u01a1n.<\/p>\n<p>T\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c? \u2013 v\u00ec ch\u00fang ta r\u1ea5t b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng l\u00e0m cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta, ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fat \u00edt x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac duy nh\u1ea5t ch\u00fang ta bi\u1ebft. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u1ed5 nhi\u1ec1u h\u01a1n b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5, b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y ch\u00fat \u00edt x\u00fac \u0111\u1ed9ng v\u1ec1 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u2013 nh\u01b0ng n\u00f3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ed1i n\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1eady v\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 xoay x\u1edf t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh h\u01a1n trong ai \u0111\u00f3 g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n, kh\u1ed5 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 nh\u1ecf \u0111i trong so s\u00e1nh.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao ch\u00fang ta li\u00ean t\u1ee5c t\u1ea1o ra nhi\u1ec1u kh\u1ed5 th\u1ebf kh\u1eafp xung quanh ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u1ed3ng b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh; anh ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o anh ta ch\u01b0a th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 kh\u1ed5. V\u1ee3 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho ch\u1ed3ng c\u00f4 \u1ea5y b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, b\u1ed1 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho con anh ta b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, con b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho b\u1ed1 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. To\u00e0n th\u1ec3 x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 m\u1ea1ng kh\u1ed5 trong \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m cho l\u1eabn nhau b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. V\u00e0 khi ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u00e3 t\u1ea1o ra v\u0169ng kh\u1ed5 kh\u1eafp quanh ch\u00fang ta, \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf gi\u1eefa ch\u00fang, ch\u00fang ta th\u1edf d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng h\u01a1n ch\u00fat \u00edt khi ngh\u0129, &#8220;Kh\u00f4ng sao, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh nh\u01b0 nhi\u1ec1u ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ebf \u0111ang b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh!&#8221;<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 th\u1ebf th\u00ec trong khi b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n ch\u00fang ta b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n g\u00e2y kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, ch\u00fang ta qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t kh\u1ed5 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh. Ch\u00fang ta tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c t\u1edbi m\u1ee9c ch\u00fang ta qu\u00ean m\u1ea5t lo ngh\u0129 ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n g\u00e2y kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3, h\u1ecd d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n h\u1ecd. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch qu\u00ean b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00ednh t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i l\u00e0 g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ed5 cho b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>T\u00ecm trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n \u00e1c v\u00e0 xo\u00e1 b\u1ecf n\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 chi\u1ebfm gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n, n\u00e9m n\u00f3 ra ngo\u00e0i \u2013 ch\u00ednh kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc \u0111\u00f3. Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i c\u00f3 v\u1edbi n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ea3y theo n\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed3ng nh\u1ea5t v\u1edbi n\u00f3. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 b\u1eaft gi\u1eef b\u1ea1n, ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c n\u00e9m n\u00f3 ra v\u00e0 t\u00ecm kh\u1eafp xung quanh b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 ni\u1ec1m vui. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mi\u1ec5n kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mi\u1ec5n kh\u1ecfi vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i trong cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c b\u1ea1n tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 l\u00ed do t\u1ea1i sao t\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh h\u1ed3n \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh b\u1eb1ng vi\u1ec7c cho t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n. T\u00f4i kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n x\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1n ch\u00f9a, nh\u00e0 th\u1edd h\u1ed3i gi\u00e1o, gi\u00e1o \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng Do Th\u00e1i <em>gurudwaras, <\/em>b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u1ea5t thi\u1ebft l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1eefa l\u00e0 t\u1edbi t\u1eeb xu h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 x\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1n ch\u00f9a \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh cho ai \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ngh\u00ecn ru pi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng hai tr\u0103m ngh\u00ecn ru pi \u2013 v\u00ec ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh l\u1edbn h\u01a1n b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a h\u00e0ng x\u00f3m c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng g\u00e2y t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng cho anh ta.<\/p>\n<p>T\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 nghe n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t xu. Nh\u01b0ng \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n \u2013 s\u1ef1 t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta n\u1ed5i ti\u1ebfng kh\u1eafp xung quanh \u2013 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd c\u00fang d\u01b0\u1eddng cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t xu. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai trong l\u00e0ng \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0m vi\u1ec7c thu th\u1eadp ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n, h\u1ecd \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean ph\u1ea3i \u0111i t\u1edbi \u00f4ng ta. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y th\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee9a cho m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m ngh\u00ecn, hai tr\u0103m ngh\u00ecn, n\u1eeda tri\u1ec7u ru pi \u2013 v\u00e0 v\u00ec \u00f4ng ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho s\u1ed1 ti\u1ec1n n\u00e0y, \u00f4ng ta ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd h\u1ee9a m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tu\u1ef3 ti\u1ec7n. V\u00e0 khi \u00f4ng ta \u0111\u00e3 vi\u1ebft ra n\u1eeda tri\u1ec7u ru pi, th\u1ebf th\u00ec t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea7u kh\u00e1c trong l\u00e0ng ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1ecb b\u1eaft l\u1eeda b\u1edfi ghen t\u1ecb v\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u1eefa ph\u1ea3i cho. \u00d4ng ta kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec. \u00d4ng ta s\u1ebd vi\u1ebft ra n\u1eeda tri\u1ec7u ru pi, v\u00e0 k\u00ed t\u00ean m\u00ecnh \u2013 v\u00e0 \u0111\u00e2y \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00f3ng g\u00f3p duy nh\u1ea5t c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta cho vi\u1ec7c t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea7u trong l\u00e0ng s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 v\u00ec l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 th\u1ea5y nh\u1eefng ki\u1ec3u ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y \u1edf m\u1ecdi l\u00e0ng. V\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi thu ti\u1ec1n t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n \u0111\u1ea7y nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi n\u00e0y bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 hai hay ba c\u00e1i t\u00ean \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 trong danh s\u00e1ch. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec, n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n ai \u0111\u00f3, l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 tr\u1ecdng c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb ch\u00e2m ch\u00edch v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ph\u1ea3i cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3. Ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin b\u00ecnh th\u01b0\u1eddng c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y v\u00e0 tr\u01b0\u1edbc khi anh ta \u0111i \u0103n xin, anh ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ec3 v\u00e0i \u0111\u1ed3ng ti\u1ec1n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh trong b\u00ecnh b\u00e1t, v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec, khi anh ta l\u1eafc b\u00ecnh v\u00e0 l\u00e0m xu k\u00eau leng keng, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 cho anh ta c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 cho d\u00f9 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng cho anh ta b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb \u0111\u01b0a v\u00e0o ph\u00e9p th\u1eed. N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 cho c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y gi\u1ed1ng nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi t\u00fang qu\u1eabn \u1edf tr\u01b0\u1edbc ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin \u2013 v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0m t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>Ngay c\u1ea3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0103n xin c\u0169ng bi\u1ebft kh\u00f4ng l\u1ea1i g\u1ea7n b\u1ea1n khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh, nh\u01b0ng tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi anh ta s\u1ebd xin v\u00e0 ch\u1ea1m ch\u00e2n b\u1ea1n, v\u00ec tr\u01b0\u1edbc b\u1ed1n ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 v\u1ec1 l\u00f2ng t\u1ef1 h\u00e0o. \u0110\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra ghen t\u1ecb v\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, b\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd cho t\u1eeb thi\u1ec7n. B\u1ea1n th\u1eadm ch\u00ed s\u1ebd x\u00e2y \u0111\u1ec1n ch\u00f9a \u0111\u1ec3 g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ed5 cho ai \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c b\u1ea5t h\u1ea1nh, nh\u01b0ng th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh t\u1ed9i.<\/p>\n<p>Ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh v\u00ec khi b\u1ea1n ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m, ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c \u0111i theo t\u1eeb n\u00f3. Ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0m ch\u01b0a t\u1ea1o ra ph\u00fac l\u1ea1c, bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 ch\u00ednh r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh \u2013 v\u00ec c\u00e1c t\u1ea3ng \u0111\u00e1 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i c\u1ea3n tr\u1edf d\u00f2ng ch\u1ea3y \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean nh\u1edb m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u: b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang r\u01a1i v\u00e0o th\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed9 kh\u1ed5, v\u1edbi b\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u00ed do n\u00e0o, \u0111\u1eebng ng\u1ea7n ng\u1ea1i \u2013 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 n\u00f3 ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, n\u00e9m n\u00f3 ra. Kh\u00f4ng th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u1edbi n\u00f3, cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc, v\u00ec n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n d\u1eebng l\u1ea1i cho d\u00f9 m\u1ed9t kho\u1ea3nh kh\u1eafc, kh\u1ed5 s\u1ebd \u0111i v\u00e0o v\u00e0 lan r\u1ed9ng r\u1ec5 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n. Cho n\u00ean d\u0169ng c\u1ea3m l\u1edbn l\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u1ea7n t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n<p>L\u1eddi kinh n\u00f3i:<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p><em>Ch\u1ec9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1ea1nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 gi\u1ebft ch\u1ebft n\u00f3<\/em><\/p>\n<p><em>Ng\u01b0\u1eddi y\u1ebfu ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u1ee3i s\u1ef1 l\u1edbn l\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, ch\u1ebft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t y\u1ebfu. Ch\u00fang ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y y\u1ebfu ngay c\u1ea3 v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c n\u00e9m kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta ra. L\u00ed do cho \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 g\u00ec? \u2013 v\u00ec \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd xu\u1ea5t hi\u1ec7n l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n kh\u1ed5 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng n\u00e9m ra b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec g\u00e2y ra kh\u1ed5 cho ch\u00fang ta. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng, ch\u00fang ta th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 tr\u1edf n\u00ean th\u00e2n thi\u1ebft v\u1edbi kh\u1ed5 c\u0169 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta; ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh gia \u0111\u00ecnh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u01b0ng t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t ph\u1ee9c t\u1ea1p. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecb \u1ed1m \u0111au v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 l\u00e0 b\u1ec7nh ch\u00ednh v\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i b\u1ea1n \u0111i kh\u00e1m b\u00e1c s\u0129 v\u00e0 \u00f4ng \u1ea5y b\u1ea3o b\u1ea1n r\u1eb1ng \u0111\u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i c\u1ea3m c\u00fam, t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1ea5t t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng. Vi\u1ec7c \u0111i kh\u00e1m l\u00e0 v\u00f4 t\u00edch s\u1ef1! T\u00e2m tr\u00ed kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 khi b\u00e1c s\u0129 n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng ch\u1eb3ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 \u0111\u00e1ng lo ngh\u0129. M\u1ed9t b\u1ec7nh nh\u1ecf cho m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i nh\u01b0 b\u1ea1n sao? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i ph\u1ea3i c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh v\u0129 \u0111\u1ea1i ch\u1ee9! T\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, ngay c\u1ea3 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u1ecfi, b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 ch\u00fang. Nh\u01b0ng ngh\u0129 l\u1ea1i v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i, v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc kh\u00f4ng th\u00edch \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 \u2013 v\u00ec l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 s\u1ed1ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n? B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh r\u1ea5t tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f3c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u1edb g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 m\u1eafng nhi\u1ebfc th\u1eadm t\u1ec7? B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd v\u1eaby c\u1edd n\u00e0o n\u1ebfu m\u1ecdi b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb l\u1ea5y \u0111i kh\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n? B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 r\u1ed7ng to\u00e0n b\u1ed9 \u2013 nh\u00e0n r\u1ed7i, th\u1ea5t nghi\u1ec7p. M\u1ecdi kinh doanh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd \u0111i t\u1edbi k\u1ebft th\u00fac. B\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc \u0111\u1ed9t nhi\u00ean c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0o th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 v\u00f4 ngh\u0129a. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0m g\u00ec?<\/p>\n<p>Ngay b\u00e2y gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u th\u1ee9 \u0111\u1ec3 ph\u00e0n n\u00e0n, cho n\u00ean ng\u00e0y tr\u00f4i qua d\u1ec5 d\u00e0ng. M\u00e3i cho t\u1edbi gi\u1edd b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 l\u1ea5y m\u1ed1i quan t\u00e2m l\u1edbn trong th\u1ea3o lu\u1eadn v\u1ec1 c\u00e1c phi\u1ec1n mu\u1ed9n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng? \u2013 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n ch\u1eafc s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng s\u1eb5n l\u00f2ng cho m\u1ecdi b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n b\u1ea5t ng\u1edd tan bi\u1ebfn v\u1edbi c\u00e1i v\u1eaby \u0111\u0169a th\u1ea7n?&#8230; V\u00ec b\u1ea1n ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 t\u1ed5ng c\u1ee7a m\u1ecdi b\u1ec7nh v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t&#8230;.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu tay c\u1ee7a ai \u0111\u00f3 b\u1ecb xi\u1ec1ng qu\u00e1 l\u00e2u, xi\u1ec1ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u cho c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ed3 trang s\u1ee9c. B\u1ec7nh c\u0169ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh c\u00e1ch s\u1ed1ng, ch\u00fang tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed1i b\u1eadn b\u1ecbu. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u1ed1m c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh; ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u1ed5 ch\u0103m nom kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh. N\u00f3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a c\u1ea3i.<\/p>\n<p>V\u00e0 trong khi t\u00f4i \u0111ang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi b\u1ea1n v\u1ec1 m\u1ecdi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, nh\u1edb trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 li\u00ean quan v\u1edbi t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 lu\u1eadt c\u1ee7a t\u00e2m tr\u00ed. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1eebng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u ngh\u0129 r\u1eb1ng &#8220;\u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 \u0111\u00fang cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111i\u00ean n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c nh\u01b0ng khi c\u00f3 li\u00ean quan t\u1edbi m\u00ecnh, m\u00ecnh th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.&#8221; N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n th\u1ef1c s\u1ef1 mu\u1ed1n bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m t\u1eeb l\u00e2u tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y r\u1ed3i. B\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u00f4m gi\u1eef ch\u00fang, cho n\u00ean b\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 ch\u0103m nom ch\u00fang. B\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng, ai k\u00e9o b\u1ea1n l\u00f9i l\u1ea1i? B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e1ng ra \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 n\u00e9m ch\u00fang ra ngo\u00e0i t\u1eeb l\u00e2u tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111\u00e2y r\u1ed3i. Kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ea3n b\u1ea1n, kh\u00f4ng ai l\u00e0m cho b\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5, nh\u01b0ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t lo\u1ea1i ph\u1ee9c c\u1ea3m n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ea1n, c\u00e1i b\u1ea3o v\u1ec7 cho kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>B\u00e2y gi\u1edd c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng th\u1eadm ch\u00ed c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o kh\u1ed5, r\u1eb1ng b\u1ea1n \u0111ang \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n. \u0110\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1ecf th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng khi n\u00f3 ng\u00e3 b\u1ec7nh m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean c\u1ea1nh n\u00f3 v\u00e0 vu\u1ed1t tr\u00e1n n\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3 \u1ed1m b\u1ed1 n\u00f3 n\u1eefa t\u1edbi th\u0103m n\u00f3 v\u00e0 v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3 \u1ed1m kh\u00f4ng ai m\u1eafng hay r\u1ea7y la n\u00f3, m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ea7y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau v\u1edbi n\u00f3. Khi n\u00f3 \u1ed1m n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c s\u1ef1 th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m v\u00e0 hi\u1ec3u t\u1eeb kh\u1eafp xung quanh. Cho n\u00ean m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y: r\u1eb1ng khi n\u00f3 \u1ed1m, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 d\u1ec5 ch\u1ecbu v\u00e0 t\u1ed1t nh\u01b0ng khi n\u00f3 kho\u1ebb, kh\u00f4ng ai t\u1edbi g\u1ea7n n\u00f3 hay v\u1ed7 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3 \u2013 b\u1ed1 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ch\u0103m nom t\u1edbi n\u00f3, m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng lo l\u1eafng v\u1ec1 n\u00f3 \u2013 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1eadn r\u1ed9n tr\u00e1ch m\u1eafng n\u00f3 v\u00e0 c\u1ed1 c\u1ea3i ti\u1ebfn n\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 c\u1ee9ng r\u1eafn.<\/p>\n<p>Cho n\u00ean kinh nghi\u1ec7m c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 sai trong vi\u1ec7c l\u00e0 m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb. C\u00f3 l\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1ed1t trong vi\u1ec7c ng\u00e3 b\u1ec7nh! Khi b\u1ea1n \u1ed1m to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 th\u00e2n thi\u1ec7n nh\u01b0ng khi b\u1ea1n m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb to\u00e0n th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u1ea1. Cho n\u00ean \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng b\u1ecb \u1ed1m b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u th\u00e0nh h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn t\u00e2m tr\u00ed \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb. T\u1eeb gi\u1edd tr\u1edf \u0111i trong cu\u1ed9c \u0111\u1eddi n\u00f3, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o n\u00f3 g\u1eb7p kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n v\u00e0 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi l\u00e0 l\u1ea1nh nh\u1ea1t v\u00e0 kh\u00f3 kh\u0103n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c mu\u1ed1n tr\u1edf n\u00ean \u1ed1m; v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o n\u00f3 c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y n\u00f3 \u0111ang thua cu\u1ed9c tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 b\u1ecb b\u1ecf l\u1ea1i to\u00e0n m\u1ed9t m\u00ecnh kh\u00f4ng b\u1ea1n b\u00e8 n\u00e0o, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n ng\u00e3 b\u1ec7nh. V\u00e0 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ao \u01b0\u1edbc th\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra.<\/p>\n<p>C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u00e2m l\u00ed n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng trong m\u1ed9t tr\u0103m b\u1ec7nh, ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ec7nh trong \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u00fang ta m\u1eddi t\u1edbi; v\u00e0 b\u1edfi v\u00ec ch\u00edn m\u01b0\u01a1i b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y, m\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ec7nh c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i s\u1ebd t\u00ecm ra c\u00e1ch \u0111i v\u00e0o n\u1eefa. V\u1ec1 c\u0103n b\u1ea3n, b\u1ea5t k\u00ec ai b\u1ea1n m\u1eddi s\u1ebd t\u1edbi. Kh\u00f4ng kh\u00e1ch n\u00e0o t\u1edbi nh\u00e0 b\u1ea1n m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c m\u1eddi. C\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft khi b\u1ea1n g\u1eedi l\u1eddi m\u1eddi, b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1edb r\u1eb1ng trong vi\u1ec7c ng\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi l\u1eddi m\u1eddi. Hay b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 g\u1eedi l\u1eddi m\u1eddi t\u1eeb nhi\u1ec1u n\u0103m tr\u01b0\u1edbc v\u00e0 kh\u00e1ch ch\u1ec9 m\u1edbi t\u1edbi \u2013 b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng nh\u1eadn bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 gi\u00e1ng xu\u1ed1ng b\u1ea1n v\u00e0 b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, th\u01b0\u01a1ng, y\u00eau \u2013 b\u1ea1n ng\u00e3 b\u1ec7nh. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u00e3 b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ec3 thu h\u00fat th\u00f4ng c\u1ea3m, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1eefa kh\u1ecfi b\u1ec7nh. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111i t\u1edbi b\u00e1c s\u0129, nh\u01b0ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd mu\u1ed1n v\u1eabn c\u00f2n b\u1ecb \u1ed1m. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00e0o \u1ed1m b\u1ec7nh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, r\u1eb1ng m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 kh\u00f4ng mu\u1ed1n b\u1ecb \u1ed1m n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i g\u00ec t\u1eeb n\u00f3? N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ng\u00e3 v\u00e0 m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3&#8230; n\u00f3 nh\u00ecn kh\u1eafp xung quanh t\u00ecm m\u1eb9. N\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng \u1edf g\u1ea7n, n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c. \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t k\u00ec l\u1ea1 \u2013 nh\u01b0ng b\u00e2y gi\u1edd kh\u00f3c s\u1ebd l\u00e0 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec \u0111\u1ec3 thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 trong \u0111\u00f3. N\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i g\u00ec t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 cho n\u00f3 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 l\u1ea1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. Cho n\u00ean \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb ph\u1ea3i nh\u00ecn quanh; n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng kh\u00f3c v\u00ec ng\u00e3 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o m\u1eb9 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00f3. N\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n th\u1ebf th\u00ec n\u00f3 kh\u00f3c kh\u00f4ng k\u00ecm \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. N\u1ebfu c\u00f4 \u1ea5y kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 quanh \u0111\u00f3, n\u00f3 b\u1ecf qua s\u1ef1 v\u1ee5 n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n<p>\u0110i\u1ec1u ng\u00e0y ng\u1ee5 \u00fd c\u00e1i g\u00ec? Th\u1ebf th\u00ec kh\u00f3c l\u00e0 v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ngh\u0129a trong vi\u1ec7c ch\u1ec9 kh\u00f3c. \u0110\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 c\u01a1 h\u1ed9i \u0111\u00fang, kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i g\u00ec c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1eeb vi\u1ec7c kh\u00f3c \u2013 n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb t\u1ed5n th\u01b0\u01a1ng b\u1edfi \u0111au. Kh\u1ed5 l\u00e0 m\u1ed9t ph\u1ea7n c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta, v\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 n\u1eefa! N\u1ebfu \u0111\u1ee9a tr\u1ebb nh\u1eadn ra m\u1eb9 n\u00f3, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f3c ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thu l\u1ea5y t\u1eeb \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u00e3 th\u1ea5y \u0111\u00e0n b\u00e0 ng\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac \u1edf nh\u00e0, bu\u00f4n chuy\u1ec7n. Khi ch\u1ed3ng v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0, m\u1eb7t h\u1ecd thay \u0111\u1ed5i, h\u1ecd b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u b\u1ecb \u0111au \u0111\u1ea7u, \u0111au l\u01b0ng, \u0111au b\u1ee5ng. R\u1eafc r\u1ed1i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 n\u00e0y kh\u00e1c b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u00e9o \u0111\u1ebfn! Nhi\u1ec1u r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i th\u1ebf b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u k\u00e9o \u0111\u1ebfn trong c\u00e1c b\u00e0 v\u1ee3 v\u1edbi vi\u1ec7c v\u1ec1 nh\u00e0 c\u1ee7a ch\u1ed3ng h\u1ecd! V\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i l\u00e0 d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 h\u1ecd c\u00f3 \u00fd th\u1ee9c hay gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1eefng b\u1ec7nh n\u00e0y. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 vi\u1ec7c \u0111\u1ea7u t\u01b0 v\u00f4 \u00fd th\u1ee9c \u2013 v\u00e0 ch\u00fang \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u1ea1o ra ch\u1ec9 b\u1edfi vi\u1ec7c th\u1ea5y \u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng!<\/p>\n<p>V\u1ee3 mu\u1ed1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c y\u00eau, v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ch\u1ed3ng n\u00e0o b\u1ea7y t\u1ecf t\u00ecnh y\u00eau cho v\u1ee3 m\u00ecnh ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o c\u00f4 \u1ea5y ch\u01b0a b\u1ecb \u1ed1m. N\u1ebfu v\u1ee3 \u1ed1m, y\u00eau ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c b\u00e0y t\u1ecf cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. N\u1ebfu anh ta kh\u00f4ng b\u00e0y t\u1ecf n\u00f3, th\u1ebf th\u00ec anh ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m. Cho n\u00ean v\u1ee3 ng\u00e3 b\u1ec7nh \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c m\u1eb7c c\u1ea3m \u0111\u00f3: &#8220;Tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u00e2y, em \u1ed1m th\u1ebf c\u00f2n anh l\u1ea1i \u0111i t\u1edbi c\u00e2u l\u1ea1c b\u1ed9! Em \u1ed1m th\u1ebf c\u00f2n anh m\u00ea m\u1ea3i thi\u1ec1n. Em \u1edf \u0111\u00e2y, \u1ed1m v\u00e0 n\u1eb1m b\u1eb9p gi\u01b0\u1eddng, c\u00f2n m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 anh l\u00e0m l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ecdc b\u00e1o hay s\u00e1ch \u2013 c\u00f2n em th\u00ec \u1ed1m th\u1ebf!&#8221; S\u00e2u b\u00ean d\u01b0\u1edbi trong v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111ang \u0111\u00f2i h\u1ecfi y\u00eau. B\u00e2y gi\u1edd r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3 l\u00e0m cho c\u00f4 \u1ea5y m\u1ea1nh kho\u1ebb v\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ea3i ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n \u1ed1m. \u0110\u00f3 l\u00e0 chuy\u1ec7n b\u00e1m v\u00edu c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0o kh\u1ed5 v\u00f4 th\u1ee9c, s\u00e2u c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00ec c\u00f4 \u1ea5y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c l\u1ee3i t\u1eeb kh\u1ed5.<\/p>\n<p>B\u1ea1n kh\u1ed5 v\u00ec b\u1ea1n c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 t\u1eeb n\u00f3. V\u00e0 ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i l\u1ee3i n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 trong kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c. Nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec thu \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c v\u00ec n\u00f3 l\u00e0 t\u1ef1 t\u1eed. V\u00e0 n\u1ebfu b\u1ea5t k\u00ec xu h\u01b0\u1edbng n\u00e0o h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi kh\u1ed5 n\u1ed5i l\u00ean b\u1ec1 m\u1eb7t, kh\u00f4ng th\u00e0nh v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 n\u00f3 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00e1m d\u1ed7 t\u1edbi \u0111\u00e2u \u2013 lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf n\u00f3 \u0111i, n\u00e9n n\u00f3 ra! M\u1ecdi h\u1ee9a h\u1eb9n n\u00e0y l\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 v\u00e0 \u0111ang l\u1eeba b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ti\u1ebfp t\u1ee5c g\u1ea1t b\u1ecf ham mu\u1ed1n v\u1ec1 kh\u1ed5 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd s\u1edbm th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u01a1i c\u00f3 th\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 gi\u1edd lu\u1ed3ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac s\u00f4i l\u00ean.<\/p>\n<p>H\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac ch\u1ec9 ngay g\u1ea7n b\u00e0n tay \u2013 b\u00ean trong b\u1ea1n \u0111\u1ea7y n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n ch\u01b0a b\u1ecf th\u00f3i quen l\u00e0 kh\u1ed5 n\u00e0y v\u00e0 c\u00e1ch th\u1ee9c t\u1eadn h\u01b0\u1edfng kh\u1ed5 c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n, nh\u1eefng lu\u1ed3ng h\u1ea1nh ph\u00fac n\u00e0y s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh s\u1eb5n c\u00f3 cho b\u1ea1n.<\/p>\n<p>&nbsp;<\/p>\n<p>T\u1eeb \u201cTi\u1ebfng n\u00f3i c\u1ee7a im l\u1eb7ng\u201d. Ch.2 Ham mu\u1ed1n s\u1ed1ng<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>T\u00ecm trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ed9i ngu\u1ed3n \u00e1c v\u00e0 xo\u00e1 b\u1ecf n\u00f3. N\u00f3 s\u1ed1ng m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trong l\u00f2ng c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ec7 t\u1eed s\u00f9ng k\u00ednh c\u0169ng &hellip; <\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":3,"featured_media":3223,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[21,15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-3222","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-quan-sat-nhan-biet","category-tam-tri"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3222","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/3"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=3222"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3222\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":3224,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/3222\/revisions\/3224"}],"wp:featuredmedia":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/media\/3223"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=3222"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=3222"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/oshovietnam.vn\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=3222"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}<br />
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