Quen c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u b\u00e1o tr\u01b0\u1edbc cho quen c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta v\u1edbi c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u. Thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u00e1c.<\/p>\n
L\u00e3o T\u1eed l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i \u1edf ch\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u1ea7u nh\u01b0ng theo chi\u1ec1u kh\u00e1c. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i: “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u01b0 v\u1eady m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u.” Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u00f9ng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9 ng\u01b0\u1eddi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta tr\u1ea3i nghi\u1ec7m c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u. Th\u1ef1c ra, n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 x\u1ea5u ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1eefa. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed1 l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u00e1c hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n b\u00ean trong ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ham mu\u1ed1n l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n n\u1ebfu ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u00e1c.<\/p>\n
Theo L\u00e3o T\u1eed – v\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t c\u00f3 \u00fd ngh\u0129a – “Thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u r\u1ed3i; \u0111<\/em>\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft l\u00e0nh l\u00e0 l\u00e0nh, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0nh r\u1ed3i<\/em>.” Ch\u00fang ta h\u00e3y hi\u1ec3u \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 theo c\u00e1ch n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta nh\u00ecn l\u1ea1i v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u1ed5 \u0111\u1ea1i, tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi, khi con ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f2n trong tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu y\u00ean t\u0129nh, ch\u1ea5t ph\u00e1c v\u00e0 t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y vi\u1ec7c hi\u1ec3u v\u1ec1 x\u1ea5u n\u1eefa. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng th\u1ea5y ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb l\u00e0m h\u01b0 h\u1ecfng, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n ra t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n v\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh.<\/p>\n \u0110i\u1ec1u L\u00e3o T\u1eed \u0111ang c\u1ed1 gi\u1ea3i th\u00edch trong l\u1eddi kinh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 c\u00e1c ki\u1ebfp s\u1ed1ng c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh v\u1edbi nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean. N\u1ebfu c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng tr\u1edf n\u00ean qu\u00e1 h\u0103ng h\u00e1i tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh th\u1eadt th\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng c\u00e1c th\u00e0nh vi\u00ean c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean r\u1ea5t kh\u00f4ng th\u1eadt th\u00e0. N\u1ebfu b\u1ed1 m\u1eb9 d\u1ea1y con c\u00e1i c\u1ee7a h\u1ecd r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3i ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ec9 ra r\u1eb1ng t\u00ednh ch\u00e2n l\u00ed t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean b\u1ecb thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng trong x\u00e3 h\u1ed9i v\u00e0 t\u00ednh phi ch\u00e2n l\u00ed \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh tr\u1eadt t\u1ef1 c\u1ee7a th\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Ch\u00fang ta bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng nh\u1ea5n m\u1ea1nh \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u0111\u00e3 hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n.” N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta b\u1ea3o con c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta “Kh\u00f4ng n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i”, \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ch\u1ee9ng t\u1ecf r\u1eb1ng t\u00ednh phi ch\u00e2n l\u00ed \u0111anh th\u1ecbnh h\u00e0nh chi ph\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta b\u1ea3o ch\u00fang l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c th\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u00e0 \u0111\u00e3 tr\u1edf n\u00ean b\u1eaft r\u1ec5 v\u1eefng ch\u1eafc b\u00ean trong ch\u00fang ta.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t chuy\u1ec7n k\u1ec3 cu\u1ed9c g\u1eb7p g\u1ee1 gi\u1eefa L\u00e3o T\u1eed v\u00e0 Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed. Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c l\u1edbn nh\u1ea5t tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian – nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o. \u00d4ng ta \u1edf trong s\u1ed1 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 t\u1eebng b\u1eadn t\u00e2m v\u1edbi v\u1ea5n \u0111\u1ec1 l\u00e0m sao l\u00e0m cho con ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n. Khi \u00f4ng \u1ea5y nghe n\u00f3i r\u1eb1ng L\u00e3o T\u1eed l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi r\u1ea5t t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, \u0111i\u1ec1u t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean l\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta h\u00e1o h\u1ee9c g\u1eb7p \u00f4ng n\u00e0y. \u00d4ng ta y\u00eau c\u1ea7u L\u00e3o T\u1eed khuy\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 th\u1ef1c th\u00e0, r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd kh\u00f4ng n\u00ean \u0103n c\u1eafp v\u00e0 h\u1ecd n\u00ean k\u00ecm l\u1ea1i th\u00f4i th\u00fac \u0103n c\u1eafp, r\u1eb1ng h\u1ecd ph\u1ea3i tr\u00e1nh xa gi\u1eadn v\u00e0 ph\u1ea3i tha th\u1ee9, v\u00e0 l\u00e0m sao b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp.<\/p>\n Ng\u1ed3i b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i l\u1ec1u c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, L\u00e3o T\u1eed \u0111\u00e1p: “L\u00e0m sao ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1c? Khi c\u00f3 \u00e1c, th\u1ebf th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n. Ta bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng khuy\u00ean m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00e1ch kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 \u00e1c, ta kh\u00f4ng lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh. Ta h\u00ecnh dung tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i trong \u0111\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n l\u00e0nh c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ph\u00e1t hi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o bi\u1ebft \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ai l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n?”<\/p>\n Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i, “Ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u1ea1y l\u00e0 th\u1ef1c th\u00e0 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u00e0,” \u00f4ng ta l\u1eb7p l\u1ea1i. L\u00e3o T\u1eed \u0111\u00e1p, “Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u00e0 t\u0103ng l\u00ean t\u1eeb ng\u00e0y \u00f4ng b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 th\u1ef1c th\u00e0. Ta tr\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee3i ng\u00e0y m\u00e0 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n n\u00f3i t\u1edbi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u00e0.” Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed v\u1eab kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o hi\u1ec3u n\u1ed5i \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Kinh n\u00e0y l\u00e0 kh\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0o, v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 ngh\u0129 thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00e1c l\u00e0 hai ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t kh\u00e1c nhau v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp v\u00e0 r\u1eb1ng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta ph\u1ea3i ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 \u00e1c v\u00e0 g\u00ecn gi\u1eef thi\u1ec7n. Trong khi L\u00e3o T\u1eed x\u00e1c nh\u1eadn r\u1eb1ng thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00e1c l\u00e0 hai m\u1eb7t c\u1ee7a c\u00f9ng m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 c\u00e1i n\u00e0y thi\u00ean v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i kia. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n b\u1ecf c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecf c\u00e1i kia. Ch\u00fang c\u1ea3 hai b\u1ecb b\u1ecf c\u00f9ng nhau. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n gi\u1eef c\u00e1i n\u00e0y, c\u00e1i kia t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n gi\u1eef thi\u1ec7n, \u00e1c s\u1ebd c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i trong b\u1ed1i c\u1ea3nh, v\u00ec thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1c. N\u1ebfu b\u1ea1n mu\u1ed1n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1ef1c th\u00e0, b\u1ea1n ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 l\u00e0m v\u1eady n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u00e0.<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 c\u00e1i g\u00ec \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1ng suy ng\u1eabm k\u0129: N\u1ebfu kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng th\u1ef1c th\u00e0 tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, li\u1ec7u c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 t\u00f4n vinh ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u1eadt th\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng? Li\u1ec7u s\u1ebd c\u00f3 k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng n\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n? \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta mu\u1ed1n k\u00ednh tr\u1ecdng th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n, t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i hi\u1ec7n di\u1ec7n r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u, v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh m\u1ed9t trong nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u huy\u1ec1n b\u00ed c\u1ee7a cu\u1ed9c s\u1ed1ng l\u00e0 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng n\u00f3i ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n! \u00d4ng ta h\u1ea7u nh\u01b0 kh\u00f4ng bi\u1ebft r\u1eb1ng s\u1ef1 th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn m\u00e0 \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c ch\u1ec9 l\u00e0 do k\u1ebb t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i. Th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i trong vi\u1ec7c thi\u1ebfu v\u1eafng c\u1ee7a t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n; s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta ch\u1ec9 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 \u1edf quanh v\u00e0 do t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n.<\/p>\n L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian khi kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 d\u1ea5u hi\u1ec7u c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n.” L\u1eddi c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng \u1ea5y l\u00e0 r\u1ea5t s\u00e2u s\u1eafc. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i c\u00f3 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian khi \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft t\u1edbi, khi thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nghe th\u1ea5y, khi kh\u00f4ng bu\u1ed5i gi\u1ea3ng \u0111\u1ea1o n\u00e0o n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, khi kh\u00f4ng ai c\u1ed5 v\u0169 m\u1ecdi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ch\u1ed1ng l\u1ea1i b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh. Khi b\u1ea5t b\u1ea1o h\u00e0nh \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh v\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tuy\u00ean b\u1ed1 l\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, thu\u1ed9c t\u00ednh \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp \u0111i v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu – trong \u0111\u1ed9 l\u1edbn \u0111\u1ea7y \u0111\u1ee7 c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n L\u00e3o T\u1eed b\u1ea3o Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed: “T\u1ea5t c\u1ea3 c\u00e1c \u00f4ng l\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi thi\u1ec7n c\u1ee7a th\u1ebf gian th\u1ea3nh th\u01a1i v\u00e0 an b\u00ecnh \u0111i. D\u1eebng m\u1ecdi vi\u1ec7c n\u00f3i v\u1ec1 thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00f4ng s\u1ebd th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu \u00f4ng \u0111\u1ee7 m\u1ea1nh \u0111\u1ec3 bu\u00f4ng b\u1ecf thi\u1ec7n n\u1eefa, \u00e1c s\u1ebd t\u1ef1 n\u00f3 s\u1ee5p \u0111\u1ed5.\u201d Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u00f4ng \u1ea5y. Kh\u00f4ng nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c n\u00e0o hi\u1ec3u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c L\u00e3o T\u1eed, v\u00ec \u00f4ng ta ngh\u0129 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y s\u1ebd l\u00e0m cho m\u1ecdi s\u1ef1 t\u1ed3i t\u1ec7. Nh\u01b0 n\u00f3 v\u1eady, \u00f4ng ta c\u1ea3m th\u1ea5y b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u00f4ng ta v\u1edbi n\u1ed7 l\u1ef1c l\u1edbn v\u00e0 thuy\u1ebft ph\u1ee5c, xoay x\u1edf gi\u1eef g\u00ecn \u0111\u1ee9c h\u1ea1nh. L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Khi \u00f4ng c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef c\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n, c\u00e1c \u00e1c t\u1ef1 \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c gi\u1eef l\u1ea1i.” Hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c k\u1ebft n\u1ed1i. Kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 n\u00e0o gi\u1eef b\u1ea5t k\u00ec m\u1ed9t trong hai \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Ho\u1eb7c c\u1ea3 hai s\u1ebd c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i ho\u1eb7c kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i n\u00e0o c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i.<\/p>\n L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i: “Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i c\u1ee7a t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00e1i n\u00e0o t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.” Tr\u1ea1ng th\u00e1i n\u00e0y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 “\u0110\u1ea1o \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n (kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb ki\u1ec1m ch\u1ebf).” \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y \u00f4ng \u1ea5y th\u01b0\u1eddng g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 c\u00f5i t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, c\u00f5i t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean. N\u1ebfu m\u1ed9t ng\u01b0\u1eddi ho\u00e0n to\u00e0n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c th\u00edch nghi b\u00ean trong b\u1ea3n t\u00ednh c\u1ee7a m\u00ecnh, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00e1c. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u0111\u00e1nh gi\u00e1 \u1edf \u0111\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng ki\u1ec3m duy\u1ec7t, kh\u00f4ng ca ng\u1ee3i, kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng x\u1ea5u. \u1ede \u0111\u00f3, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang v\u1eady.<\/p>\n Do \u0111\u00f3 \u0111i\u1ec1u l\u00fac n\u00e0o c\u0169ng x\u1ea3y ra l\u00e0 khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi ta \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c tr\u00e0n \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1edbi c\u1ea3m gi\u00e1c v\u1ec1 c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u d\u1eb1n v\u1eb7t ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 b\u00ean trong theo cng m\u1ee9c \u0111\u1ed9. \u00dd th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 vi\u1ec7c c\u1ea3m trong c\u1ea3 hai tr\u01b0\u1eddng h\u1ee3p n\u00e0y b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u v\u00e0o c\u00f9ng l\u00fac. N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i n\u00f3i: “C\u1ee9 nh\u01b0 v\u1eady l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p,” th\u1ebf th\u00ec m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn v\u1edbi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh x\u1ea5u. H\u01a1i ch\u00fat quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh v\u1ec1 m\u1ed9t ph\u00eda g\u00e2y ra k\u1ebft qu\u1ea3 trong quy\u1ebft \u0111\u1ecbnh t\u01b0\u01a1ng \u0111\u01b0\u01a1ng trong ph\u01b0\u01a1ng \u00e1n kia. Do \u0111\u00f3 L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Thi\u00ean h\u1ea1 \u0111\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft t\u1ed1t l\u00e0 t\u1ed1t, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u r\u1ed3i; \u0111<\/em>\u1ec1u bi\u1ebft l\u00e0nh l\u00e0 l\u00e0nh, th\u00ec \u0111\u00e3 c\u00f3 c\u00e1i ch\u1eb3ng l\u00e0nh r\u1ed3i<\/em>.”<\/p>\n \u0110\u00e2y l\u00e0 l\u1eddi kinh r\u1ea5t kh\u00f3. N\u00f3 ng\u1ee5 \u00fd r\u1eb1ng n\u1ebfu ch\u00fang ta \u01b0\u1edbc ao c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi, vi\u1ec7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn n\u00f3 l\u00e0 nh\u01b0 th\u1ebf, l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u00fang. Th\u1ef1c ra kh\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c th\u1eeba nh\u1eadn n\u00e0o l\u00e0 th\u00edch h\u1ee3p v\u00ec th\u1ebf th\u00ec gi\u00e1 tr\u1ecb c\u1ee7a x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ednh t\u1edbi.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu ai \u0111\u00f3 h\u1ecfi b\u1ea1n, “\u0110\u1eb9p l\u00e0 g\u00ec?” C\u00e2u tr\u1ea3 l\u1eddi kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1ed5i c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd l\u00e0 – “C\u00e1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u.” \u0110\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 x\u1ea5u. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c mang t\u1edbi b\u00ean trong \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a v\u1ec1 th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n, c\u0169ng nhi\u1ec1u nh\u01b0 x\u1ea5u l\u00e0 c\u1ea7n thi\u1ebft \u0111\u1ec3 h\u00ecnh th\u00e0nh n\u00ean bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi cho vi\u1ec7c nh\u1eadn ra \u0111\u1eb9p.<\/p>\n Cho n\u00ean L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i: “Khi \u0111\u1eb9p kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, n\u00f3 c\u00f3 r\u1ea5t nhi\u1ec1u \u1edf \u0111\u00f3 nh\u01b0ng kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e1n nh\u00e3n l\u00e0 v\u1eady. Khi \u0111\u1eb9p t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u00ean, th\u1ebf th\u00ec x\u1ea5u kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111i v\u00e0o hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu. T\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 khi thi\u1ec7n kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c d\u00e1n nh\u00e3n l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n, khi n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00f4n k\u00ednh l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n, khi n\u00f3 th\u1eadm ch\u00ed kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nh\u1eadn ra l\u00e0 thi\u1ec7n, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o cho \u00e1c t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i.” C\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean, c\u00f3 \u0111\u1eb9p b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean. Nh\u01b0ng thi\u1ec7n n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi b\u1eb1ng c\u00e1i t\u00ean \u0111\u00f3, m\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p c\u0169ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bi\u1ebft l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, v\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 c\u00e1ch n\u00e0o di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t nh\u1eefng \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y. Im l\u1eb7ng l\u00e0 c\u00e1ch duy nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ec3 di\u1ec5n \u0111\u1ea1t ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i v\u1edbi Kh\u1ed5ng T\u1eed: “\u00d4ng v\u1ec1 \u0111i! C\u00e1c nh\u00e0 t\u01b0 t\u01b0\u1edfng \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00e3 l\u00e0m bi\u1ebfn d\u1ea1ng th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. C\u00e1c \u00f4ng l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng k\u1ebb g\u00e2y h\u1ea1i! V\u1ec1 \u0111i v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee7 nh\u00e2n t\u1eeb \u0111\u1eebng lo ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1ea1o \u0111\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a con ng\u01b0\u1eddi! C\u00e1c \u00f4ng c\u00e0ng c\u1ed1 l\u00e0m cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi th\u00e0nh thi\u1ec7n th\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u00e1c.”<\/p>\n Khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean n\u00f3i cho con trai r\u1eb1ng n\u00f3i ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 c\u00f3 t\u00ednh t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o, trong m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3, \u0111\u1ee9a con trai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0o v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 g\u00ec v\u00e0 phi ch\u00e2n l\u00ed l\u00e0 g\u00ec. Khi l\u1ea7n \u0111\u1ea7u ti\u00ean \u00f4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i cho n\u00f3 r\u1eb1ng d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i, trong m\u1ecdi kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 c\u00f3 n\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng g\u00ec v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i; v\u00e0 ch\u00ednh l\u1eddi khuy\u00ean c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi b\u1ed1 r\u1eb1ng ‘d\u1ed1i tr\u00e1 l\u00e0 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i’, l\u00e0 nguy\u00ean nh\u00e2n cho s\u1ef1 h\u1ea5p d\u1eabn kh\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a \u0111\u1ee9a con h\u01b0\u1edbng t\u1edbi t\u00ednh gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i. N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 \u0111\u1ee9a con \u0111\u00e3 n\u00f3i d\u1ed1i tr\u01b0\u1edbc \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y, n\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0m \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch c\u00f3 d\u1ee5ng \u00fd. N\u00f3 \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng thu nh\u1eadn tri th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 t\u00ednh gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i m\u00e0 c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 v\u1ebd ra m\u1ed9t \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng v\u1ec1 t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i b\u00ean trong t\u00e2m tr\u00ed n\u00f3. Nh\u01b0ng gi\u1edd ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u, gi\u1edd n\u00f3 s\u1ebd ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t gi\u1eefa ch\u00e2n l\u00ed v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n Khi hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 v\u1ec1 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed v\u00e0 gi\u1ea3 d\u1ed1i t\u0103ng l\u00ean, t\u00ednh \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n c\u1ee7a \u00fd th\u1ee9c c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 b\u1ecb ph\u00e1 hu\u1ef7 v\u00e0 nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra. Nh\u01b0ng ch\u00fang ta c\u1ed1 g\u1eafng t\u1ea1o ra nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean kh\u1eafp xung quanh ch\u00fang ta v\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng ngh\u0129 g\u00ec v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 v\u00ec t\u1ed1t l\u00e0nh m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0m v\u1eady.<\/p>\n L\u00e3o T\u1eed l\u00e0 nh\u00e0 c\u00e1ch m\u1ea1ng l\u1edbn t\u1eeb quan \u0111im n\u00e0y. \u00d4ng \u1ea5y n\u00f3i: “\u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y l\u00e0 \u00e1c. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o ch\u00fang ta cho sinh ra c\u00e1i \u00e1c \u0111\u00f3 l\u00e0 v\u1edbi c\u00e1i c\u1edb v\u00ec thi\u1ec7n.” Th\u1ef1c t\u1ea1i, \u00e1c kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra m\u1ed9t c\u00e1ch tr\u1ef1c ti\u1ebfp. B\u1ea5t k\u00ec khi n\u00e0o c\u00e1i \u00e1c \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c sinh ra, n\u00f3 \u0111i c\u00f9ng v\u1edbi c\u00e1i c\u1edb v\u00ec c\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Ch\u00fang ta bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u1edf ngo\u00e0i \u0111\u1ec3 t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n khi ch\u00fang ta t\u1ea1o ra c\u00e1i \u00e1c.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 m\u1ed9t th\u1ed5 d\u00e2n – ng\u01b0\u1eddi nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7. Anh ta s\u1ed1ng trong r\u1eebng r\u1eadm. Anh ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 hi\u1ec3u bi\u1ebft v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang ta c\u00f3, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tri th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 x\u1ea5u. Anh ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t thu\u1ed9c b\u1ea5t k\u00ec lo\u1ea1i n\u00e0o. Anh ta c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c y\u00eau m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng mang c\u1ea3 \u0111\u1eb9p hay x\u1ea5u v\u00e0o. Anh ta c\u0169ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c y\u00eau c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta coi nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Anh ta c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c y\u00eau c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta coi nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1eefa. Y\u00eau c\u1ee7a anh ta kh\u00f4ng t\u1ea1o ra bi\u00ean gi\u1edbi. Anh ta c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau t\u1ea5t c\u1ea3. \u00dd t\u01b0\u1edfng v\u1ec1 \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u \u0111\u00e3 kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n b\u00ean trong anh ta. Ch\u00ednh ch\u00fang ta l\u00e0 nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi ph\u00e1t tri\u1ec3n c\u00e1c \u00fd t\u01b0\u1edfng n\u00e0y. Ch\u00fang ta t\u00e1ch b\u1ea1ch c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u. V\u00e0 th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i m\u1ed9t \u0111i\u1ec1u r\u1ea5t th\u00fa v\u1ecb x\u1ea3y ra. Ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ngay c\u1ea3 y\u00eau c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, trong khi ng\u01b0\u1eddi nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7, kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 b\u1ea5t k\u00ec quan ni\u1ec7m n\u00e0o, v\u1eabn c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c y\u00eau ngay c\u1ea3 c\u00e1i ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 ‘x\u1ea5u!’ Ch\u00fang ta ngh\u0129 ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, cho n\u00ean ch\u00fang ta t\u00e1ch b\u1ea1ch c\u00e1i k\u1ec7ch c\u1ee1m ra kh\u1ecfi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p. Th\u1ebf r\u1ed3i ch\u00fang ta th\u1ea5y, ch\u00fang ta kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng y\u00eau c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p n\u1eefa!\u00a0 T\u00e2m tr\u00ed b\u1ecb ch\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ea7y v\u1edbi nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c y\u00eau.<\/p>\n C\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u00e1i x\u1ea5u, t\u1ea1o n\u00ean m\u1ed9t c\u1eb7p. C\u00e1i b\u1ea1n coi nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u00e0m sao n\u00f3 s\u1ebd v\u1eabn c\u00f2n \u0111\u1eb9p \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c? Ch\u00ednh \u0111i\u1ec1u bu\u1ed3n c\u01b0\u1eddi l\u00e0 c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u m\u00e3i m\u00e3i nh\u01b0ng c\u00e1i b\u1ea1n g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng c\u00f2n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p sau m\u1ed9t th\u1eddi gian n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3. Th\u1ebf th\u00ec b\u1ea1n \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c c\u00e1i g\u00ec? B\u1ea1n c\u00f3 bao gi\u1edd ngh\u0129 v\u1ec1 \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y kh\u00f4ng? C\u00e1i b\u1ea1n \u0111\u00e3 qui l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u, v\u1eabn c\u00f2n l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u m\u00e3i m\u00e3i. C\u00e1i b\u1ea1n coi nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p h\u00f4m nay, m\u1ea5t \u0111i c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 sau v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y. Chung cu\u1ed9c t\u00e2m tr\u00ed c\u01b0\u1ee1i l\u00ean nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng m\u1ecdi c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p. Kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 g\u00ec ngo\u00e0i t\u00ednh x\u1ea5u r\u00f3t \u0111\u1ea7y trong n\u00f3.<\/p>\n C\u00f3 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 n\u00e0y, c\u00e1i kh\u00f4ng v\u1ebd ra ph\u00e2n bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0o gi\u1eefa \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u v\u00e0 c\u00f3 ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u0169ng c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 y\u00eau c\u00e1i m\u00e0 ch\u00fang ta coi l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. V\u00e0 v\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 c\u00f3 n\u0103ng l\u1ef1c y\u00eau, m\u1ecdi th\u1ee9 tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh \u0111\u1eb9p cho ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3. Nh\u1edb, ch\u00fang ta ch\u1ec9 y\u00eau c\u00e1i l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. Sau v\u00e0i ng\u00e0y, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p tan ch\u1ea3y, bi\u1ebfn m\u1ea5t. S\u1ef1 thu h\u00fat kh\u00f4ng quen thu\u1ed9c c\u1ee7a c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p, l\u1eddi m\u1eddi c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i. Khi \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y x\u1ea3y ra, y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta s\u1ebd \u0111\u1ee9ng \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u?<\/p>\n Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 y\u00eau v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 truy\u1ec1n c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p cho b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 y\u00eau. Hi\u1ec3u s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t n\u00e0y: Ch\u00fang ta y\u00eau c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p b\u1ecb m\u1ea5t \u0111i trong th\u1eddi gian ng\u1eafn – n\u1ec1n \u0111\u1ea5t cho y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang ta \u0111\u1ee9ng l\u00e0 \u1edf \u0111\u00e2u? Ng\u01b0\u1eddi nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 y\u00eau tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft v\u00e0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 y\u00eau b\u1ea5t k\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec, ng\u01b0\u1eddi \u0111\u00f3 th\u1ea5y c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p \u1edf \u0111\u00f3. Ph\u1ea9m ch\u1ea5t ri\u00eang bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a y\u00eau l\u00e0: \u1edf ch\u1ed7 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n n\u00f3, n\u00f3 t\u0103ng l\u00ean t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y v\u00e0 n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3 c\u00e0ng ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt t\u0103ng l\u00ean.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau b\u1ea1n v\u00ec b\u1ea1n l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, y\u00eau n\u00e0y s\u1ebd ng\u00e0y c\u00e0ng \u00edt h\u01a1n nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu t\u00f4i \u0111\u00e3 y\u00eau b\u1ea1n v\u00ec y\u00eau th\u00f4i, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd t\u0103ng l\u00ean t\u1eebng ng\u00e0y m\u1ed9t. N\u1ebfu y\u00eau \u0111\u1ee9ng tr\u00ean ch\u00e2n ri\u00eang c\u1ee7a n\u00f3, n\u00f3 n\u1edf hoa; n\u1ebfu n\u00f3 t\u00ecm s\u1ef1 h\u1ed7 tr\u1ee3 c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi kh\u00e1c, n\u00f3 nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh qu\u00e8 v\u00e0 ng\u00e3. V\u1eady m\u00e0, \u0111\u00e2y l\u00e0 \u0111i\u1ec1u ch\u00fang ta v\u1eabn c\u1ee9 l\u00e0m. Do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang ta ph\u1ea3i d\u00f9ng c\u00e1c thu\u1eadt ng\u1eef \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 tri th\u1ee9c v\u1ec1 nh\u1eefng t\u1eeb n\u00e0y.<\/p>\n T\u00e2m tr\u00ed nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 h\u01a1i gi\u1ed1ng th\u1ebf n\u00e0y: ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 c\u00f3 hai con trai. M\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p, \u0111\u1ee9a kia th\u00ec kh\u00f4ng nh\u01b0ng v\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p nh\u01b0 nhau. V\u1edbi ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, m\u1ed9t \u0111\u1ee9a l\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 \u0111\u1ee9a kia l\u00e0 x\u1ea5u. Ch\u00fang c\u1ea3 hai \u0111\u1ec1u l\u00e0 con c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y v\u00e0 do \u0111\u00f3 ch\u00fang l\u00e0 \u0111\u1eb9p. C\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang n\u1ed5i l\u00ean t\u1eeb s\u1ef1 ki\u1ec7n r\u1eb1ng ch\u00fang l\u00e0 con trai c\u1ee7a c\u00f4 \u1ea5y. Tr\u01b0\u1edbc h\u1ebft, c\u00f3 t\u00ecnh y\u00eau c\u1ee7a ng\u01b0\u1eddi m\u1eb9, v\u00e0 t\u1eeb t\u00ecnh y\u00eau n\u00e0y, c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang s\u00e1ng l\u00ean. T\u00e2m tr\u00ed nguy\u00ean thu\u1ef7 m\u00e0 L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i t\u1edbi l\u00e0 t\u00e2m tr\u00ed s\u1ed1ng trong s\u1ef1 \u0111\u01a1n gi\u1ea3n t\u1ef1 nhi\u00ean, b\u00ean ngo\u00e0i c\u1eb7p c\u00e1c c\u00e1i \u0111\u1ed1i l\u1eadp v\u00e0 s\u1ef1 kh\u00e1c bi\u1ec7t c\u1ee7a ch\u00fang.<\/p>\n V\u1eady L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i: “C\u00e1i \u00e1c kh\u00f4ng b\u1ecb tr\u1eeb ti\u1ec7t ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o \u00f4ng c\u00f2n c\u1ed1 gi\u1eef c\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n, \u00f4ng s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 kh\u1ea3 n\u0103ng ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t c\u00e1i \u00e1c.” T\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n ph\u1ea3i b\u1ecb ti\u00eau di\u1ec7t nh\u01b0ng ch\u1eebng n\u00e0o b\u1ea1n c\u00f2n hoan ngh\u00eanh th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n, t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n nh\u1ea5t \u0111\u1ecbnh c\u00f2n l\u1ea1i. C\u00f3 m\u1ea1ng l\u01b0\u1edbi r\u1eafc r\u1ed1i b\u00ean trong \u0111i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y n\u1eefa. Th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u0169ng quan t\u00e2m r\u1eb1ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gi\u1edbi. C\u00e0ng c\u00f3 nhi\u1ec1u t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n, s\u00e1ng ch\u00f3i c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n s\u1ebd c\u00e0ng l\u1edbn h\u01a1n, v\u00ec \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 ch\u1ec9 tr\u00edch h\u1ecd, l\u1ea1m d\u1ee5ng h\u1ecd; \u00f4ng ta c\u00f3 th\u1ec3 b\u1eaft \u0111\u1ea7u m\u1ed9t phong tr\u00e0o \u0111\u1ec3 mang t\u1edbi thay \u0111\u1ed5i trong h\u1ecd, \u00f4ng ta s\u1ebd lao \u0111\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ec3 c\u1ea3i t\u1ea1o h\u1ecd – \u00f4ng ta s\u1ebd c\u00f3 c\u00f4ng vi\u1ec7c n\u00e0o \u0111\u00f3 \u0111\u1ec3 l\u00e0m.<\/p>\n Nh\u01b0ng n\u1ebfu c\u00f3 c\u1ed9ng \u0111\u1ed3ng tr\u00ean th\u1ebf gian n\u00e0y trong \u0111\u00f3 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n, th\u1ebf th\u00ec nh\u1eefng ng\u01b0\u1eddi c\u00f3 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c nu\u00f4i n\u1ea5ng \u1ea5p \u1ee7 nh\u00e2n danh t\u00ednh th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n, s\u1ebd ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c tr\u1edf th\u00e0nh v\u00f4 d\u1ee5ng v\u00e0 b\u1ea5t l\u1ef1c. H\u1ecd s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 ch\u1ed7 \u0111\u1ee9ng. \u0110i\u1ec1u n\u00e0y d\u01b0\u1eddng nh\u01b0 l\u00e0 m\u00e2u thu\u1eabn, nh\u01b0ng d\u1eabu sao \u0111\u00fang l\u00e0 b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n n\u1edf hoa ch\u1ec9 khi c\u00f3 nh\u00f3m t\u1ed9i nh\u00e2n quanh \u00f4ng ta. \u0110i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3 c\u0169ng h\u1ec7t nh\u01b0 ng\u01b0\u1eddi gi\u1ea7u vui s\u01b0\u1edbng trong s\u1ef1 gi\u1ea7u c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta ch\u1ec9 khi c\u00f3 ngh\u00e8o kh\u1eafp quanh \u00f4ng ta. L\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i l\u1edbn cho s\u1ef1 vui th\u00fa ch\u1ec9 khi n\u00f3 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao quanh m\u1ecdi ph\u00eda b\u1edfi c\u00e1c ph\u00f2ng ngh\u00e8o n\u00e0n. Vui th\u00fa c\u1ee7a l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i kh\u00f4ng ph\u1ee5 thu\u1ed9c v\u00e0o b\u1ea3n th\u00e2n l\u00e2u \u0111\u00e0i m\u00e0 v\u00e0o c\u00e1i kh\u1ed5 v\u00e0 \u0111au trong v\u00f9ng bao quanh n\u00f3 g\u1ed3m c\u00e1c nh\u00e0 g\u1ed7. Vui th\u00fa c\u1ee7a th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n kh\u00f4ng \u1edf t\u00ednh th\u00e1nh nh\u00e2n c\u1ee7a \u00f4ng ta, m\u00e0 trong s\u1ee9c m\u1ea1nh c\u1ee7a b\u1ea3n ng\u00e3 t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y trong so s\u00e1nh n\u1ed5i b\u1eadt v\u1edbi t\u00ednh t\u1ed9i l\u1ed7i.<\/p>\n L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “B\u1ecf c\u1ea3 hai \u0111i. Ch\u00fang ta g\u1ecdi l\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 thi\u1ec7n v\u00e0 \u00e1c.\u201d N\u00f3i chung \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c \u0111\u1ecbnh ngh\u0129a l\u00e0 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 tuy\u1ec7t \u0111\u1ed1i kh\u00e1c. B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “T\u00f4n gi\u00e1o ng\u1ee5 \u00fd \u0111i\u1ec1u thi\u1ec7n. “L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng.\u201d B\u1ea1n s\u1ebd n\u00f3i t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 c\u00e1i c\u00f3 tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng t\u1ed1t, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed. Nh\u01b0ng L\u00e3o T\u1eed s\u1ebd n\u00f3i “kh\u00f4ng”; v\u00ec n\u01a1i c\u00f3 ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, c\u0169ng c\u00f3 phi ch\u00e2n l\u00ed, n\u01a1i c\u00f3 tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng t\u1ed1t c\u0169ng c\u00f3 tri\u1ec3n v\u1ecdng x\u1ea5u. Cho n\u00ean L\u00e3o T\u1eed n\u00f3i, “N\u01a1i c\u1ea3 hai kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3, n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean, n\u01a1i t\u00e2m tr\u00ed l\u00e0 tr\u1ed1ng r\u1ed7ng nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean v\u00e0 \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c thi\u1ebft l\u1eadp trong c\u00e1i m\u1ed9t kh\u00f4ng ph\u00e2n chia, n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 m\u1ed9t li ph\u00e2n t\u00e1ch, c\u00f3 t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o.” Cho n\u00ean v\u1edbi L\u00e3o T\u1eed, t\u00f4n gi\u00e1o l\u00e0 si\u00eau vi\u1ec7t – n\u01a1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed1i kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 s\u00e1ng.<\/p>\n N\u1ebfu nh\u01b0 ch\u00fang n\u00f3i v\u1edbi L\u00e3o T\u1eed r\u1eb1ng Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf l\u00e0 s\u00e1ng, \u00f4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd ph\u1ee7 nh\u1eadn \u0111i\u1ec1u \u0111\u00f3. “Th\u1ebf th\u00ec c\u00e1i g\u00ec x\u1ea3y ra cho t\u1ed1i?” \u00d4ng \u1ea5y s\u1ebd h\u1ecfi.<\/p>\n “N\u00f3 s\u1ebd \u0111i \u0111\u00e2u?” Th\u1ebf th\u00ec Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf c\u1ee7a b\u1ea1n s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng bao gi\u1edd \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao quanh b\u1edfi t\u1ed1i v\u00ec s\u00e1ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c bao quanh b\u1edfi t\u1ed1i.<\/p>\n Nh\u1edb, s\u00e1ng bao gi\u1edd c\u0169ng b\u1ecb bao quanh b\u1edfi t\u1ed1i. S\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng th\u1ec3 hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu m\u00e0 kh\u00f4ng c\u00f3 t\u1ed1i. Th\u1eafp chi\u1ebfc \u0111\u00e8n nh\u1ecf v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng c\u1ee7a n\u00f3 s\u1ebd b\u1ecb bao quanh m\u1ecdi ph\u00eda b\u1edfi \u0111\u1ea1i d\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ed1i. Ch\u00ednh l\u00e0 \u1edf gi\u1eefa t\u1ed1i m\u00e0 s\u00e1ng t\u1ed3n t\u1ea1i. Lo\u1ea1i b\u1ecf t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng s\u1ebd m\u1ea5t \u0111i ngay l\u1eadp t\u1ee9c; n\u00f3 s\u1ebd kh\u00f4ng \u0111\u01b0\u1ee3c t\u00ecm th\u1ea5y \u1edf b\u1ea5t k\u00ec \u0111\u00e2u. L\u00e3o T\u1eed s\u1ebd n\u00f3i, “Kh\u00f4ng, Th\u01b0\u1ee3ng \u0111\u1ebf kh\u00f4ng l\u00e0 s\u00e1ng. Ng\u00e0i l\u00e0 \u1edf ch\u1ed7 m\u00e0 c\u1ea3 t\u1ed1i v\u00e0 s\u00e1ng kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu; n\u01a1i thuy\u1ebft nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean v\u00e0 nh\u1ecb nguy\u00ean kh\u00f4ng hi\u1ec7n h\u1eefu.”<\/p>\n <\/p>\n T\u1eeb \u201cCon \u0111\u01b0\u1eddng \u0110\u1ea1o\u201d, T.1, Ch.5 T\u1ef1 do kh\u1ecfi bi\u1ebfn thi\u00ean t\u01b0\u01a1ng t\u1ef1 – c\u00e1i \u0111\u1eb9p v\u00e0 c\u00e1i thi\u1ec7n